【在職場,寫了Email卻得不到回信?有時候,對方其實在等你給他 #回信的理由】
對於經常要撰寫英文書信的職場人來說,無論是開發或者聯絡,你是否準確的表達,常常決定了對方是否要回覆,也決定了客戶是否認同你。
之前曾有一位負責幫公司申請國外專案資格認證的經理提問,他說一週前,他寫信給認證單位釐清某份文件是否也需要填寫,但對方遲遲沒有回覆,眼看申請認證的截止日期再過三天就要到了,到時認證要是沒拿到,公司就不能賣相關產品,造成公司財務損失...
像經理這樣有求於人,卻又等不到回覆的情境,你我都不陌生。為什麼對方不趕快回信呢?明明這些要求都很簡單啊,明明我們只是要知道一個數據、拿到一份報告、確認一個流程而已,手指頭在鍵盤敲個幾下,就可以回信了不是嗎?為什麼都過了一週,卻還沒有消息呢?
其實,我們在職場時常會收到一些「#無理要求」的email。這裡的無理並非無理取鬧,而是「#沒有理由(no reason)」,意思就是:有人會寫信請他提供數據、報告或幫忙處理一些事,但卻都沒解釋「為什麼」,看得他滿頭問號,覺得「我有義務做這些事嗎?」應該沒有很急吧?有時甚至遇到要求涉及機密,更讓他不知所措,乾脆統統不回,收件匣裡一堆信不知如何整理。
這邊舉一個容易被已讀不回的句子:
Could you please send me the latest figure by Jan 11?(可以請你在1月11之前寄給我報告嗎?)
文法正確,但字面上因為少了「為什麼」的解釋,無法令人感受到回信的「急迫性」!
這時只要善用 so that(如此一來),在句子後面補上應該要快點回覆的「理由」,例如,對方只要回信就能:解決什麼問題、達到什麼目的、完成什麼人的要求、趕上什麼時間點等,對收件者「明示」若不早點回信,可能會造成的影響是什麼。
比方說:Could you please send back the latest figure by Jan 11 so that we can finish the test by its deadline?(請在1月11日之前寄回報告,如此一來我們才能在截止日期前完成測試。)
看完 so that 之後的原因後,收件者就會「很清楚」知道若沒有即時回信是會有「代價」的,自然就會加速回信囉!
所以,想要加速對方回信,其實很簡單!就是:給對方一個理由,告訴他「為什麼」這些數據、報告、事情「應該」要馬上處理。
在英文聽說讀寫中,「寫Email」是唯一有機會「速成」的技巧!因為不用面對面即時回應,我們有充足的時間,可以利用平常蒐集的句型、結構、谷歌大神,還有其他各類工具來幫助我們。
這門Joy老師的【商務Email的結構化寫作法】課程,非常強調 #即戰力,把所有壓箱寶一次交給大家,目標是讓大家隔天就能看出明顯的進步。
>>https://bit.ly/38IxaxW
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so me 意思 在 Facebook 的最佳解答
最好的自己不在未來,就在現在。
認真回想,以前我好像在每一段關係中都是在扮演某一個角色,不由自主的在為每個對象做調整。不只有在戀愛上,有時候可能跟朋友、工作夥伴都是,尤其是在前輩面前,常常我都會本能反應似的改變自己。聲音要甜一點嗎?笑話要低級一點嗎?從穿衣服就可以看出,我今天是要跟誰吃飯。雖然是微調,但透露出了一件事,我好像不夠喜歡真正的自己,所以才會擔心大家也不會喜歡真正的我。我告訴自己即使累,但如果持續努力,有一天就能變成大家都喜歡的Lara。
久而久之我和世界的相處模式只有「由外到內」,會依照別人對我的反應去斷定我的下一步。大家會覺得我很好相處,我卻越來越不快樂。現在我慢慢開始懂了,原來我把順序弄反了。我該優先處理的是自己內心的感受,其他人買不買單,其實跟你一點關係都沒有。就像找另外一半,如果我跟夢中情人在一起,但我根本無法在他面前做自己,最後還是會走不下去。
我現在33歲,So What? 終於懂,「當下的自己」才是人生時間軸上最重要的!
對了,有人好奇這次「{}」的意思嗎?簡單說是「大括號」,在數學運算式中稱作「空集合」。數學不好的人就想像一個清空的行李箱吧。「空」不是無,而是無限可能。括號還有另外一個更好懂的意思,就是「優先處理」。將過去整理過後的自己,回歸純粹,態度成熟自信!(失戀後重新出發的人應該很有感觸吧!🤣)
Your best self is not in the future, but in the Now.
