【上天為何會負你?】
Why Did Heaven Let You Down?
拼啊!!! 所以請問那個小數點是在第一個號碼後面嗎?😁
不說你不知,約八年前,我曾經銀行戶口裡只剩下新幣$0.83。因為之前的生意,資金周轉有困難,某日凌晨一點,我發簡訊向我媽借錢。那是我長了那麼大,生平第一次這麼做。發簡訊,因為我不敢打電話向我媽開口。
當時,我是整個家族裡的唯一一個大學生,每逢過年,長輩們都問我為什麼不找個安分守己的工作。在他們面前,我彷彿就是那個吊兒郎當的人妻,老公辛苦工作,我什麼都不成。我無法交代為何自己會那麼落魄,因為我也不懂。
那時,只覺得老天對我太不公平了。
小時候,父母做生意困難,長大後,卻輪到我繼承相同的命運。
小時後,在家常常接聽債主們的「奪命追魂call」。長大後,在外常常接到銀行的「快點還錢call」。所以到現在,雖早就沒欠債,我依然不喜歡聽電話,連發簡訊都不喜歡。
這也就是為什麼,我並沒有提供電話號碼給你們聯絡我。
那天,一位馬國的客人說:「老師,你的收費很貴!你賺很多錢!」
我氣定神閒的答:「我修來的。」
苦瓜吃了半輩子,也該輪到我修成正果了吧!妹妹,你為我開心,也能因隨喜而修來福報呀!
一個人不會平白無故失敗的。
你問我要怎麼鹹魚翻身,那我問你,你是否已經能夠赤裸裸的面對你的缺點呢?
我們會失敗,必定是被自己的缺點給絆倒的。
你能夠放下傲慢,接受你認為刺耳的話時,就是你迎接第二個春天的開始了。
缺點就是我們的盲點,也是讓我們折福造業的源頭。
你當真是做生意的,應該很厲害算。
我若說出你有哪二十個缺點,你可以選擇糾結生氣埋怨投訴,甚至向左鄰右舍、祖宗十八代數落我。你也可以選擇狠下心來,把那二十個缺點來個「七十二變」,變成你二十個嶄新的優點。
聰明的生意人,你算一下,長遠來說哪一宗交易比較賺錢?
然後再仔細想想,是上天負了你,還是因為你選擇視若無睹,而負了你自己?
我不認為你可以改,我不認為你還有成功的機會,我又何必冒著名譽和生命危險來「坦誠相對」呢?做壞人貪好玩meh?😂
我們可以是自己最大的貴人,也可以是我們最大的敵人,一切全在你一念之間。
大家修的福報和功德數量,一定要比你們的身份證號碼還長!比萬里長城更長!做個福德綿綿不絕的善人!
(圖片來源:不明網絡)
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Fight on! So excuse me, is the decimal point after the first number? 😁
You may not know this about me. About 8 years ago, I was so broke that I only have S$0.83 in my bank accounts. Because my previous business had cash flow problems, one night at 1am, I sent a SMS to my mum to borrow money from her. It was my first ever time doing that as a married adult. I sent the text message because I did not dare to call.
At that time, I was the only graduate in my entire clan. And every CNY, the elders would ask why I did not get a stable job. In their eyes, I was like that good-for-nothing married woman where the husband was toiling to make ends meet and me? Don’t know do what. I could not tell them how I ended up being so pathetic because even I myself didn’t know why.
I only felt Heaven was so unfair to me.
When I was a kid, my parents ran into difficulties managing their business. I sure did not expect myself to have the same destiny as them after I grew up.
As a little girl, I often answered calls from angry creditors at home. As an adult, I often received calls from the bank, snapping at my heels to pay up. So till now, even though I no longer owe the bank, I still do not like answering phone calls.
This is why I do not have any mobile number for you to contact me.
That day, a Malaysian client exclaimed, “Teacher, your fee is so expensive! You earn a lot of money!”
I replied calmly, “This is the fruit of my cultivation.”
Having reaped so many bitter fruits for the large part of my life, surely it should be my turn to enjoy some rewards. Sister, if you are happy for me, this virtuous thought will also earn you good fortune!
Nobody becomes a failure for no good reason.
