早上在幫兒子準備要帶的東西,因為今天是去球場練球,需要的東西比平常多,所以由他負責說,我負責集合用品. 擺著擺著,我腦袋裡又想起來了【麥迪遜之橋】裡Francesca說的一段話: " You build a life of details and you just stop and stay steady so that your children can move......"
在不同的育兒階段裡,同樣一句話給我有不同的想法和感受. 現在的我才開始有種漸入佳境的感覺. 雖然兩個孩子的頑皮度不曾減少,但是和他們的相處上卻越來越有意思. 看著一個上大班,一個要上小二的小孩在跟我分享、解釋、激辯、提醒......不管他們說什麼,我都覺得他們的樣子好妙. 不管讓我再重新選擇幾次,我還是會選擇當媽媽,因為如果沒有經歷那些酸甜苦辣,我們不會成為現在的自己,而且我相信我們會越來越好! 不管怎樣,我們一定要先把我們自己照顧好,才能照顧我們愛的人. 媽媽們,我們一起繼續努力❤️!
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那段電影中的對話:
Francesca: You don't understand. Don't you see? Nobody understands when a woman makes a choice to marry and have children; in one way her life begins but in another way it stops. You build a life of details and you just stop and stay steady so that your children can move. And when they leave, they take your life of details with them. You're expected to move on, but you don't even remember what moved you because no one's asked you in so long. Not even yourself. But you never think ...you never think love like this will happen to you.
Robert Kincaid: But now that you have it.
Francesca: Now I want to keep it forever. I want to love you the way I do now for the rest of my life. But if we leave,we lose it. And I can't make an entire life disappear to start a new one. All I can do is try to hold on us somewhere inside of me. You have to help me.
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這是在YouTube上找到文字敘述的那段電影片段: https://www.youtube.com/watch…
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