【你是在隨緣，還是在隨便？】
每一季處理完所有報名者的電郵後，讀完他們的人生遭遇，總有些感概。
多年前，我拍影片的方式就是看到觀眾的留言，自己有些想法，就直接開直播。這一支影片是2017年在台灣桃園國際機場，要飛回新加坡時，在候機室開的直播。事因前一天晚上，有觀眾提倡看命理清未來的方向，另一邊有觀眾留言，認為對待自己孩子的命運應該隨緣。
我說：這裡隨順命運的人如過江之鯽，但成功又開心的人有多少？想成功，雖然不一定要看命，但無論是自己的命運，或孩子的命運，隨緣與隨便，一線之差而已。
「隨緣」二字聽起來很灑脫，事實上，不一定是你悟性高，看透十二因緣，而是你不能面對命運的真實相，也自認沒辦法改變，沒打這場戰之前便已認輸。
所以，你只好選擇随便了。
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After I am done handling the emails from every season of bookings, I tend to feel regretful for my clients upon reading their life encounters.
Many years, my videos were all Facebook Lives, which were done after reading comments from the audience, and me wanting to add my two cents' worth.
This video was a FB Live done in 2017 at the boarding gate of Taiwan Taoyuan International Airport, while I was waiting for my flight back to Singapore. The night before, one viewer commented that he advocated knowing his children's destiny to gain clarity on their life directions. Another viewer felt that we should just leave it to fate.
My take: we aren't lacking people who follow what their destiny dicate, but how many successful and happy ones do we see? Yes, to get your destiny read isn't a prerequisite for success. But it is a fine line between leaving you life to fate and just being careless about it.
The Chinese term 隨緣 is often used freely when we think we should let nature takes it own course. Fact is, you may not be saying this because of your higher perception of the Twelve Links of Dependant Origination, but because you do not know how to face up to the reality of Destiny, and think nothing can be changed. Before the war is even fought, you have admitted defeat.
So the only thing you could do now is to let life happen to you, instead of you making life happen for you.
📺: https://youtu.be/x7tGMSiYKPA
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