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''啊~怎麼又是一首悲傷的歌?''
因為我是個傷心女紙 QQ
(開玩笑的)
寫歌對我來說是一種治療負面情緒的方式。
周圍有很多人不喜歡自己有負面情緒,選擇去壓抑它們。不過我完全無法,我真的會爆炸。
分享個小故事;曾經在朝九晚五的工作上選擇去壓抑對經理的不滿。人家畢竟是經理嗎!做錯了事下面的人敢講出來還是吃虧啊(親身體驗呵呵)。當時壓力大到某一天全身長麻疹!超可怕!去檢查時說我不要那麼stress就會好。結果一辭職,就沒了~神不神奇,驚不驚喜!
我們永遠被慣俗需要擁有樂觀態度一切就會沒事的。我覺得是很toxic的BS。
對我而言,學會理解自己的負面情緒的複雜性並且接受自己會有這些情緒時,情況才會變得更好。
而且你們知道嗎,唱歌時我們會釋放內啡肽!(這個單詞我是有查一下的哦)
也就是所謂的快樂荷爾蒙!
飆高音的九九 > 大哭的九九要好 = 大家也好過一點 = happy九九
《靈魂》是我搬回加拿大時,感到憤怒和絕望時寫的。 寫作過程真的幫助我了許多,讓我去消化當初的無奈感。不然我可能會選擇喝一大堆酒或抽菸之類的,誰知道啊!至少寫歌是個健康的出氣筒哈哈哈
其實不是不會寫開心的歌,只是現在的我需要的就是把創作當作治療的方式,所以寫出來的大部分也就是這些啦。真心謝謝大家願意聽我的日記!
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'Why do you keep writing sad songs?'
Because I’m a sadgirl :(
All kidding aside, songwriting has been my way of dealing with life. I feel things intensely, so I can’t bottle it up, repress it, and go on with my day.
(Or I can repress them, and get hives breakouts all over. True story from my previous 9-5 job with PainInTheAss Manager. Spoiler alert; I quit & my skin immediately went back to normal.)
I know society often tells us that being positive will make things better. That’s such BS and so toxic lol.
Things get better for me when I learn to understand the complexity of my negative emotions AND when I’m finally ok with the fact that I have these emotions.
Did you know that singing releases endorphins? AKA happy hormones! Me belting is better than me crying = better 4 u = fun 4 me
Soul was written when I was feeling angry and hopeless when I first moved back home. The writing process helped me cope so much. Other alternatives probably would’ve been drinking and smoking, who knows. #sinner
Not that I can’t write happy songs, but as of now, I need songwriting to help me through stuff. So thanks for listening to my diary.
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【壓力山大】男人較少將壓力問題宣之於口
⭐從生活習慣可窺探壓力嚴重程度
⭐小心用錯減壓方法
#星期六隻眼閉
減壓方法大拆解
男人來到了四、五十歲,人生的道路走了一半,有說是幸福感最少的時候,因為隨着年紀漸長,體力下降,打波打到半場已虛脫,凌晨起身睇波都見吃力;髮際線後退,脂肪有增無減,容貌亦開始顯露歲月痕跡;事業上打拼多年壓力增加,家庭開銷亦有增無減⋯⋯壓力大到身心俱疲時,您有用以下的減壓方法嗎?
