關於 have a relationship ，我們在網路上蒐集到這些相關的討論、資訊與評價

Enjoy Happiness Now

“Not that I speak in respect to lack, for I have learned in whatever state I am, to be content in it. I know how to be humbled, and I know also how to abound. In everything and in all things I have learned the secret both to be filled and to be hungry, both to abound and to be in need. I can do all things through Christ, who strengthens me.” (Philippians‬ ‭4:11-13‬ ‭WEB‬‬)

Don’t postpone your happiness to the future.

“When I am rich, I will be happy.” Really? King Solomon is by today’s standards a trillionaire and he was not happy. Read about it in the Book of Ecclesiastes. He indulged in every worldly comfort and pleasure possible, and yet he concluded that it was all vanity of vanities, grasping after the wind.

Happiness is not about being rich or poor. It is about having Christ in you and with you.

“This is eternal life, that they should know you, the only true God, and him whom you sent, Jesus Christ.” (John‬ ‭17:3‬ ‭WEB‬‬)

As a believer, you know God not as a distant person, but a good Father who loves you and is on your side. To the world who does not know Him, He is still the Judge who punishes the wicked. They do not have the kind of relationship that we enjoy with Him.

Start enjoying your relationship with Abba God, Jesus, and the Holy Spirit today. You can pray, and God will show you amazing truths, advice for the future, and help you with whatever you need.

A life without God is an empty life, like always eating but never being able to satisfy that hunger.

When you have Jesus as Lord, you have the Bread of Life, the living bread from Heaven to feed on. His words in the Scriptures, the Lord’s Supper, are true food that nourish you in many ways.

Perhaps happiness is having an unlimited supply of this heavenly food, so that your spiritual hunger is satisfied!

If you want to know God’s heart for you, you can study the 37 recorded miracles of Jesus Christ in “Messiah’s Miracles”. As we look at each of the miracles that were recorded in the four gospels, you will know Abba God better by seeing what Jesus does. Jesus did nothing without first seeing His Father do it—they have the same nature and work perfectly in sync. This is a read that I’m sure you will enjoy: https://bit.ly/messiahs-miracles

#อ่านแล้วชอบกดไลค์ให้ด้วยน้า ❤️❤️

การอยู่คนเดียวไม่ได้น่ากลัวเท่ากับการต้องอยู่ในสถานะความรักที่ไม่ใช่ที่ของเรา” เชื่อว่าหลายคนเคยอยู่ใน relationship แบบนี้ 😀 ปัจจุบันผู้หญิงหลายคนกลัวการไม่มีสามี แต่ก็ยังมีผู้หญิงอีกจำนวนมากที่กลัวได้แต่งกับคนไม่ใช่ และชีวิตของคำว่าชีวิตคู่ก็ไม่ต่างจากการถูกจองจำ ไม่น่าเชื่อว่าคนรอบตัวโยมีแบบนี้เยอะ ใครได้คู่ชีวิตที่ดีทั้งต้นชนปลายก็เหมือนถูกหวยเลยค่ะ รักษาความสัมพันธ์ไว้ให้ดีเลยนะ 🥰 คำถามและคำตอบที่ย้อนแย้งกันแบบนี้เลยทำให้เห็นผู้หญิงโสดเป็นจำนวนมาก บ้างก็มีความสุขบ้างก็ยังอยู่ในช่วงค้นหาตัวเอง

