Saya balik kerja, isteri cakap, "Abang, jom keluar jalan-jalan. Stress la"
Banyak kali macam tu. Pelik betul. Stress apa, duduk rumah jaga anak-anak tercinta yang comel-comel tu. Kalau ikutkan, keluar rumah, lagi la stress dan penat.
Bila fikir semula, saya bawa juga pusing-pusing naik kereta. Kadang-kadang, singgah pasaraya. Selalunya tak beli apa pun, window shopping je. Tapi dia punya teruja, macam anak kecil diajak pergi Disneyland.
...Continue ReadingI came back from work, wife said, ′′ Brother, let's go for a walk. Stress la ′′
Many times like that. So weird. Stress what, stay at home and take care of your cute beloved children. If you follow, you'll get out of the house, you'll be stressed and tired
When I think about it, I'm also driving around the car. Sometimes stop by the supermarket. Always don't buy anything, window shopping only. But he's excited, like a little kid was invited to Disneyland.
′′ Thank you brother, for taking a walk!", my wife will say this every time she walks.
I remember a message, ′′ This woman's emotion is like a small balloon, can't handle too much stress. It will erupt. Different from us men ′′
My wife used to be gentle, since I had this child, if I don't have time, I'll lose the king of the Feels like eating people. Weird too. Where did his old softness and humanity go?
We just hold our handphone, suddenly we can be attacked. Shocking. Suddenly erupted.
I'm trying to understand this situation. Yes, we husbands are hard to understand.
Apparently, not as tired as a husband and tired as a wife.
Child cries for milk, other children are fighting screaming, the other one is forced to watch cartoons, the house is like a broken barge. The cooking, business, lack of sleep, hunger, washing clothes, neat, entertaining the customer's attitude. This happens everyday, almost every time.
Look at this picture, want to sleep, just want to be with his mom. There's no room for his mother. I have to cover my wife's headscarf for this kid to confuse.
This hustle is forcing the wife physically, mentally and emotionally.
Who else is the wife's place to complain and expect? It's us, his partner. That's why if their emotions aren't calmed, it can explode!
So, this advice is for myself and my husbands. Wife is Allah's trust in us.
1. Listen to her story. If the wife wants to talk, listen to her face, or hug her. Show us what we care and support him. When we ignore him he wants to luv his tiredness, he's heartbreaking. You know that I'm sulking. It's worse if we're cynical and lower his feelings. Don't be weird if the wife can fight.
2. Taking care of the house is our work too. There is no such thing as 'helping wife do housework'. If you follow, that's our job too. We cook because we want to eat, we wash our clothes and dishes because we've worn it. That's our house and that's our child. We have responsibility. Lighten the bones.
3. Wife's work has no office hour. He's not a robot, so, for his time to rest and ' me time '. He's not resting, since he had his first child.
To me, taking care of this household has two schools of thought. One, wife has to treat husband like a king. Secondly, taking care of the house together. Both are right. Adjust it to our way.
All wives, I'm sorry, if I don't understand you, for husbands a chance. We take care of us Things can be discussed. Start by talking good with a partner.
Forgive me if there are any mistakes and mistakes. We are human beings. Why does husband have shortcomings? Because you are her complement.
We are not the best, but let us try to be the best.
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