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「You are handling this well.」はどんな時に使える表現?
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友達がくじけそうな時、皆さんはどんな風に勇気づけますか?日本語でも英語でも、落ち込んでいる人の様子に応じて励ましの言葉を選びますが、一般的には“It’s going to be alright.(きっと大丈夫)”などが使われると思います。今回は、相手に寄り添って「よく頑張っているね。」と伝えたい時の表現をご紹介したいと思います。
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You are handling this (so) well.
→「(よく)頑張っているね」
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“You are handling this well.”は「ここまでよく頑張ったね」を意味し、自信をなくして落ち込んでいる相手に寄り添い、頑張りを認めて励ます時に使われる表現です。この表現には「すごいね!」の意味も含まれており、相手をポジティブな気持ちにさせます。落ち込んでいる人や、くじけそうな人に対して使われるフレーズの一つに“Everything is going to be fine.(きっとなるよになるよ)”もありますが、言い方によっては悪い意味で捉えられてしまい、相手を怒らせてしまうこともあります。また、頑張っている人に“Stay strong.(頑張れ/負けるな)”と言うと、言われた本人は少し嫌な気持ちになってしまう時もあります。勇気づけるつもりで言った言葉が逆に相手を怒らせてしまう事もあるため、シチュエーションに応じて励ましの言葉を使い分けるようにするといいでしょう。
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〜会話例1〜
A: I am still recovering from my injury…I don’t feel good.
(まだ怪我が治ってないんだ・・・体調が良くないんだ。)
B: You are handling this so well. I am praying that you will get better soon. Please let me know if you need anything.
(あなたはよく頑張っているわ。早く良くなることを祈っている。何かできることがあったら、言ってね。)
〜会話例2〜
A: I have so much work to do, and I don’t think I can finish this.
(仕事がたくさんありすぎて、終わらせることができないかも。)
B: You are handling this well. Just take a break for now, and we can work on it together later.
(よく頑張っているよ。まずは一息ついて、また後で一緒にやろう。)
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同時也有3部Youtube影片,追蹤數超過7,590的網紅Lesley Chiang Official,也在其Youtube影片中提到,This was my Goodbye Letter. In 2013, I was on my balcony, writing this song. This was before I realised the severity of my depression. I decided to ...
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เนื้อเพลง Mirror - Melt Mallow
It’s cold enough to break my wings.
How can I stand? Oh, How can I sing?
The world is turn down on my side.
I see that you are also blue.
I used to think everyone is too.
So, I locked up and hide away.
Silence,
I can hear your heart broken.
Judgement,
I can see your eyes crying.
Violence,
I can feel. It’s alright. Why don’t you look at me?
It's been a long day since you trying.
It's ok to let it falling.
"Everything will be just fine."
"It doesn't matter, are you blind?"
You'd like to cry at home, I don't mind.
Just let me by your side.
Leave all of this world behind,
And I will always be with you.
Silence,
I can hear your heart broken.
Judgement,
I can see your eyes crying.
Violence,
I can feel. It’s alright. Why don’t you look at me?
It's been a long day since you trying.
It's ok to let it falling.
"Everything will be just fine."
"It doesn't matter, are you blind?"
You'd like to cry at home, i don't mind.
Just let me by your side.
Leave all of this world behind,
And i will always be with you.
You will always know best.
Even though, you're tearing apart.
Even though, you kept inside and not telling anyone.
You can trust me.
Cause at least,
I am you.
It’s been so long day since I've trying.
It’s okay to let it falling.
“Everything is not all fine.”
“It doesn’t matter I will try!”
I’d like to cry at home, you don't mind.
Just let you by my side.
Someday we will be with smile
And We’re here telling “I love you.”