แต่ไม่ว่าเราจะอยู่ในสถานะไหนก็ตามสิ่งที่สำคัญที่สุดคือการมองชีวิตให้มีความสุขนะคะ คุณและเค้าพอใจในสิ่งที่เป็นที่มี ชีวิตอาจจะไม่สมบูรณ์100% ขาดนี่นิดนู่นหน่อย แต่พอมองในมุมบวกแล้วรู้สึกว่าเราก็โชคดีไม่น้อย แค่นั้นก็เรียกว่าสมบูรณ์พอแล้ว ถ้าวันนี้คุณอยู่ในโหมดชีวิตคู่ อย่ามัวตั้งคำถามความสุขอยู่ที่ไหน คุณเลือกไปแล้ว แต่ควรรีบหาคำตอบว่าต้องทำตัวเรายังไงเพื่อสร้างความสุขจะดีกว่า ส่วนบรรดาคนโสดแบบพวกเรา #อะไรดีโยก็ว่าดี 😄 โยไม่ได้มองตัวเองว่าเราคือคนโสดหรือแต่งงาน แต่โยมองตัวเองในมุมของผู้หญิงที่มีความสุขใจและพอใจกับชีวิตของตัวเอง มีโอกาสเลือกต้องเลือกไม่รีบ ☺️ ไม่มีใครให้รักก็จงรักตัวเอง ถ้ามีคนมาให้รักก็อย่าลังเล รักในขอบเขตมุมมองในชีวิตคู่ของเรา ใช้สติพอๆกับหัวใจ ได้มีโอกาสอีกครั้งจงรักให้สุดหัวใจ ทำตัวเองให้รักเป็น และเป็นที่รัก..ใครยังไม่เจอขอให้เจอ เพี้ยง😘

I'm a woman who believes in love and likes love. I've never regretted my past because it has happiness, smiles and tears. It's an unforgettable memory and lesson for me. Many people ask me why I'm single. The answer is simple. I don't see myself as a single or a married woman but I see myself as a woman who is happy and satisfied with my life. that's the most important thing. I may be a picky but I never deny love. If I had to love again 100 more times I will do my best with all my heart. I was born to do anything for the people I love and most importantly they have to make me feel.. I'm loved by them too!

#loveday #mywords
#แคบไม่เกี่ยวกับรูป อยากเขียนก็เขียน ให้กำลังใจกันไป ❤️

Hi everyone, my personal website has been upgraded and I like it very much.👇

lochanpeng.com
There are my art reviews and reports over the years (in the process of collating)
There are also my works. In particular, my works will no longer be classified in series on the website, but in chronological classification. This is also in line with my perception of creativity in recent years. If the relationship between the work and the person is one in the present, then do the ten-year-long series mean that the person has not changed in the past ten years?
So for me, the series is a kind of framework, and it can even be said to be a shackle. Also because my website works are classified by chronology, I have also seen that the difference in my life course is completely reflected in my works-some years of creation are very colorful, Some years are very gloomy, some years are particularly obsessed with huge works, and some years have suffered setbacks in life. These are all very interesting to me. Creation is like breathing to me.
At the same time, I have been thinking about this part of the newly completed online course area for a long time. Is it necessary to have a promotion month and various marketing methods like when working with industry platforms in the past?
In the end, I decided not to do this.
I hope that the students who take my course can see my value rather than being attracted by the 20% discount. I hope that our relationship can be more purely focused on learning. Rather than let your head keep thinking about whether there is a cheaper way.
At the same time, designing and selling are very laborious. Abandoning the sales method, I will go back to the original point and focus on my creation, making better courses, and replying to your homework in the group. Just do this well.
I think this is my consistent way of doing things.
The new courses have just been established, and I will continue to add them in the future. Welcome to join my membership. You will receive all kinds of information updated on the website as soon as possible, including my exhibitions, new works, and new courses.
☆The course video will be converted to 1080P pixels from 10/1☆

本集聲沙請慎入。你是否想過請主管同事吃誠實豆沙包，來讓自己更進步突破? 連貫第40集，本集作者教我們如何採樣，尋求真實反饋的步驟step by step以及範本。了解自己的職場招牌優勢，校准你的優勢和劣勢面對真相，打造你在職場專屬差異化(個人品牌)，加上心態設定小撇步，新的心態思維陪你創造全新的經驗與美好！

詹姆斯（William James）曾說：「思想（態度）決定行動，行動決定習慣，習慣決定性格，性格決定命運。」

1.還在害怕失敗、害怕判斷、恐懼...?? 想改變命運就從設定心態開始。
2.受教之耳、明辨之心
3.未來幾集將是一系列由作者Julie一步步幫助我們，如何完全了解自己的優劣勢，在職場更找到自己的位置與機會。且在求職履歷上也能立刻加分！

