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麥明詩近年由幕前淡出，轉行到國際著名顧問公司任職。回望10年前，佢正式踏入劍橋大學讀law，佢post咗張2011年入學嘅相，感恩每個人同每個成長經歷都成就今天嘅佢：「Looking back, I treasure every experience and every person I met along the way. They made me who I am today. #noregrets #人生有幾多個十年」
網友留言大讚佢10年嚟一樣咁charm，不過就有人留言指出麥明詩近乎完美嘅人生嘅一個遺憾，就係要同佢某位舊愛扯上關係，戥佢不值：「係你一生嘅遺憾！」獲麥明詩本尊回應：「Still something I don’t regret!」被網友讚佢大方得體。
Break Free From Regrets
“Not that I have already obtained, or am already made perfect; but I press on, if it is so that I may take hold of that for which also I was taken hold of by Christ Jesus. Brothers, I don’t regard myself as yet having taken hold, but one thing I do. Forgetting the things which are behind, and stretching forward to the things which are before, I press on toward the goal for the prize of the high calling of God in Christ Jesus.” (Philippians 3:12-14 WEB)
To whoever is battling with regrets about the past, I want to encourage you with this message.
Someone once asked me seriously if he could go back to the past to change a mistake that he made. The mistake is currently causing some bad consequences in his life.
The truth is, there is no such thing as returning to the past. There are no parallel universes either—if not, will all versions of people stand before Jesus’ throne for judgment at the end of time?
The only reality is here and now. You are the only version of you—uniquely made by God. Yes, God sees the past, present, and future, but every person can only really be in one place at one time.
No matter what has happened in the past, good or bad, press on and forget the things which are behind.
Treat it like today is day one of your new life. Every day is a fresh beginning to walk with the Lord.
God is so good that He can restore you with much more/better than what you lost in the past.
The first step to healing from a trauma suffered in the past is to decide to press on and look forward from now on.
“Therefore let us also, seeing we are surrounded by so great a cloud of witnesses, lay aside every weight and the sin which so easily entangles us, and let us run with perseverance the race that is set before us, looking to Jesus, the author and perfecter of faith, who for the joy that was set before him endured the cross, despising its shame, and has sat down at the right hand of the throne of God.” (Hebrews 12:1-2 WEB)
Cast your burden of regret into the Lord Jesus’ hands—He cares for you. Turn away from the hurt and look into Jesus’ smiling face.
You cannot run freely when there is a heavy boulder strapped to your ankle. Let that regret go and experience the peace, lightness, and freedom.
“But the path of the righteous is like the dawning light, that shines more and more until the perfect day.” (Proverbs 4:18 WEB)
There is a race, we run by grace, and there are prizes to be won. God placed a high calling in you. The future is bright and glorious so keep looking forward from now on. Things will get better!
Did you know that God has a plan to prosper you in all things through His restoration? In “All Things Made New”, you will find strong encouragement and comfort based on restoration truths from the Bible, causing you to look forward to a better future: https://bit.ly/prosper-through-restoration
【一切的失敗和不足，都是最美好的安排】
All Failures & Lacks Are The Best Things to Happen to Us
三個月前，收到來自台灣客人的這封電郵時，開心和心酸交織著在心裡。
開心，因為這是一年前通過Zoom視訊的客人。他居然在我們看八字的一週年，特地寫了封感謝函給我，真有心！
心酸，因為他寫在電郵裡的低落心情，我完完全全明白。
他的經歷，是我的曾經。我當初也是很難，很久才能走出來。
有一回，我為一位芳華正茂的女子批八字時，她很用心的寫下我說的話。
論寫筆記的完整，她是我客人當中的佼佼者。
寫到一半，我注意到她的右手開始微微顫抖。我以為是空調的風太大了，冷到她，便問她要不要披巾。
她說，是她的焦慮症發作。
「我沒在兇你，也沒對你嚴厲，你為何突然焦慮？」
「我.....打從今年疫情打亂了我的計畫，我就一直很焦慮。我覺得我很沒用，同學們都前進了，只有我現在什麼都不是，亂糟糟的。我就一直很緊張，萬一我一直都是這樣，怎麼辦？」
說著，她眼眶一紅，眼淚像斷了線的珍珠鏈似的灑下來。
我的媽呀！是我的樣子長得很催淚，還是我的聲音聽起來很虐心？怎麼客人，不分男女老少，東南西北，看到我好像都很容易哭？
我抓起一張紙巾遞給她。
「所以，我不是來了嗎？你來找我，就是要問個明路，而你很幸運那麼快就看到我啦！你看你的筆記寫得多工整，多齊全。我很多客人都不如你啊！我今天的工作，就是來給你答案的。我沒有把握，也不會接你這份差事。我接了，就代表還可以補救。你照著我的指示去做，一定柳暗花明又一村。」
又另一回，一位四十多歲的媽媽請我看兒子的八字。
我在批著八字時，這位媽媽點頭認同，然後就聲淚俱下。
我轉頭看著她沈默不語的先生。我說錯了什麼嗎？太太哭成淚人，你怎麼連紙巾也不拿給她啊？
「我是個沒有用的母親，很不稱職的母親。我沒有辦法教好孩子。我很愛他，可是很多時候我都不知道要怎麼做，我就會對他發脾氣，說狠話，過後我又後悔。我忍下來，可是後來還是會一樣！」
我沒打斷她，等她的哭聲逐漸小聲後，我柔柔的說：「我來啦！我坐在你前面了。你已經看到我，就是有辦法了。你知道你自己不行，會去找辦法，就代表你願意去學習做個好媽媽啊！」
我把紙巾遞給她，再說：「不要哭了，要不然，別人看了以為是我不要借你錢，才把你弄得那麼傷心。」
曾幾何時，我們都會以外在所擁有的，來定義自己的人生是否值得自己喜歡。
從原生家庭、樣貌、健康、身型、智力、天賦等，到後來的學歷、友情、事業、財富、婚姻、子女......
