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<自製sensory/play table> 由於我們家已經有個water table，媽媽一直遲遲無法下手再買個別的activity table， #尤其亞馬遜上很多動輒五十到好幾百鎂，讓實在很不想把女鵝寵壞的老母想破頭。
女鵝一歲半前我都給他直接放個盒子在地上玩。#所謂的“盒子”其實就是冰箱冷凍庫幾乎都有的tray(如圖)，好沖洗摔不壞，非常耐用，如果大家冰箱沒在用那個的話其實拿來當sensory bin 將將好。
但女鵝在地上坐久後，#我開始發現她怎麼越來越坐沒坐像，於是開始四處找尋可以放盒子的桌子。而如果單純架高盒子很容易整個弄翻，所以得找個可以固定的東西。
不久前拿到姑姑留的恩典toddler shopping cart 後，媽媽突然💡💡💡決定拿來當sensory table的架子，結果真的是高度剛剛好，tray也卡的剛剛好，可以四處推，又超級好清耐用(水管噴噴就好了)。於是現在這個推車有時拿來推娃娃球球，有時拿來當桌子，#媽媽寶寶都歡喜 - 跟大家分享一下🤗
PS 由於這恩典牌有點年紀了，我找不到可以買的網站，希望別的牌子也能達到同樣的效果!
HAZY DAY BOREDOM BUSTERS!! 🌈🙌❤️
1. Make playdough or borax-free slime (recipe and step-by-step highlights on my ig @rachealkwacz).
2. Cornstarch, oats, toilet paper and water, psyllium husk, soapy water and brushes, newspaper, the pantry is your oyster in sensory play ideas!
3. Make a fort and get cosy with some books and cuddle buddies.
4. Have an art attack afternoon and craft together or paint in the shower for an easy clean up.
5. Turn up some tunes and have a dance party! There’s even a playlist on Spotify called Hazed & Confused! 😂❤️
6. What time is it Mr Wolf? Duck duck goose. Simon Says. London Bridge. Ring around the Rosie. Hide & Seek. Candyland. Feed the Woozle. Twister. Or better yet, see what crazy game you and your toddler can come out with and I bet you they will!!!
7. Bake a special treat together, try out a new recipe, make ants on a log or just help mama make dinner!
8. Cosy up together and have a movie date complete w snacks and “fancy” juicetails!
9. Legos, magna tiles, wooden blocks, packaging material, recyclables..build something magical together.
10. Create your own band with musical instruments from the kitchen – wooden spoon karaoke, mixing bowl drums, beans in containers maracas…the possibilities are endless!
11. Expensive but very entertaining. Let your little pick a Lush bath bomb and go to town as they have the bath of their life. Buys you a good 30mins, just remember to stay close and supervise.
12. Clean and bring in your scooter or bicycle and just let them have fun around the house. Amp it up and create an obstacle course!
13. Invite a neighbor or friend over for a DIY pizza party/sundae bar/sandwich crazy or just to play!
14. For older littles or if you have kid-friendly nail polish, have a little mani-pedi mama and teeny tiny spa! 🦄
15. Mostly, it’s just bonus time together connecting but don’t forget that it’s perfectly okay (and healthy!) to take mama breaks for you too. ❤️
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Racheal Kwacz is a Child and Family Development Specialist, women’s leadership speaker and mama tribe advocate. As creator of the ‘RACHEAL Method’, she combines her 20+ years experience working with children in the USA and in Asia with the foundations of ‘Respectful Parenting’, leading parents and teachers around the world to raise kind, confident, compassionate, resilient little ones.
To learn more, follow and connect with her on socialmedia @rachealkwacz !
Following up on a question on our fb/ig LIVE last week on Sibling Rivalry, here's a previous Q&A on the same topic using the same Respectful Parenting principles.
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QUESTION
My daughter is very jealous of her brother. He is 6m old and she is 2 years old. When we are not looking, she will hit him or purposely disturb him. We tell her nicely not to do it but she doesn't listen. Sometimes we also scold her but she just ignore us and will do it again. Can you help?
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ANSWER:
Oh mama, first of all, I want you to know that you aren't alone. Sibling rivalry is such a major hot topic in fact we have a whole section in my upcoming Toddler Wars workshop that covers it!
Secondly, I want you to know that this is very normal behavior and your child is not a monster. She is just trying to make sense of her world the best way she knows how to so the heart behind Respectful Parenting is trying to understand where she is coming from then responding as a parent to help her navigate through it.
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1. MAMA TIME
The first thing I would do before even addressing the problem with her is to really think about how much intentional one-on-one time you might be spending with your daughter. In my workshops, we call this "mama time" and it is key in keeping your little one grounded.
The aim of mama time is to just be present for her - let her lead, make each other laugh, play play play, love on each other, fill her love tank. The reason why that is step one is because unless she feels a connection with mama, or has that intimacy with you, the rest of the answers won't work because that ultimately is what every child craves and seeks.
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2. MAKE SPACE
A lot of times as parents we want to fix the problem. That's what we do, we are fixers. The problem sometimes with always fixing is that there is no space to just breathe or feel or allow all these messy ugly feelings to happen. If we don't teach our littles that it's okay to have these feelings and empower them to deal with it, what will they do later on when they grow up and have to face all the same emotions by themselves?
Talk to her about what is going on. No lectures, no shaming, no blaming. What is going on? How can I help you? You are feeling very frustrated/angry/hurt/jealous. Help them label those feelings so they also understand what is happening.
Instead of saying "You are the older sister, you have to love him, you really love him right?" try asking and acknowledging instead what she might be feeling. Jealousy? Left out? Bored? Hangry? Overstimulated? Understimulated? Attention?
It is amazing how much just giving them the words and echoing their feelings will help them feel understood and heard. The aim is to work on the root cause, not the symptoms.
"You were feeling really sad that mama had to hold the baby and you don't like it."
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3. SAFETY FIRST
If it is a safety issue, we always step in whether it's physically removing her from her brother or keeping them apart if you are not there to supervise.
When you remove her, you stay calm and confident and let her know that "I am so sorry, I cannot let you hit brother. It isn't safe, I have to protect you both."
It is also being vigilant in knowing what her usual trigger points are and preventing those situations from happening as much as possible.
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4. EMPOWER
Lastly, the most important step is to empower her with tools for dealing with her jealousy. What other things can she hit if she's looking for that sensory output? What can she do when she feels jealous? What are some good solutions that can help her? The idea is that you ask her these questions and work out a solution that works for the whole team.
"What can you do the next time you need mama but mama is with the baby?"
When you involve your little in coming out with the solution, they are much more likely to follow through and to really understand why and what and how.
Teaching your little to honor and take charge of her feelings is a lifelong gift and skill and who better to navigate that with than with mama?
Always always remember that and that staying calm and confident is always half the battle won already.
You got this, mama!
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Racheal Kwacz is a Child and Family Development Specialist, mama tribe advocate and writer. As creator of the ‘Racheal Method’, she combines her 20+ years experience working with children in the USA and in Asia with the foundations of ‘Respectful Parenting’, leading parents and teachers around the world to raise kind, confident, compassionate, resilient little ones.
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To learn more about my upcoming Toddler Wars! workshop with Kidxy, check out:
http://www.kidxy.com/rk
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