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A monster calls 觀後感
這部電影改編自同名小說。(作者:Patrick Ness)
這個故事很簡單,說著一個青少年的故事。
電影的主要人物不到十個:在外地另有一個新婚家庭的父親、患癌而進入臨終狀況的母親、獨居且擔起照顧女兒的外婆、還有三四位欺負他的同學。當然還有 a monster (樹怪)。
電影中,這位青少年頻頻發生偏差行為:上課不專心、被霸凌、被欺負、打架、失眠(眼圈深黑)、摔東西、孤僻、沈默、發脾氣、嘔氣、頂嘴等。
單從行為來看,這個孩子已被標籤為壞小孩。在他的世界裡,沒有人明白他。包括末癌的母親,他們兩母子也只是彼此報喜不報憂,畢竟他們不要再強加痛苦在雙方身上。
這位青少年,他愛媽媽,可是他的痛苦卻是屬於自己的,躲進自己的內心世界裡舔傷。
其實我們都知道,他所有一切狀況都是一連串生命重要事件所影響的:父母離異、父親在國外再建另一家庭、母親患癌、母親住院、被迫要和自己不喜歡的外婆居住在一起。
把所有一切偏差行為推向最高潮是:媽媽快要死了。there is an elephant in the room,偏偏大家不敢把它說出來。
樹怪出現了。樹怪,不像其他寓言故事般,通常一個受傷的小孩都會出現一個慈祥、和藹、包容度強的男性或女性形象的神明出現來陪伴他。樹怪的長相猙獰、聲音低沈、毀壞力極強。可是他內心只說真話、也只相信真相。
他給予這位青少年講三個故事,條件是他要青少年說第四個故事。
我很喜歡導演及編劇用樹怪說故事的方式來教育我們。
我從三個故事裏學習到的是:
1。你聽到的,未必是真實的。當事人想告訴你的,是他想要催眠你相信。可是那未必是真相。
2。這個世上有好人做壞事,也有壞人做好事。到底誰是好、誰是壞?(樹怪要青少年丟掉二元分法的思維。這個世界其實有很多灰色地帶,好壞同時存在、悲傷快樂也一樣。)
3。不要拿你認為重要的價值來交換生命。(樹怪很瞧不起那些為了眼前的利益而拿自己多年認為重要價值來交換的人們。)
4。他同時也教導青少年表達他的怒氣。不要屈服於權威(如:外婆、欺負他的同學們等)
5。不要成為一個隱形人。你需要表達你自己。作為隱形人,你就會失去你存在的意義。
只要時間落在 12:07 am/pm,樹怪就出現。那三次的故事,讓青少年經歷更多。可是,這不像其他寓言故事,青少年沒有因此越來越幸福,反而他越來越壞,情況也愈來愈糟糕。
我看見作者、編劇及導演的用心。他們沒有想要告訴我們(喪母的孩子們)一些很 plastic 的話語來掩蓋我們的哀傷: Everything is alright。or No worries or it will be fine 等等這狗屎的內容。
他們沒有美化我們即將要失去母親的過程。他們如如實實告訴我們:this is suck, but just be your real self. Be courageous, faithful and genuine.
「孩子,失去母親的過程要勇敢的表達自己、要知道自己相信的信念是什麼、要真誠地去面對一切。」
透過三個故事,這是我從樹怪哪裡拿到的message。彷彿我也是一名戲裏的青少年,重新走一遍我失去母親的年少歲月。很療癒。
樹怪把三個故事說完了。現在它要青少年說第四個故事。青少年知道樹怪要聽哪一個故事:就是他在夢裡頭一直出現的畫面。對他而言,那是噩夢。
戲一開始,這個畫面就出現:墳場、大樹、地陷、青少年用手抓住正要墜落的媽媽。每一次夢見到這裏,他就被嚇醒了。
青少年很不願意告訴樹怪第四個故事。樹怪讓整個場景重新出現在他眼前。他看到地陷裏的媽媽,他一手緊緊抓住媽媽。
夢裡的場景重新出現。
結果媽媽還是掉下去了。作為觀眾,我們以為是媽媽沒辦法撐下去,結果自己跌下去的。
事後,樹怪逼問他幾次:「speak the truth!」(把真相說出來!)