哪一樣沒有，而偏偏是我們最想要的，我們就會認定自己失敗的一塌糊塗。
我認為這就是普通教育最大的問題所在。父母老師都是這樣把我們「分門別類」的。值不值得父母疼愛或向親朋戚友炫耀，也離不開那幾點。
久而久之，我們也只會以「成功」來定義自己是否有價值，甚至來衡量自己是否有活下去的勇氣。
我比較喜歡佛法的定義。我們每個人都是一尊佛，六道眾生皆有佛性，只因一時的迷，因此墮落在苦輪不停的輪迴。
可正因為我們有佛性，我們都有無窮無盡的可能。每個人的內在有著很強大的力量，等著我們遇到明師後，去發掘、探索和了解。
而這天生俱來的力量，就是你改命立命的資本。
如果人生順風順水，我們永遠不會想要出離，誤把人間當極樂，所以一定要有苦，我們才會意識到，為什麼我們會在這鬼地方？要怎麼樣才可以離開這鬼地方去到極樂？
反過來，我們都應該感恩自己遇到的挫折，因為從這些苦中，我們才能生出智慧。
沒有一個八字是完美的。一切的失敗和不足，都是最美好的安排，如此你才會有出離心，返本歸源。
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3 months ago, when I received this email from my Taiwan client, there was this feeling of bittersweetness.
I was happy because this was the client I did a Zoom consultation last June. He sent me this email on the one-year anniversary date of our Zoom call, to express his gratitude. How sweet!
On the other hand, I could relate to the emotional turmoil he felt at that point in his life.
His experience was my past. It also took me a very long time to walk out from my gloominess.
Once, I analysed the Bazi of a very young lady. She was meticulously jotting down notes as I spoke.
Her detailed note-taking skills easily took the top place among my clients.
Halfway through, I noticed her right hand was trembling slightly. I thought it was due to the cold draft from the air conditioning, so I asked if she needed a shawl.
She replied that it was her anxiety disorder acting up.
“I was not fierce or strict with you. What caused your sudden anxiety?”
“I…ever since the pandemic disrupted my plans, I have been in this state of anxiety. I kept feeling useless. All my classmates are progressing expect me. I have nothing to show for and my life is in a mess. I am very anxious. What if I continue to be like this? What am I going to do?”
As she spoke, her eyes turned red and tears started rolling down like a broken strand of pearl necklace scattering onto the ground.
Oh dear! I am beginning to wonder if I have a tear-jerker face or a heart-tormenting voice. Why do my clients, regardless of gender and age, North South or East West, seem to cry easily when they see me?
I grabbed a piece of tissue and handed it to her.
“Ain’t I here already? You came to me for a roadmap and you are very lucky to see me so soon. Look at how precise and neat your notes are! Many of my clients aren’t even on par with you. My job today is to give you answers. If I didn’t have the confidence, I would not have taken up your request. Now that I did, that means there is still hope. If you follow my instructions, you will see things looking up very soon.”
On another occasion, a mother in her forties came to me for her son’s Bazi consultation.
As I was analysing, the mother nodded her head in agreement. The next thing I know, she started weeping loudly.
I turned to look at her husband, who had been silent all along. Did I say something wrong? And hello, your wife was crying. Why weren’t you gentleman enough to give her a tissue paper?
“I am a useless mother. I am incompetent. I do not know how to teach my son well. I love my son very much. But many times, I do not know what to do and thus I flare up at him and speak harshly. I always regret afterwards. I tried enduring but it still ends badly!”
I did not interrupt her and waited for her cries to soften, before speaking gently, “I’m here! I’m already sitting in front of you. You are looking at me now and that means help is here. You know that you are incompetent, so you went looking for solutions. That means you are willing to learn how to be a better mother!”