Looking back, I seem to have been playing a role in almost every relationship I was ever in. I'm not just talking about romantic relationships. Whether it was with friends or colleagues (especially seniors), I would modify myself almost instinctively. Should my voice be sweeter? My jokes dirtier? If you wanted to know who I was eating with that day, all you had to do was look at the clothes I was wearing.
The changes were subtle, but they still reflected a truth: I didn’t feel like the real me was enough so I was worried that other people would also find her lacking. I told myself that if I just kept working at it, I would someday become a version of Lara that everyone accepted.
Eventually I only knew how to get my cues from the external world. I would always base my next step on feedback I got from others. Most people considered me easy to get along with, but I grew more and more unhappy.
I think I had it all wrong. My first priority should have been listening to my inner voice. Whether or not other people agree with it is not in my control nor of my concern. Take looking for a partner. Even if I found the person of my dreams, it would never last if I couldn’t be myself around them.
I am 33 years old. So What? I finally understand that "the present self" is the most important thing on the timeline of life! It’s time to prioritize me!
By the way, is anyone curious about the meaning of "{}" this time? Besides the more commonly known representation of parentheses as prioritization, these curly brackets are called “the empty set”. The empty what? If like me, math is not your strongest suit, think of it as an empty suitcase. "Empty" doesn’t mean nothing, but infinite possibilities! What will you fill your life with this time?
2021全新專輯《來者何人{}》
數位收聽:https://LaraLiang.lnk.to/DearYou2
<再也沒有你> 陳勢安 Andrew Tan
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#再也沒有你 #NoMoreU #SoWhat30
so me 意思 在 C's English Corner Facebook 的最佳解答
#表達不滿的英文
#母語式學習法
「好機車喔~」這句話對我來說真是無所不在耶,我超常講的!不算髒話,又可以在小孩面前大講特講😏
這個「機車」絕對不會是motorcycle喔(未免也太直翻了🤦♀️)!
英文有一個滿接近的形容詞是 mean
情境1:
想像哥哥把妹妹的洋娃娃頭髮剪掉,妹妹很生氣覺得哥哥很機車,就可以大吼說:
😡 You’re so mean! Get out!
到Instagram聽解說,把發音小撇步學起來喔!
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情境2:
如果你有一個很兇、管很嚴、規則很多、動不動就罵你的老師(或老闆🤫)
你也可以說
My teacher was mean to me today. I didn’t do anything and he still yelled at me.
(我的老師今天對我好兇,我沒做什麼事他還是罵我。)
所以mean也有這種「兇兇的、不太和善」這種感覺喔!
另外,也可以想想「機車」的意思是什麼?其實就是對方講了一句話、做了一件事讓你覺得「很煩、很討厭」對不對?所以也可以用annoying
情境:
半夜的蚊子,打也打不到,超機車的!
😡 I just can't get rid of this mosquito! It's really annoying!
(我一直打不到這隻蚊子,好機車喔!)
所以啦~
再聽聽這支影片裡,他說什麼呢?
A: Why are you so mean to me?
(你為什麼要對我講這麼過分的話/對我這麼壞?)
B: It's pretty easy. You're a slob. You haven't shaved your leg in two weeks.
(就忍不住啊,妳真的很邋遢,妳已經兩個禮拜沒刮腳毛了。)
🌟 在Instagram上,有更完整的學習體驗喔!
IG傳送手指👉www.instagram.com/csenglishcorner
so me 意思 在 Teri Timeout Youtube 的最佳貼文
本年度最陽剛又最性感的MV就是Lil Nas X了😆
喜歡的話記得留言讓我知道,也別忘了訂閱我的頻道和開啟通知哦!