他寧可死,都不願意把真相說出來。結果樹怪把他給救回來。
終於,他說是我害死媽媽的。是的,我就知道,那一幕是他放手讓媽媽走的。他希望媽媽能夠離開,那麼他的痛苦就可以停止了。
可是他不能告訴其他人。這是多麼不孝順的一句話。
寫到這裡,我真的很謝謝這部電影再次出現在我的眼前。
我問自己:當時候媽媽末癌時,我有沒有這種想法?
我聽到自己大聲說:「有!」
當下樹怪安慰他一樣安慰著我:「這是人性。沒有一個人一直想要長期處於在痛苦當中。你對媽媽的放手,想要中斷眼前的一切痛苦是難免的。」
他把噩夢裏所做出的不孝行為,被樹怪諒解之後。他躺在樹怪的懷抱裡:「我很累了,我好想睡覺。」(這一躺,就是電影的海報畫面。)
我也是看到這裡,眼淚流個不停。終於,孩子很真誠地面對生命、面對自己之後,他可以安心入睡了。小小年齡,為何要面對大人世界大大的苦難。真難為他了。
我喜歡那個睡覺的畫面。這顯示孩子終於明白了,他是無法改變現在所面對的苦難。第四個故事,他學習到speak the truth 之後,他需要臣服。
電影快要結束了。導演帶我們去到病床的場景。樹怪陪著孩子。看著臨終的媽媽,孩子回頭問樹怪:「我要說什麼?」
「就說出你內心的話。」
孩子鼓起勇氣說出:「媽媽,我捨不得你。」
終於,there is an elephant in the room,孩子終於有足夠的勇氣把媽媽的死亡說出來了。孩子抱著媽媽,媽媽牽著外婆。媽媽就這樣死了。
自此之後,樹怪再也沒有出現了。孩子和外婆一同生活。最後一幕,樹怪再次出現在媽媽的繪畫本裏。
嗯,我一點都不驚訝,從媽媽戲裏對孩子說的話,我就知道樹怪也是她的朋友。或許樹怪就是他們家庭生生世世的守護之靈。
電影完畢,片尾音樂奏起,我微笑了。
感恩這部如此精彩的電影。讓我再走一趟失去母親的心路旅程。而沈澱了三天,我才能把心中的感觸化為文字。
A monster calls。冷門電影,我推薦。
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14/01/2017
everything will be alright everything will be just fine 在 Lesley Chiang Official Youtube 的最佳貼文
This was my Goodbye Letter.
In 2013, I was on my balcony, writing this song. This was before I realised the severity of my depression.
I decided to release this original English version today, not for only mental health and suicide awareness, but also as an act of reaching my hand out to anyone who’s been there, or is struggling now. I felt really alone that night, and I don’t want anyone else to ever feel that way.
You are never alone. There is always hope, always a guarantee that life will get better. I know I say this a lot, but I truly am living proof that happiness is possible after such darkness.
This song is very heavy, and in all honesty, I’m pretty darn scared to share it with you all. Because it’s just too personal.
But I made a commitment a few years ago to share my story in order to help others, and I’ll continue to proudly be a part of this movement. We must talk openly about these things, in order to change the stigma around it.
It is okay not to be okay. It is okay to be struggling.
We’ll get there. Life is oh so beautiful. I promise you!
PS
“3 years later I am here today…”
The end of this song was recorded 3 years after my darkest night (it still took me a while to be ready to share this with everyone), and I am so happy to say NOW? 6 years later! I am STILL here today!!
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Tonight
Composed by Lesley Chiang / Yu
Lyrics by Lesley Chiang
Produced by Team One Sound / Lesley Chiang
Starting to really think
That I am really sick
I’m unhappy everyday
And the only thing that will really make me feel okay
Is if I just keep on lying
“Everything is fine.”