⚠️飲酒
輕則放工後小酌一杯,嚴重的甚至借酒消愁,適量及配合體質飲酒可和氣行血,但飲酒過量容易於體內聚濕、生痰、化熱,影響肝脾正常運作,要適可宜止。
⚠️吸煙
不少人因為壓力大而開始吸煙,覺得吸煙過程很紓壓,甚至能有助放鬆排便!其實是錯覺,吸煙過後壓力依然存在,更會對身體造成損害,得不償失。
⚠️瘋狂購物
購物減壓不是女人的專利,亦有男人遇上壓力大時喜歡購物減壓,尤其網購盛行,以致經常購買不必要的物品,小心紓緩心理壓力後卻增加經濟壓力。
⚠️暴飲暴食
用吃來紓壓是很常見的方式,而且會偏好選擇高脂、高熱量的食物,透過食物慰藉心靈,但卻會帶來肥胖、高血脂等問題。
⚠️熬夜打機
不少男人放工後都會打機減壓,甚至打到通宵達旦,第二天上班當然無精神,長遠更會打亂生理時鐘,損耗身體津液,出現口乾、五心煩熱、大便偏乾等陰虛症狀。
中醫理論認為肝主情志,不良情緒會傷肝,肝功能失調會導致肝鬱,出現頭痛、多嘆氣、打嗝或放屁、胃痛、大便不調、失眠等症狀。所以減壓要疏肝,適量食用蓮藕、白蘿蔔、絲瓜、陳皮等疏肝理氣食材,或者飲用玫瑰花、茉莉花、佛手、洋甘菊茶有助氣血運行,進行運動也有助減壓。
✔ CheckCheckCin茶療推介:火龍果玫瑰茶
材料:紅火龍果、冰糖、蜂蜜、玫瑰花、檸檬及白毫烏龍
功效:疏肝解鬱,潤腸通便,適合大便不暢、有壓力、經常嘆氣、暗啞肌膚人士。
注意:適合月經前飲用;月經期間、孕婦不宜。
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Are these the best ways to relieve stress?
When men reach the age of 40 or 50, they are about halfway through their journey in life. As they grow older, they might start to feel a decrease in stamina and might not perform well in sports. They might even have a hard time staying up late to watch their favourite sports match.
Some might also troubled by their receding hairline, the accumulation of fats in their body, and changes in their facial appearance. To add fuel to the fire, stress at work and the rising cost of living can also take a toll on their mental health. Have you tried the following methods to cope with stress?
⚠️Drinking booze
While some might enjoy a glass of beer after work, some would resort to alcoholism to escape from the harsh reality they face daily. Consuming an appropriate amount of alcohol according to your body constitution can improve the circulation of qi and blood, but excessive drinking can cause heat and dampness to accumulate in the body, induce phlegm production, affect the functions of the liver and spleen. It is important to practice self-control when consuming alcohol.
⚠️Smoking
Many people might take a puff at a cigarette to de-stress, and some even think it can help them pass stool more easily. It is in fact just an illusion! Smoking will only cause damage to your body, and you will still feel stressed even after smoking.
⚠️Going on a shopping spree
Some men would go on a shopping spree to reduce their stress. The convenience of online shopping encourages us to make impulsive purchases of items we do not need. Shopping can be stress-relieving, but it could also cause further financial distress if we are not mindful of our spending.
⚠️Binge eating
It is common for us to eat to release stress, and we tend to opt for foods that are high in fats and calories. Binge eating can lead to obesity and an increase in our cholesterols in the long run.
⚠️Late-night gaming
Men may play games to reduce stress after work, and some might even pull an all-nighter. It then becomes difficult for them to focus on work the next morning. Staying up late to play games disrupts our biological clock in the long run. Not only does this lifestyle exhaust the fluid in the body, it can also cause individuals to develop yin-deficient symptoms such as dry mouth, dry stools, and irritability.
According to the Chinese Medicine theories, the liver governs the emotions. Negative emotions can hurt the liver, and when the functions of the liver are affected, individuals may experience headache, burp or flatulence, stomachache, difficulty in passing motion, insomnia, and excessive sighing.
To soothe the liver, consume an appropriate amount of lotus root, white radish, luffa and dried citrus peel or drink rose tea, jasmine tea, bergamot tea, and chamomile tea to improve circulation of qi and blood. Doing our favourite sporting activity can also help relieve stress.
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Ingredients: Water, Dragon Fruit Juice, Rock Sugar, Honey, Rose, Lemon Juice Concentrate, Oolong Tea
Effects: Relieves stress, moistens the bowels to relieve constipation. Suitable for difficulty passing stool, stress, frequent sighs, and dull complexion.
