關於 eventually finally ，我們在網路上蒐集到這些相關的討論、資訊與評價

上週黑喵知情劇組傳來劇照，要我選其中三張供金鐘獎專刊使用，選擇障礙的我糾結好久才挑出合適的。其中我最喜歡的是這張，因為就在這瞬間，「楊陳傑」這個角色決定褪下虛假，內心那股黑暗偏差的虐貓傾向即將浮現。可惜最後因為格式無法使用，不然這是最能說明角色的一張劇照。謝謝厲害的劇照師。

Last week I was asked to pick out 3 stills from the show for the Golden Bell Awards. It took me a while to find 3 pics that I liked since I’ve always been an indecisive person, but the one I really liked was this one. For at this precise moment my character finally drops a fake facade and indulges in a sick twisted act towards cats. It was the perfect representation of my character. Anyway, this photo wasn’t used eventually, but I gotta give props to the amazing photographer.

#黑喵知情

I love spending time along.
It’s where the chaos as a long day can finally settle.
I can reflect and listen to my thoughts and eventually reconnect with myself.
Only after that am I ready to share with the world again.

Photo @sandraworks2018

#網拍人森
#model #modeling
#photo #photoshot
#模特 #網拍 #平面模特 #網拍模特兒

最好的自己不在未來，就在現在。

認真回想，以前我好像在每一段關係中都是在扮演某一個角色，不由自主的在為每個對象做調整。不只有在戀愛上，有時候可能跟朋友、工作夥伴都是，尤其是在前輩面前，常常我都會本能反應似的改變自己。聲音要甜一點嗎？笑話要低級一點嗎？從穿衣服就可以看出，我今天是要跟誰吃飯。雖然是微調，但透露出了一件事，我好像不夠喜歡真正的自己，所以才會擔心大家也不會喜歡真正的我。我告訴自己即使累，但如果持續努力，有一天就能變成大家都喜歡的Lara。

久而久之我和世界的相處模式只有「由外到內」，會依照別人對我的反應去斷定我的下一步。大家會覺得我很好相處，我卻越來越不快樂。現在我慢慢開始懂了，原來我把順序弄反了。我該優先處理的是自己內心的感受，其他人買不買單，其實跟你一點關係都沒有。就像找另外一半，如果我跟夢中情人在一起，但我根本無法在他面前做自己，最後還是會走不下去。

我現在33歲，So What? 終於懂，「當下的自己」才是人生時間軸上最重要的！

對了，有人好奇這次「{}」的意思嗎？簡單說是「大括號」，在數學運算式中稱作「空集合」。數學不好的人就想像一個清空的行李箱吧。「空」不是無，而是無限可能。括號還有另外一個更好懂的意思，就是「優先處理」。將過去整理過後的自己，回歸純粹，態度成熟自信！(失戀後重新出發的人應該很有感觸吧！🤣)

Your best self is not in the future, but in the Now.

Looking back, I seem to have been playing a role in almost every relationship I was ever in. I'm not just talking about romantic relationships. Whether it was with friends or colleagues (especially seniors), I would modify myself almost instinctively. Should my voice be sweeter? My jokes dirtier? If you wanted to know who I was eating with that day, all you had to do was look at the clothes I was wearing.

The changes were subtle, but they still reflected a truth: I didn’t feel like the real me was enough so I was worried that other people would also find her lacking. I told myself that if I just kept working at it, I would someday become a version of Lara that everyone accepted.

Eventually I only knew how to get my cues from the external world. I would always base my next step on feedback I got from others. Most people considered me easy to get along with, but I grew more and more unhappy.

I think I had it all wrong. My first priority should have been listening to my inner voice. Whether or not other people agree with it is not in my control nor of my concern. Take looking for a partner. Even if I found the person of my dreams, it would never last if I couldn’t be myself around them.

I am 33 years old. So What? I finally understand that "the present self" is the most important thing on the timeline of life! It’s time to prioritize me!

By the way, is anyone curious about the meaning of "{}" this time? Besides the more commonly known representation of parentheses as prioritization, these curly brackets are called “the empty set”. The empty what? If like me, math is not your strongest suit, think of it as an empty suitcase. "Empty" doesn’t mean nothing, but infinite possibilities! What will you fill your life with this time?

2021全新專輯《來者何人{}》
數位收聽：https://LaraLiang.lnk.to/DearYou2

<再也沒有你> 陳勢安 Andrew Tan
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#Lara梁心頤2021全新專輯二部曲 #來者何人{} 全球發行
#再也沒有你 #NoMoreU #SoWhat30

Giap's Original Video:https://youtu.be/LgAED4TBPN8
After 1975, hundreds of thousands of people from Vietnam got on boats to leave post war. Those who survived the seas made it to refugee camps all over Southeast Asia, from Malaysia, Indonesia, Thailand, Philippines, to Hong Kong. And eventually, some had a chance to resettle in America, Canada, Australia, and many parts of Europe. This is a story about three friends who found each other after 40 years. I met Giap in New Jersey a few years ago and he asked me to make a video about his life story. I agreed and after publishing it, two of Giap's refugee camp friends, who were also viewers of this channel, recognized him and saw themselves in my video. They reached out and I connected them to Giap. Giap connected his friends Thanh from Los Angeles and Phuong from San Diego together. They met right away. Giap also met Phuong two years ago in Da Nang. But Giap just met Thanh and the three of them were finally together after 40 years.
For more Vietnamese Boat Refugee Stories and Camps: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLnwupzqd-YERLAf_7t1zO6MobEHibkWGN

Special thanks to DJ Erick-C for the remixing the music. https://www.instagram.com/djerickc/
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It's been an amazing three years on YouTube, and I can't thank you all enough for joining me on this journey. I recently passed the 100,000 subscriber milestone, and to help commemorate the event, YouTube has sent me the silver play button! This is a coveted creator award, and I feel so lucky to finally be able to hold this in my hands. In this video, I go through the early days of my YouTube channel, talk about my motivation for making videos, and eventually about why I decided to move to Taiwan to continue my channel.

Spiritomb is a Pokemon that appears during the annual Halloween event. With this year’s Halloween event being a little different with so many new shiny Pokemon released into the game which includes Shiny Spiritomb too as a brand new shiny, I decided to try to hunt it down. I came really close to giving up as it was a really tough grind, but my effort eventually paid off...

Join me as I travel, eat and play Pokémon GO the way a local trainer would in their own country and city. Visiting one country and one city at at time through Pokémon GO.

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