【海納百川 有容乃大】(English writing below)
姐妹們，你們看到我眼中的無奈嗎？
做我這行，為夫妻看風水時，遇到一方相信，一方不相信，是司空見慣的事。有些禮貌比較差的，會直接以藐視的眼神全程看著我，對話時也是有一句沒一句的。
我一貫的作風，就是以事實來證明玄學的準，把對方的一些小事情，他們沒告訴我而我卻知道的事說出來，讓他們認識玄學非迷信。
迷於不信玄學，卻從來沒去研究，盲人摸象般地急於否定，其實才是真迷信。
有一次，我告訴一位男客人，就算他不相信我的專業，大家有緣見面，可以當是認識一個新朋友，交流意見和看法，無需像刺蝟一樣的對待一個風水命理師。這裡沒有人要害你，更沒有閒情要這麼做。
禮貌，是一個人的善良表現。不要因為自己不苟同他人的行業，就以為自己有權力去對他人無禮。
世界會有戰爭，就是因為人忘了要尊敬他人。
這個世界很大，把心房打開，才能有海納百川般的胸懷。
但這類的客人從來沒讓我心累......
偶爾看風水時，我先生會隨行做護花使者，但我甚少會讓他進門。
那天看風水，在客人的允許下，破例給他進來。
離開客人的家後，我問他我表現如何。沒想到，他異常地對我讚不絕口，說我句句都說到重點，而且解釋清晰、理智、細膩，讓客人認識玄學之餘，又能解決他們的問題。
他問我，我自己不認為我表現好嗎？
我回他，我從來不對自己滿意，永遠都覺得我可以更好。
然後，他就很興奮地冒出一句：「如果以後我的朋友遇到這樣的問題，我一定推薦他們來找你！」
那一天，我體會到什麼是萬箭穿心的感覺。
一個陌生人可以從網路上認識我，而選擇僱用我。
我現在明白為何那麼多年來，老公從來沒有介紹過人來找我。
沒想到原來不相信我的人，竟然是枕邊人。💔
沒事，沒事，海納百川嘛，有容乃大啊⋯⋯
老公，最近覺得你有點腫，可能吃太好了。那這裡半盤豆苗你吃，其他的我幫你吃，待會吃草吃完了，先去結帳哦～～
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Dear sisters, can you see the powerless look in my eyes?
In my line of work, when doing Feng Shui audits, it is common to meet couples whereby one party believes and the other does not.
For those with poor manners, they will look at me with discrimination in their eyes throughout the whole session, and during conversations, their replies are often random.
My usual way of managing such situations is to use facts to prove the accuracy of Chinese Metaphysics. I will tell them things about their lives which I know, so that they will know that this ancient knowledge is nowhere near woo woo talk.
To be obsessed about not believing Chinese Metaphysics, yet with no proper research done is like a blind man touching the elephant. That, to me, is true superstition.
Once, I told a male client: Even if he did not believe in my profession, since we have the affinity to meet, he could see it as making a new friend and exchanging ideas and opinions.
There was no need to behave like a porcupine towards a practitioner like me. No one is here to harm you. No one has the time either.
Courtesy exemplifies a person’s level of kindness. Just because you disagree with a person’s choice of profession, do not assume you have the right to be rude towards the person.
There are wars fought in this world, because people forget to respect others.
This world is huge. Only when you open up your heart, will you be able to have the mental capacity of the sea which can holds water from a hundred rivers.
But clients like these have never made me feel emotionally tired before.
Occasionally, for my Feng Shui audits, the Husband will come along to be a “Flower Protector”. However, I rarely let him enter my client’s home.
The other day, with the kind permission of my Feng Shui client, I made an exception to let him in.
Upon departure, I asked him to rate my performance. Unexpectedly, he praised me, saying that I hit all the important points and my explanation was clear, logical and detailed. The clients were able to understand more about Chinese Metaphysics and got their problems solved at the same time.
The Husband then asked me, whether I thought I performed well.
I replied that I would never be satisfied with myself as I always think I could do better.
Then he excitedly blurted, “If I have friends who have similar problems, I would definitely recommend you to them!”
That was the day I experienced what it felt like to have a million arrows piercing Ng heart.
A stranger can find me from the Internet, make the effort to know me and choose to engage me.
Now I finally understand why all these years, the husband had never introduced anyone to seek my services.
So the person who has not been believing in me is my bedmate. 💔
Never mind, it’s okay. Be like the sea that can hold the water of a hundred rivers...great is the person who has the capacity to tolerate...
Darling, you are looking swollen nowadays. Must be having too much good food recently. Come, this half plate of dou miao is for you. I will help you eat the rest. After you finish eating grass, don’t forget to settle the bill~~