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★ 本集分點章節:
(00:01:10)在本集我會學到什麼?
(00:01:44)讀書會開始
(00:02:20)收集誠實反饋四個具體問題範本
(00:05:49)不敢去問??改變自己的心態再突破
不要覺得這是在評價你的價值
而是要讓自己更成長突破，你絕對有能力提高！
(00:08:05)一分鐘商業英文 One-Minute Business English(feat. Zach)
(00:10:16)比爾蓋茲推薦書:Fixed Mindset定性心態VS. Growth Mindset成長心態
(00:15:03)預告(VIP專屬)如何掌握三步驟鍛鍊成長心態

＃國外商管類 讀書會，Great Managers are made, not born.
管理職人、熱愛學習的夥伴們，用一杯茶的時間，減少眼力腦力轉換成本，內化成你的獨門攻略。

★ 本集導讀書籍：《the making of a manager: what to do when everyone looks to you》（暫譯：優秀管理者的後天養成之路） 亞馬遜去年最佳商業書第一名、華爾街日報暢銷書。原文書 9折購 https://lihi1.cc/dnwIH
作者：Facebook 產品設計副總 Julie Zhuo 的十年管理心法。

★ 本集補充資料
:: 成長心態vs.定型心態 動畫說明 (請手動點開中文字幕) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KUWn_TJTrnU

:: 為了發展我們的自覺，及校准我們的優勢和劣勢，我們必須通過詢問他人的真實坦率意見，來面對我們真正要的真相。目標不是為了尋求讚美；目標是為給我們的同事 提供一個安全的機會，讓他們可以誠實——甚至是殘酷的誠實——以便我們自己能夠獲得最準確的信息。

請合併EP40的問題一併採樣問卷。
《第三部份問答》首先是請教主管 兩個問題：
1. 你認為我有沒有哪些機會，可以做更多我擅長的事情？
如果你是主管職，也可以問你的上級，是什麼事情造成你無法得到最大的影響？

2. 你認為在我的這個職務中的最適合人選會具備哪些技能？對於每項技能，您如何按照 1 到 5 的等級給我打分？

《第四部份問答》:
選擇三到七個與您密切合作的人，詢問他們是否願意分享一些意見反饋來幫助您改進。
如何邀請一個誠實的意見反饋，Julie範本:
Hey，我很重視你的意見，
我想成為更有效率的團隊成員。你願意回答下面的問題嗎？
請盡可能誠實，因為誠實對我會最有幫助——我保證你說的任何話都不會冒犯我。意見反饋是我的一份禮物，再次感謝您抽出寶貴時間。
具體問題舉例：

1.在我們共同合作的最後一個專案中，你認為我在哪些方面產生了影響或貢獻？你認為我可以做些什麼來產生更大的影響？
2.在我的團隊中，哪些方面我做得好而且您希望我在這方面更多著墨？哪些是應該停止不要做的？
3.我正在學習在工作上更加自信果斷，你覺得我在這方面做得如何？
請提供讓我在這裡可做得更好的任何建議？
4.要求針對特定任務的反饋，以校準自己的特定技能。
例如，如果您不確定自己的演講能力如何，請在演講後跟幾個人說：“我希望提高我的演講技巧。你認為我的上台 簡報如何？有什麼讓它好兩倍的建議嗎？”
(以上可自行斟酌修改)

★一分鐘商業英文 One-Minute Business English
【managing up】向上管理
to build a successful working relationship with a superior, manager, or employer.
My co-worker is known for his ability to manage up. He knows our boss’s needs very well, and our boss tends to rely on him the most.我的同事以向上管理能力著稱。 他非常了解我們老闆的需求，我們老闆往往最依賴他。
Henry is terrible at managing up. Henry doesn’t want to talk to his boss, so he does not have a good relationship with her. Henry亨利的管理能力很差。 亨利不想跟老闆說話，所以跟她關係不好。

★過往集數關聯
:: 採集完本集的誠實豆沙包問卷之後，再回到Ep40. 統整
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It was a pretty exhasuting and fun week though!

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5. What are their weird traits/habits?
6. Do you want your alone time while you live together?
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I work as a full-time model, and a singer-songwriter musician. My channel is based on lifestyle, beauty & fashion videos. I have always loved documenting everything, and being able to look back.

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