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Whoever that says the middle child character is quiet or even-tempered.. try mine. 🤪

Among all the 4 kids, Xin He has the strongest character, not shy, outgoing and wild. She may have some of my character, and I do believe her birth sign does contribute to her character.

More often, people said that #middlechild are being neglected, hence they know how to observe adult's body language and behave. I think mine is like the opposite, she does not care, and she always put up the best of herself to the outsiders (teachers excluded, ahem.. I'm so sorry to the teachers 🙇‍♀️).

But with her being neglected, that was not entirely true. After 1 year of IFC, I withdrew her out and brought her to work everyday. But, when business wasn't very good & I was so stressed, I neglected the 2 girls. Soon, Yi He was having health condition, my whole mind is focused on her.
So, I have to leave Xin He alone with the helper while I keep Yi He with me, accompanying her for hospital visits, even when she was admitted. It got worst after Didi's arrival as I have to bring Didi along during Yi He hospital visit. So, my energy is focused mainly on Yi He and Didi.

Xin He was also forced to grow up and stay strong for her eldest sister because she always encourages and act as a strong pillar for Yi He when she had her injection and during the days when she had side effects.

As for favouritism, we don't practise that:
- During quarrels, all parties involved will be scolded (after finding out the cause), because you can't clap with 1 hand.
- When buy things, I have to buy x4
- When 1 don't have party / photoshoot / toys, all don't have
- When 1 has fallen sick, the whole house eat porridge, so everyone have to play a part to keep ourselves healthy and safe.. if you don't want to eat 1-2 weeks of porridge 😏

She's wild, she's outgoing, she's cute, she love to draw and she love to piss her parents and teachers - That's my 2nd child - Xin He.

对她永远都是多一份心疼，可是每次给她气到一命呼呼。。
#qiqiparentingsharing

Whoever that says the middle child character is quiet or even-tempered.. try mine. 🤪

Among all the 4 kids, Xin He has the strongest character, not shy, outgoing and wild. She may have some of my character, and I do believe her birth sign does contribute to her character.

More often, people said that #middlechild are being neglected, hence they know how to observe adult's body language and behave. I think mine is like the opposite, she does not care, and she always put up the best of herself to the outsiders (teachers excluded, ahem.. I'm so sorry to the teachers 🙇‍♀️).

But with her being neglected, that was not entirely true. After 1 year of IFC, I withdrew her out and brought her to work everyday. But, when business wasn't very good & I was so stressed, I neglected the 2 girls. Soon, Yi He was having health condition, my whole mind is focused on her.
So, I have to leave Xin He alone with the helper while I keep Yi He with me, accompanying her for hospital visits, even when she was admitted. It got worst after Didi's arrival as I have to bring Didi along during Yi He hospital visit. So, my energy is focused mainly on Yi He and Didi.

Xin He was also forced to grow up and stay strong for her eldest sister because she always encourages and act as a strong pillar for Yi He when she had her injection and during the days when she had side effects.

As for favouritism, we don't practise that:
- During quarrels, all parties involved will be scolded (after finding out the cause), because you can't clap with 1 hand.
- When buy things, I have to buy x4
- When 1 don't have party / photoshoot / toys, all don't have
- When 1 has fallen sick, the whole house eat porridge, so everyone have to play a part to keep ourselves healthy and safe.. if you don't want to eat 1-2 weeks of porridge 😏

She's wild, she's outgoing, she's cute, she love to draw and she love to piss her parents and teachers - That's my 2nd child - Xin He.

对她永远都是多一份心疼，可是每次给她气到一命呼呼。。
#qiqiparentingsharing

Edit: Ini bukan kisah/pengalaman dari saya. Kisah ni adalah pengalaman org lain. Mohon baca smpai bawah sbab dkat bawah sekali sya ada letak kredit dari siapa kisah ni🤗.

Anxiety .

Macam mana mahu cakap eh . Orang yang tak rasa dia takkan paham . Sakit dia lagi perit . Orang tengok macam sihat tapi dalaman tu tak kuat . Rasa dia memang rasa nak mati . Memang sakit dia tidak ada luka , tidak ada lebam ,tiada apa apa pon .
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Anxiety .

How to say eh. People who don't think won't understand. It hurts so much more painful. People look healthy but the interior is not strong. Feels like he's dying. It's painful he has no wounds, no bruises, nothing.

When you go to the doctor, check it's nothing. There are even people who consider anxiety to be mentally ill, mentally insane. Because I don't feel it, right? If you feel it, you'll know it. We don't ask for this pain but he will keep attacking without giving a hint. Anyone can actually get it.