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【完整翻譯】Lil Nas X & Jack Harlow - Industry Baby
Baby back, couple racksCouple Grammys on him, couple plaquesThat's a fact, throw it backThrow it back
我回來了 帶著滿架子的獎牌
葛萊美拿了好幾座 白金唱片得了一堆
這一切鐵證如山
所以趕快轉過去熱舞來討好我
And this one is for the championsI ain't lost since I beganFunny how you said it was the endThen I went did it again
這是獻給稱霸的冠軍
踏上路以來 我從來就未曾迷失
你不覺得好笑嗎? 酸民說我玩完了
但我回來了 又大獲全勝
I told you long ago on the roadI got what they waiting for
I don't run from nothing, dogGet your soldiers, tell 'em I ain't layin' low
早在那條老街上 我就說了吧
我有大家引頸期盼的東西
我可不會隨便逃跑
所以告訴你的大軍 我沒有要低調引退的意思
You was never really rooting for me anywayWhen I'm back up at the top, I wanna hear you sayHe don't run from nothin', dogGet your soldiers, tell 'em that the break is over
反正你也從來沒喜歡過我
當我重返榮耀 我要聽到你說
「他不會輕易離場」
所以集結你的大軍 告訴他們休息時間結束了
Need to get this album doneNeed a couple number onеsNeed a plaque on every song
Need mе like one with Nicki now
我得把這張專輯完成
我得再拿下幾座冠軍
我要每一首歌都有白金獎牌
我要和Nicki一起站上高峰
Tell a rap nigga I don't see yaI'm a pop nigga like Bieber
I don't fuck bitches, I'm queer
But these niggas bitches like Madea
告訴嘻哈饒舌仔 我眼裡根本沒有你
我就像小賈斯汀一樣 流行到爆
妹子?我沒興趣 我是酷兒
你們這些酸民就像個老媽子一樣
let's do it
I ain't fall off, I just ain't release my new shit
I blew up, now everybody tryna sue me
You call me Nas, but the hood call me Doobie
開工吧
我沒有跌落神壇 我只是新歌還沒發
我一夕爆紅 現在每個人都想告我
你們叫我Nas 但我家鄉的人叫我Doobie
[Jack Harlow]
My track record so clean, they couldn't wait to just bash meI must be gettin' too flashy, y'all shouldn't have let the world gas me
我沒拿什麼獎 他們等不及就說我沒實力
我肯定是太招搖了 你們不該讓全世界噴爆我
It's too late 'cause I'm here to stay and these girls know that I'm nastyI sent her back to her boyfriend with my handprint on her ass cheek
太遲了 因為老子我已經要在這裡待下
妹子們都愛我
讓我在她的翹臀上留下紅紅的掌印
再回去找她男朋友
City talkin', we takin' notesTell 'em all to keep makin' postsWish he could, but he can't get close
OG so proud of me that he chokin' up while he makin' toasts
I'm the type that you can't control, said I would, then I made it so
謠言四起 我們做著筆記
告訴大家繼續po文吧
他只是羨慕 但他永遠趕不上我
嘻哈大老們為我驕傲 他敬酒的時候還在哽咽
我完全不受控 我就是說到做到
I don't clear up rumors, where's y'all sense of humor?
I'm done makin' jokes 'cause they got old like baby boomers
Turned my haters to consumers, I make vets feel like they juniors
Say your time is comin' soon, but just like Oklahoma
我從來沒在闢謠的 你們難道都沒幽默感嗎
我也不想在開玩笑了 不然怎麼講都是老梗
把我的酸民變粉絲 讓老兵變年輕
你說你的時代已經要來了
Mine is comin' sooner, I'm just a late bloomerI didn't peak in high school, I'm still out here gettin' cuter
All these social networks and computersGot these pussies walkin' 'round like they ain't losers
但我的時代來的更快 我是大器晚成
我在高中不受歡迎 但現在我越來越討喜
這些鍵盤戰士 總是故意說著妹子怎樣 顯得自己比較不魯
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3:59 歌詞解析
11:34 Industry Plants爭議
13:59 總結
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Lyrics:
I moved away and changed my number and when I did it
後來我就搬走了 還換了號碼
I’d hoped that cutting you off would make me feel different
我以為離開你就能一切重新開始
I know I'm weaker than I probably seem
我知道我日漸消瘦
I can't lie I blame you for everything
我得承認 我把一切都怪罪於你
All pins and needles when I meet somebody new and I
我遇到陌生人就會如坐針氈
Get all choked up whenever they ask about you and I
無論何時被他們問你的去向我都無言以對
Feel so pathetic and I wanna scream
覺得自己很可悲 好想喊出聲來
I can't lie I blame you for everything
我得承認 我把一切錯誤都怪罪於你
I think you know exactly what I mean
我以為你會明白我的意思
You really fucked me up
但你真的把我傷透了
Screaming at my mirror like I’m fucking drunk
我像喝醉了一樣對著鏡子發火
Question who I am and what I could’ve done
質問自己是誰 本該做些什麼
'Cause you're the one who told me that you were in love, oh
因為是你告訴我你戀愛了
You really fucked me up
你真的把我傷透了
Close my eyes and think of anything but us
閉上眼睛 除了我們什麼都可以想
Made me feel like I'm the one who's not enough