And you are still my man
Don’t ever want nobody to know that our love has ended
I do not know how I have sank so low and
I cannot let go
I’m incomplete
I feel like it is time
As If I had just died
This pain goes on
So endlessly
I have lost my mind
Pathetic little piece of shit
Not even strong enough to face this
I know my place this time
I’m just your fan, a nobody
I won’t stand in your way
Say goodbye tonight
I’m leaving tonight
Our story ends tonight
Tell me, where did I go?
It’s like I’ve lost my soul
I can’t feel the love no more
Is there even a reason why I should keep living on?
So much time has gone
And I still can’t move on
Would it even be a threat
If I say to you that I really just might go and end it?
I should mean more to you
I was right there for you
I still think our break was incomplete
I will give you more time
I’ll reflect and rewind
I will love you endlessly
I have lost my mind
Pathetic little piece of shit
Not even strong enough to face this
I know my place this time
I’m just your fan, a nobody
I won’t stand in your way
Say goodbye tonight
I’m leaving tonight
Our story…
It’s my one last try
To make things alright
My heartbreak ends tonight
3 years later I am here today
Can I just say that
I am still alive
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If you or someone you know needs help, you can call the Suicide Prevention Services 生命熱線 at 2382 2007.

everything will be alright everything will be just fine 在 Shah Rezza Youtube 的精選貼文
Okay,here’s the lyrics.
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Remember when we tried so hard
But we felt like giving up
Everybody has their stories
Sometimes we will learn
From the past we realize
Everything we did in the world
Is just for awhile
If you stay with me
Everything's gonna be alright
Stay with me
Then I'll be fine
Because I just need you and my body
Cause only you could save me
Because I just need you and my body
Cause only you could save me
I don't know what I'm doing right now
But I'm never gonna give it up
And I know that you're the one for me
I know I won't let you down
And turn my life around
Everything we did in the world
Is just for awhile
If you stay with me
Everything's gonna be alright
Stay with me
Then I'll be fine
Stay with me
Everything's gonna be alright
Stay with me
Then I'll be fine
Because I just need you and my body
Cause only you could save me
If you stay with me
Everything's gonna be alright
Stay with me
Then I'll be fine
Right now right now
What is left to do
Right now right now
I just have to prove
In time I'll see what it's for
In time I'll see what this is all for
Because I just need you and my body
(I just need you and my body)
Cause only you could save me
Because I just need you and my body
(I just need you and my body)
Cause only you could save me
Because I just need you and my body
(I just need you and my body)
Cause only you could save me

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English translation of the lyrics :
Not Feeling Spring (shunshuu) - Mrs. Green Apple
A murmur in my heart says, "Wow today felt really short."
And if I think about it; yeah, that was pretty fast.
Another day is done and it felt just like the last one.
And I'm pretty sure the last one felt like the one before.
I sometimes throw a punch at my dreams and ideals.
For some reason we just don't seem to get along.
This little piece of blue always comes and goes,
But no matter what I can't seem to get my hands on it.
God, it really sucks.
All these people really suck.
All my friends really suck too.
Okay, maybe they don't suck so much.
If tomorrow's gonna be sunny, then I guess it's alright.
If tomorrow's gonna come at all, then I guess it's alright.
And if you keep smiling, then I guess everything's alright.
Everything around me keeps changing, but I guess that's alright.
A murmur in my heart says, "You know I'm really grateful."
Even if it hadn't said a thing, I already knew that.
Another day is done and it felt just like the last one.
And I always thought the last one felt like the one before.
Been trying to cut back on all the smiling and crying.
No, wait, I haven't been trying at all.
I feel the breath of spring, and the petals are all dancing.
But they were just being lit up by the sun.
God, it really sucks.
Today just really sucks.
And yesterday sucked too.
Tomorrow can't come any sooner.
Maybe someday someone will finally find me.
Maybe someday someone will think that I matter.
And if that someone's out there, then I guess everything's alright.
As long as I'm still taking in air, then I guess it's alright.
That'd be just fine.
God, it really sucks.
All these people really suck.
All my friends really suck too.
Okay, maybe they don't suck so much.

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