I handed a piece of tissue and said, “Don’t cry anymore, otherwise, other patrons will think that it’s because I refuse to lend you money.”
Since young, we have been using external possessions to define whether our lives are worth liking.
The family we are born into, our looks, health, body shape, intellect, talents, and then we move on to compare our academics, friendships, career, wealth, marriage and children.
If we are lacking in the area we covet most, we grade our lives as a failure.
I think this is the biggest problem in societal education. Our parents and teachers categorized us that way. Whether we as children are worthy of their love and bragging, depends on the few points above too.
Thus over time, we can only use the term “success” to determine whether we are of value, for some people, whether they should live on to take their next breath.
I very much prefer the definition in Buddhism. We are all Buddhas. Each and every sentient being in the six realms has a Buddha nature in them. But they got lost momentarily and fell into the endless wheel of reincarnation.
Yet, because of our Buddha nature, we have an unlimited source of potential. Every one of us has a very powerful strength inside us. It is just waiting for us to meet an accomplished teacher, so that we have the tools to explore and understand it:
And this strength that we are born with is the capital for us to transform and establish our own destiny.
If life is smooth-sailing, we would never want to leave and would mistake this mortal realm for Pureland. Thus, we all need sufferings, to realise that we should break out of this hell of a place. There has to be a better world somewhere. So how we get there?
We should, in fact, be grateful for all the setbacks and failures we have. Because it is from these sufferings, our wisdom arise:
No single Bazi is perfect. Every failure and lack we experience is the best arrangement for us, so that the heart of renunciation will arise in us and we will return to where we came from.
This excerpt is from: Made Right In His Sight (9 May 2021)
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As a believer, you have been made perfectly righteous in the sight of a holy God—all because of Jesus’ finished work at the cross! In this foundational message by Joseph Prince, see why being conscious of your righteous standing before your heavenly Father causes you to reign over addictions, sicknesses, and undesirable habits. Learn powerful truths that will help you:
• See victory over destructive habits when you actively receive God’s gift of righteousness.
• Overcome every failure and regret as you begin to see yourself the way God sees you—irrevocably righteous in Christ.
• Experience God’s grace superabound in your weaknesses and mistakes, and become a beautiful testimony for His glory.
• Receive 120 percent restoration for all your losses when you learn to see Jesus as your guilt offering.
Beloved, you were made righteous at a great price. Start seeing yourself the way God sees you and begin to experience victory in every area of defeat!
Excerpt Summary:
0:00 Don't Let The Enemy Define You
2:06 Why Did God Give The Law?
4:35 Your Weakness Can Be Your Greatest Testimony!
6:48 God Used David And Peter Despite Their Weaknesses
9:38 How Should We Respond To Our Weaknesses?
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《ジョゼと虎と魚たち》
蒼のワルツ / Ao no Waltz / 蔚藍的華爾滋 / Waltz of the Blue
作詞 / Lyricist：Eve
作曲 / Composer：Eve
編曲 / Arranger：Numa
歌 / Singer：Eve
翻譯：澄野（CH Music Channel）
意譯：CH（CH Music Channel）
English Translation: CH（CH Music Channel）
背景 / Background :
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中文翻譯 / Chinese Translation :
https://home.gamer.com.tw/creationDetail.php?sn=5053985
英文翻譯 / English Translation :
日文歌詞 / Japanese Lyrics :
懐かしさに溺れた まだ青かった僕ら
雲が残る合間 ただ太陽を見ていた
おざなりな僕ら 溢れだした声が
ただ大切な事は 伝わらないようにできてた
かたちのない色味を 抱きしめてみたの
期待と不安の日々を 後悔の味で知った
知らない世界へ 手を伸ばしたくて
強がりのウソなど ポケットにしまった
優しさを包む痛みも全部
覚えていたくて
ただ願って願って 生まれ変わっても
不確かな未来を謳っては触れたくて