搞得好像我才是那個不夠好的人
But you're the one who told me that you were in love
但你是那個告訴我你在戀愛的人
Try to forget how you could never meet me in the middle
試著忘卻再也無法與你邂逅的事實
How all the pain that you inflicted made me feel so little
你給我帶來無盡的痛苦 讓我越來越自卑
A little tired of remembering
不堪回憶
I can't lie I blame you for everything
我得承認 我把一切錯誤都怪罪於你
You'd change so quick you'd start a fight and make me say I'm sorry
但你會改變得如此之快 是你挑起了矛盾 卻要我來道歉
Make me look like a fucking idiot at every party
讓我在所有派對上都表現得像個傻子
It made sick it’s so embarrassing
那些尷尬的回憶 你讓我感到噁心
I can't lie I blame you for everything
我得承認 我把一切錯誤都怪罪於你
And I think you know exactly what I mean
我以為你會懂我的意思
You really fucked me up
你真的把我傷透了
Screaming at my mirror like I’m fucking drunk
我就像醉了一樣對著鏡子發火
Question who I am and what I could have done
質問自己是誰 本該做些什麼
'Cause you're the one who told me that you were in love, oh
因為是你告訴我你戀愛了
You really fucked me up
你真的傷透了我
Close my eyes and think of anything but us
閉上眼睛 除了我們什麼都可以想
Made me feel like I'm the one who's not enough
搞得好像我才是那個不知滿足的人
But you're the one who told me that you were in love, oh
但你是那個告訴我你在戀愛的人
You really fucked me up
但你真的把我傷透
Screaming at my mirror like I’m fuckin drunk
我像喝醉了一樣對著鏡子發火
Question who I am and what I could’ve done
質問自己是誰 本該做些什麼
'Cause you're the one who said that you were in love, oh
因為是你告訴我你戀愛了
歌詞翻譯:原上巽
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so me 意思 在 Yunny Hou Youtube 的最佳解答
1 year ago today, I went on a semester long exchange to study at Korea's Sungkyunkwan University #성균관대학교 for Fall 2020. 🇰🇷It was truly an exchange journey that really changed my life. I still can't help to think back to all of the amazing people that I met on this exchange, all of the awesome adventures exploring Korea, making the best out of every day in the 5 months that I was there for. That's why I selected A to Z of my favourite memories from August to January to show you guys why going on exchange can be so life-changing and it is definitely the best decision that I have made! Enjoy the video and thank you SKKU and Korea! 💗💗 감사합니다~
and also sorry that I haven't been active in posting on the channel, because it took me the last month to slowly edit this video together with so many footage and a lot of planning 🙇♀️🙇♀️😭
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1年前的今天我實現了我一直以來夢想的韓國大學交換生活🇰🇷 現在想到每一天在韓國留學的時光都覺得每一天都過的很記憶深刻也很值得認識所有不同國家的交換學生。5個月真的過的好快,但是是我大學生活以來最難忘的一學期!這個影片是一篇我收集了五個月以來26個從A到Z最喜歡的回憶,希望你們看了也會覺得要去交換留學看看!💗💗真的很感謝我所有遇到的朋友和成均館大學給我這一次機會變成韓國大學生很精彩的玩遊韓國各地!希望你們會喜歡這隻影片唷~😊
不好意思一直沒有更新我的影片,足足花了一個月我才慢慢的把這個影片完成,接下來會加油繼續每週更新新影片!
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Songs
Music by Flux Vortex - Chemistry - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1tQ6DXcfvKo
Music by Sean Kolar - The Cure (Animus Volt Remix) - https://thmatc.co/?l=E574D9C5
Music by Animus Volt - Young Girl - https://thmatc.co/?l=8F5897FD
Music by Animus Volt - Victory - https://thmatc.co/?l=21FB2BBF
Music by Fiji Blue - Outside - https://thmatc.co/?l=17C360AF
Music by Lukey - Honeydream - https://thmatc.co/?l=178253EC
Music prod. by wavytrbl - Gold - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pchE1Ch_1eg
Music by Chandler Juliet - Way Too Young to Feel This Old - https://thmatc.co/?l=329095F6
Music: Savage Love (Laxed - Siren Beat) Jawsh 685, Jason Derulo
Music by Dylan Sitts - Christmas in My Heart (Dylan Sitts Remix) feat. Loving Caliber, Mia Pfirrmanhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2uAQjcVQdWw
Music by Fiji Blue - Home - https://thmatc.co/?l=8DAE1F61
Music by Fiji Blue - Wait! - https://thmatc.co/?l=B50D88F3
What I use:
♡ Camera | Canon G7X Mark ii
♡ Doodles | SketchBook iPad App
♡ Editing | Final Cut Pro x Adobe Premiere Pro