I explain it simple and easy to understand. This anxiety will make someone worried for no reason, hard to breathe, heart beats quickly, can't sleep, too think of something at a time, mind is messed up, the most afraid is always thinking about death. Those who got gestric, gerd will be like this too.

Heard people will laugh. Undeniable. Even if you tell people about it, people will say crazy. Crazy is different, pressure is different. The average anxiety is caused by mental and physical and often thinking aimlessly. and many factors too.

This anxiety is about to recover, it takes time. Some have been living since childhood to adult. Someone has been alive for years. Someone passed away. Yes. People look at one eye but don't feel it. If seen with rough eyes, they won't show the anxiety suffering. Always crying for no reason because of fear and worry.

When you want to sleep, everyone is scared. out of the house scared. Easy story all scared and worried. Some have lost their appetite until they become thin and dry. Not going out of the house as if I felt something was going to happen but it wasn't Always feel ′′ soon I will die ′′ but it doesn't happen. Life becomes depressed and depression happens.

Patients with anxiety can recover. but he won't recover 100 %. Depends on someone too. What determines it is MINDSET. No one wants to be like this right 😊 even me too.

There are people who don't understand, they will say anything 😅 lack of faith, lack of religion and all sorts. Wrong. I'll tell you a little. When anxiety patients want to pray, even the prayers will not be humble. How do I know? I've also experienced anxiety so I'm very memahmi.

Here I mention how to cure anxiety in general. If anyone wants to add, you can do it.

1) get close to god. More istighfar, prayers, prayers. Inshallah

2) please stay away from negative people. Let's not have many friends as long as they are quality friends. When being friends with negative people, our minds will be stressed and worse anxiety

3) mindset. Always say in my heart and exchange the mindset ′′ I'm healthy, not afraid ′′. Sometimes because our mindset is weak. Fix the mindset.

4) do not be alone. Always hang out, talk and tell the problem to people who understand us and believe. Luv everything, must be relieved.

5) doing fun activities with friends, husband, children or parents to avoid thinking too much and worrying. A little bit can make us forget about that ′′ thing

6) do not sleep alone. Always sleep to be friends so that you can handle the unwanted happen. An example of anxiety will lack of sleep and be anxious quickly, or maybe short of breath. People around are very important and play roles.

7) if necessary, get doctor psy advice. Anxiety is not crazy. Don't be afraid. A little as much as can relieve patients. They are understanding. get their advice.

8) eat healthy maknan. Drink more cooking water.

9) challenge yourself to break the wall you're afraid of. for example, afraid to get out of the house. Challenge yourself to get out and be sure. Change mindset. Inshallah can.

10) mental and physical moral support. Skongan from Family, husband, wife, friends and those who understand what anxiety is. Always give them support.

Someone asked ′′ how to get anxiety?". Hmm as what I know is the possibility of a physical mental that is tired, weak, often thinking, stress because of taking care of your child, work, business, stress about people, and others (please refer to the expert).

If things come, we won't be expected. Anyone will get it. Even artists have to do it again, we are ordinary people 😊

Finally said, this anxiety comes without us being invited. And it's not necessarily what I say above. Maybe because of gastric, gerd and others. I'm telling you what happened to me and how I overcome everything I mentioned above. If there are other suggestions, it's up to follow or not. Everyone is different and I mention the way above is public. I'm not a doctor, but I'm sharing my expert only.

Please be alert if you have any friends or someone who lives this. Give support to each other and inshallah everything will be ready.

Anxiety and panic attack are different. Please ask the more arif.

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Credit: Shehnaz KhanTranslated

Lyrics :

Hello, beautiful stranger
This is so magical what can I say?
Lost myself in the loneliness
Drink my days away
You come and save me from the darkness

Just want you to know I will
give you my heart and my soul

Baby tell me what’s your name
tell me what you want
I just fell in love again
just want to belong
Maybe you will hold my hand
I’ll write you a song

And I feel it
In my heart
In my heart

Hello, lovely lady
Your smile warms my day
It’s not so complicated
Tell me what is new in Taipei

Oh I feel so alone
waiting by my phone

Baby tell me what’s your game
what’s going on?
Flowers bloom in Boston again
By the window front
I promise I will stay the same
when I go back home

And I feel it
In my heart

Baby tell me what’s your name
tell me what you want
I just fell in love again
just want to belong
Wasted and come around again
I heard you respond

