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《When baby outgrows us》I still remember vividly one of our baby favourite toy when she was small is the wooden cow she is holding in the picture. Every time she grew frustrated during dining in kitchen, I will perform the moo moo dancing show and she will let out peals of contagious laughter, to the extent triggering our natural smile and forgo the life pressure during that magical moment.As time goes by, she gets more toys, courtesy of our friends and some purchases thanks to the evilish yet persuasive monthly sales promotion in Lazada and Shopee. Then the wooden cow was forgotten gradually and stored in the plastic box.Then today we saw this wooden cow and took it out for her to play, and even tried to perform a little moo moo dancing show. She showed little interest at it, and still focused on her other toys instead. Suddenly we realised she has grown so much. From a baby who even had a hard time to sit up straight to almost a toddler who will shift to a new corner once we did not pay attention for a mere 10 second. Her mind, characters, personality and physical had grown, while we as parents mindset somehow still frozen in those days, thinking the dancing moo moo will amuse her.We are fortunate for able to spend more time with her at home due to the pandemic covid-19, while unfortunately at the same time as spending time at home more means lesser job to generate more income. Nevertheless, I am grateful for what we have now - a small family, a healthy baby and live happily for now, though at times we may have to tighten the budget.Cherish the moment. Perhaps I should learn from our baby. She has learn new skills and the dancing moo moo is no longer entertaining. Now she finds Coldplays song Yellow much fascinating. Time to step up to do something different?

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Daily advice for HK immigrants to the West:

Regarding parenting, you’ll need to be your children’s protector. Some of your kids will be bullied in school because of their race or their shyness. Telling your kids to ignore the bully is a piece of useless (but widely popular) advice. There are several better approaches you can take regarding the issue. First and most importantly, have a conversation with your kids. Understand how they feel. Ask lots of questions without judgment. Never blame the victim. Second, encourage them to get into sports, after school clubs, or martial arts. Sports may not be important in HK, but sports are vital in Western countries. Many young people find their identities in sports growing up (i.e. “I’m a footballer…I play baseball…I wrestle.”). In the West, athletic participation is one of the best ways to bond with others, thus preventing your child to be isolated for bullies. Once your child builds his or her circle of influence in sports or clubs, the bullies would probably leave them alone. Third, you can also take the legal route of coping with bullying. Warn the school administrators that you’ve entrusted your child under their protection and that you’ll hold them legally responsible for the child’s safety. There’re many wonderful administrators who would wisely handle things to provide a win-win solution. Quite often, bullies themselves come from unhappy homes and they act out their sadness and anger on your child. Other administrators may take a less helpful approach. If you state your concern in legal terms, most administrators will take action. Always be your child’s biggest advocate. Your child needs to understand that mom and dad are there to protect them in a new, strange and sometimes hostile environment. Hoping the problem will go away magical thinking. Your approach may lead to your children’s impending depression and other health problems. In the worst-case scenario, you can get them killed. The school violence in Western society is no joke.

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