Note: To relieve menstrual discomfort, have this tea 3-7 days before period. Not suitable for menstruating and pregnant women.
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⭐長期飲食不節的後果
⭐容易誘發冠心病腦中風等致命病症
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飲食不節慎防三高
朱先生:「最近做身體檢查,醫生說我在『三高』邊緣,如何解決這個中年危機?」
CheckCheckCin:「三高」即高血壓、高血糖及高血脂,可說是都市人的富貴病,長期飲食不節,經常進食高脂肪、高糖份、高鹽份食物,再加上缺乏運動、壓力大、作息不正常等因素,令各種身體指數超標。西醫會以各種藥物來降低血壓、血糖及血脂,而從中醫角度來看需要改善體質,必須改變生活習慣,才能從根源上緩解「三高」症狀。一般來說痰濕、血瘀及陰虛體質人士比較容易患上「三高」,因為痰濕體質人士脾氣虛弱,水液運化失調;血瘀體質人士則血脈不通;陰虛體質人士作息顛倒容易令血壓上升。
想改善「三高」情況,宜諮詢註冊中醫師對症下藥調理體質,飲食上宜清淡,多菜少肉,減少外食或加工食品,避免進食高脂肪、高糖份、高鹽份的食物;養成定期做運動的習慣,一星期最少三次,每次最少30分鐘,強度以輕微出汗為宜;避免晚睡熬夜;尋找合適的減壓方法,因為焦慮不安等負面情緒也會導致血壓上升。
山楂黑木耳茶
功效:活血涼血,紓緩肥胖、高血脂等症狀。
材料:山楂15克、黑木耳15克
做法:材料切絲,洗淨放保溫瓶,以熱開水沖洗一遍,再注入熱開水焗10分鐘即可。此茶可反覆沖泡至味淡,建議一星期飲用2-3次,連續兩星期為一個療程。
注意:孕婦不宜飲用。
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Unhealthy diets and ‘the three highs’
“I just completed a body check-up recently, and the doctor told me I’m at risk of getting the three highs. What can I do to solve this mid-life crisis?”
CheckCheckCin: The three highs refer to high blood pressure, high blood sugar, and high cholesterol, and urban dwellers tend to have these problems. Poor dietary habits such as consuming foods that are high in cholesterol, sugar, and sodium, and the lack of exercise, inability to cope with stress, and unhealthy lifestyle would cause a spike in the readings.
According to Chinese Medicine, aside from using medication, an individual should improve the body constitution and lead a healthier lifestyle if he or she wishes to get these conditions under control.
In general, individuals with the damp heat, blood stasis, and yin-deficient body constitutions would develop the three highs more easily. Individuals with a damp heat body constitution have asthenic qi and spleen, and the fluid would stagnate easily in the body. Those with the blood stasis constitution may experience the stagnation of the blood and the vein. People with a yin-deficient constitution will experience a spike in their blood pressure if they constantly mess with their biological clock.
To improve the condition of the three highs, consult registered and licensed Chinese physicians, so they can prescribe you the right medicine and customize treatment for you.Eat lighter food, take more vegetables and cut down on meat, reduce eating out and processed food, and avoid eating foods that are high in cholesterol, sugar, and sodium.
Cultivate the habit of exercising regularly. Make it a point to exercise and sweat three times a week, and each session should last at least 30 minutes. Avoid sleeping late and find the most appropriate way to relieve your stress, as negative emotions can also trigger a surge in the blood pressure.
Chinese hawthorn tea with Black fungus
Effects: Activates and cools blood, relieves obesity and hyperlipidemia.
Ingredients: 15g dried Chinese hawthorn, 15g black fungus
Preparation: Cut the ingredients into slices and place into the thermos. Rinse with hot water once. Then add in hot water again and steep for 10 minutes. This tea can be rebrewed until its flavor weakens. For best results, drink consecutively for 2-3 days a week. Two weeks for a treatment.
Note: Not suitable for pregnant women.
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