伝って伝って 頬を流れる
その涙の味は いつかの約束
ただ灰になって 朧げになって
遠く何処かへ この夜を越えて蒼に染まる
夜もすがら夢を 張り巡らした想いを
見つからないまま 月は影を落とした
寝もやらず明けて 手も離せなくて
憧れる君を 遠ざけてしまった
あの日の僕の眼差しも全部
霞んでしまって
ただ痛くて痛くて 堪らない
空の青さは深く色を孕んでは冷たくて
伝って伝って 寄せ合う肩を
震わせた 微かな温もりを抱いては
まだ見ぬ世界へ 花は風を待って
遠く何処かへ この夜を越えて蒼に染まる
犯してきた過ちも その後悔さえも
かけがえのないものだから
ただ願って願って 生まれ変わっても
不確かな未来を謳っては触れたくて
伝って伝って 頬を流れる
その涙の味は いつかの約束
ただ灰になって 朧げになって
遠く何処かへ この夜を越えて蒼に染まる
中文歌詞 / Chinese Lyrics :
依舊青澀的我們沉溺於懷舊過去
僅是望著雲雲間隙中探頭的太陽
從敷衍的我們口中流露出的聲音
刻意不透露一絲珍貴重要的事情
我曾試圖伸手擁抱那不具形體的滋味
期待與不安的時光，帶著後悔的苦味度過
我希望能將手伸向未知的世界
而把倔強的謊言收進口袋裡
將溫柔包裹起的苦痛也想全部——
毫不畏懼地體驗看看
僅是祈求著、渴望著，若能有來生
仍想高頌並觸及那不可預測的未來
緩緩地、緩緩地，自臉龐滑下的淚水
那淚水的味道是某日一同許下的約定
哪怕僅化作一片朦朧、化作點點塵埃
仍邁向遙遠的某處，飛越這片黑夜、渲染上蔚藍的色彩
那夜深人靜的夢，與那心頭滿溢的思念
始終無法尋回，僅是與月光映照的身影相伴
徹夜未眠至天明，依然畏懼鬆開緊繫的雙手
卻不知不覺與憧憬的你，漸行漸遠
那一天我看見的一切也全都——
因淚水變得模糊不清
僅是隱隱作痛、好難受，令人難以承受
天空的蒼藍孕育出的顏色太過冰冷刺痛
緩緩地、緩緩地，兩人互相倚靠的雙肩
你總輕輕顫抖，只要我抱起你、傳遞那微微的溫暖
繁花等著風兒吹起，向著從未見過的嶄新世界
邁向那遙遠的某處，飛越這片黑夜、渲染上蔚藍的色彩
不論是曾犯下的過錯，抑或惦記的點點懊悔
「全都是無可取代的珍貴回憶啊。」所以啊——
僅是祈求著、渴望著，若能夠再有來生
仍想高頌並觸及我們那不可預測的未來
緩緩地、緩緩地，自你臉龐滑下的淚水
那淚水的鹹味是彼此曾一同許下的約定
哪怕所有的回憶早已化作一片朦朧塵埃
仍向著遙遠的某處，飛越這片黑夜、渲染上海洋般蔚藍的色彩
英文歌詞 / English Lyrics :
Drowning in nostalgia, we were still young
I was just looking at the sun while the clouds remained
We were so standoffish, with the overflowing voice
I couldn't express the things that are so important to us
I tried to embrace the shapeless color
I learned about the days of expectation and anxiety with the taste of regret
I want to reach out to a world I don't know
But I put my pretended strength back in my pocket
I want to remember all the pain that surrounds my kindness
Simply pray and pray, even if I am reborn
I don't want to forget that uncertain future
Tears that intertwined and trail down the cheek
are the taste same as the promise from that day
Even if they become ashes and everything becomes vague
Somewhere far away beyond this night, it is dyed in blue
I've been dreaming all night long with these overflowed feelings
The moon cast a shadow without being found
I couldn't sleep and couldn't let go of our hands
You're the one I yearn for, yet somehow I've kept you away
All the things my eyes saw on that day have also become hazy
It just hurts and hurts and I can't stand it
The blueness of the sky is deep and cold.
Our shoulders slowly close together
You shivered, I pass on my slight warmth
To the world we haven't seen yet, with flowers dancing in the wind
Somewhere far away beyond this night, it is dyed in blue
The mistakes I made and even the regrets are irreplaceable, so I...
Just hope and hope even if you are reborn
I want to touch and sing along with the uncertain future
The taste of tears that fall and fall down my cheeks
are the taste same as the promise from that day
Even if they become ashes and everything becomes vague
Somewhere far away beyond this night, it is dyed in blue
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Disclaimer: i know i talked about people A LOT and how social media has affected my relationships with people around me in a bad bad way. I am traumatised up till this day and I don’t want you to feel the same way. I’ve deleted my Twitter since then and I regret nothing out of it. I am still trying to post less on Instagram and the only purpose I am making these YouTube contents is purely in good faith. I am in no way attacking anyone in any of my videos. This is just a reminder to myself from myself.
Kadang I know kita niat nak tegur orang, and kita tanpa sengaja tak sedar kita pun sama je macam orang yang kita nak tegur tu. It’s not your fault, really. Kita tend to nampak salah orang sebab itu yang kita nampak, kalau you boleh nampak diri you from others POV pun you would tegur yourself. Hence, why I encourage us all to always look at ourselves from other’s POV. Sure be yourself and jangan fikir pasal orang but???? kita hidup bukan seorang kat dunia ni. Kadang kena consider orang kat sekeliling kita selesa tak to be around us??? Ke tak? Ke kita tetap kena lantakkan apa orang kata?? idk man ikut korang la
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