And I feel it
Got this feel
And I feel it
In my heart
In my heart

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Lyrics:

I've got demons
我變成了惡魔
You've got scars
你也傷痕累累
But all the bumps and bruises take us to the place we are
但所有的坎坷瘀傷 帶我們去了現實之地
We've been through heaven and then we fell
我們歷經天堂 最終墮落
You might think it's over
你也許認為 這已經結束了
But the story's ours to tell
但我們的故事才剛剛開始

Just know that
你要堅信
I will be with you
我會在你身旁

Just keep looking for the moon and I'll be here
只需要一次次仰望月亮 我就在這裡等你
While you're searching for your life out in the dark
當你在茫茫黑暗中搜尋生活的出路
Looking for the moon you'll see it clear
只需要一次次仰望月亮 一切終會明朗
'Cause it shines the same wherever you are
因為你的所在之處永遠閃耀著同樣的光芒
Let it guide you don't look behind you
讓它指引你 再不回顧傷痕
If you stay within the light I'll always find you
如果你能被月光照射 我就一定能找到你
Looking for the moon and I'll be here
只需要一次次仰望月亮 我就在這裡等你
And you don't ever have to feel alone
你就不必忍受孤獨

'Cause I will be with you
我就在這守候你
I will be with you
我就在這裡等你
Keep looking for the moon
只需要一次次仰望月亮
I will be with you
我就在這裡等你

And my letters in my songs
歌曲中我的每一個字母
It's the thought of you that fills them up
是你的想法填滿了他們
And keeps me feeling strong
而它令我的思念愈加強烈
I don't regret it
我不後悔
I know it's hard
它著實艱難
But I know we are greater than the sum of our hearts
但比起兩顆心的起伏 我們更加出彩

Just know that
你要堅信
I will be with you
我就在這裡等你

Just keep looking for the moon and I'll be here
只需要一次次仰望月亮 我就在這裡等你
While you're searching for your life out in the dark
當你在茫茫黑暗中搜尋生活的出路
Looking for the moon you'll see it clear
只需要一次次仰望月亮 一切終會明朗
'Cause it shines the same wherever you are
因為你的所在之處永遠閃耀著同樣的光芒
Let it guide you don't look behind you
讓它指引你 再不回顧傷痕
If you stay within the light I'll always find you
如果你能被月光照射 我就一定能找到你
Looking for the moon and I'll be here
只需要一次次仰望月亮 我就在這裡等你
And you don't ever have to feel alone
你就不必忍受孤獨


'Cause I will be with you
我就在這守候你
I will be with you
我就在這裡等你

And I know how it feels to be lonely and lie awake on your own
我知道獨自一人是多麼寂寞 而你醒來在床上卻只能輾轉反側
(I will be with you)
（我就在這裡等你）
And I know how it hurts
我也知道你是多麼傷痕累累
When you hide that your heart is just holding on
只要你不斷深埋故作堅強的心
(I will be with you)
（我就在這裡等你）
But if you think that I'll forget you
但如果你認為我會忘記你
You must be crazy
你一定是瘋了
'Cause honestly it's not only you let me say
坦誠相待不只有你會讓我說
That I will be with you
我就在這裡等你

Just keep looking for the moon and I'll be here
只需要一次次仰望月亮 我就在這裡等你
While you're searching for your life out in the dark
當你在茫茫黑暗中搜尋生活的出路
Looking for the moon you'll see it clear
只需要一次次仰望月亮 一切終會明朗
'Cause it shines the same wherever you are
因為你的所在之處永遠閃耀著同樣的光芒
Keep looking for the moon
只需要一次次仰望月亮
I will be with you
我就在這裡等你
(I will be with you)
（我就在這裡等你）
Keep looking for the moon
只需要一次次仰望月亮
I will be with you
我就在這裡等你
'Cause I will be with you
我就在這守候你

歌詞翻譯：官頻

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Shanghai Memories of 1945
Written by J. Newton/Bryan Mu

I'm wondering how I came to be here
Lying alone trying hard not to shed a tear
Remember daddy said "Boys don't stay for long"
They always think that there's something wrong

I open up my eyes and I see
Little reminders of when you're here with me
I'm hooked to the telephone
Please you've got to call
I know you never promised anything at all

Shanghai memories of 1945
I don't cry, I don't cry
Shanghai memories of 1945
I don't cry, I don't cry

My last two weeks go by and I stay
All alone in my room with no one all day
I must realize you will never see
Life could be good if you only stayed with me