You ask me how to rise from this lowest point in your life. Let me ask you this. Are you able to face your weaknesses squarely?
We fail because we are floundered by our weaknesses.
When you can squash your pride, and hear what you think are jarring words, that marks the beginning of your second Spring in life.
Our weaknesses are our blind spots, and the reason for our karmic transgressions and reduction in blessedness.
If you are a true businessman, you should be very shrewd in your calculations.
When I tell you the 20 weaknesses you have, you can choose to fly into a tantrum, grapple with the truth, bear grudges and complain about me to your neighbours and your ancestors of 18 generations.
You can also decisively transform that 20 weaknesses into your 20 brand new strengths!
Dear smart businessman, do your math and decide which makes a more profitable deal in the long run.
And then think over this, did Heaven let you down or did you let yourself down by turning your heart away from the obvious?
If I do not think you can change, if I do not think you still have a chance at success, why would I risk my reputation and my life to tell you the naked truth? You think it’s fun to be the b*tch? 😂
We can be our greatest benefactor and we also can be our greatest enemy. It’s all within that one thought.
May the amount of merits and good fortune you cultivate be as long as your IC number! What the heck! Let’s have it even longer than the Great Wall of China! Be a blessed person of endless good!
(Photo credit to its unknown Internet source)
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【填不滿的心】
送你一面鏡子
認真去看看
你是否已經老化
是否已經憔悴
因為你的心一直在奔馳
你的心一直奔跑在曠野中
不知不覺的就流離失所了
最終你得到的就是
一個苦字
你就猶如一艏船
沒有停泊的港口
後來的結果就只有
苦苦苦苦苦
你一直要爬得越高所求越無度
你不知道嗎?
你已經比上不足 比下有餘了
難道你要從那麽高的地方跌下來嗎?
不死也重傷呀
送你一面鏡子
看看是誰一點點一點點地
侵蝕著你
Shifu spoke these words some time ago. There were more but I only managed to take these down.
2600 years ago, Buddha expounded on the Eight Sufferings that every sentient being has to go through, one of which is the devastating suffering of Illness.
It tears apart the person undergoing it and pains the loved ones of the patient.
It doesn't have to be a terminal illness. It doesn't only strike the old.
The mother who grapples with her baby running a 39 °C fever that refuses to go away.
The teenager who has severe acne that ruined her porcelain skin.
The professional whose allergies always act up.
I think the most torturous illness isn't what I wrote above.
But the illness of the mind.
There is no physical medication to cure that.
The young man who masturbates everyday to pornography, exhausting the life essence in his body.
(The quality and quantity of Qi in our bodies have a very direct impact on our fortune in life.)
The woman who sees no wrong in one-night stands with married men.
The old auntie who hoards a roomful of trash.
The amateur who refuses to learn from a virtuous teacher but instead opt to go into Darkness, destroying all possible chances of liberation.
(Or think that one can learn without a teacher.)
My Grandmaster, Living Buddha Lian-Sheng, 蓮生活佛, once said that all of us are mentally sick. Just that we have yet to drop below the clinical standards of "mentally healthy".
I so agree.
If you look around, and look deep inside, the attachments we have within us are all manifestations of sicknesses.
Greed, hatred, ignorance, jealousy, arrogance, suspicion.
Depression, anxiety, anger, obsession, spaced out, suicidal tendencies.
These manifestations can ruin a perfectly healthy body over time.
Only the teachings from the Buddha can transform these attachments into Dharma medication that heal us over time.
I met this middle-aged client for a Bazi consultation in March. During my analysis, she was crying and crying almost non-stop, so much that the waiter came over to serve us a plate of serviettes.
The consultation almost never took place.
Firstly, she contacted me with a dummy FB account.
My mum's advice to the little girl me: never talk to unknown strangers. 😂
Secondly, one day, she did not address me by my name, but just sent me a message.
You know I'm particular about manners when it comes to my client work. I'm not obliged to help you just because you can pay for my time. No one is.
But she was conscientious enough to send me another properly-addressed message.
She told me several times how thankful she was for my advice.
When I asked for her permission to share this text, she hesistated for a long while, but still agreed in the end.
This is one reason why I am especially grateful to clients and readers, who never shy away from Liking my posts with their real FB accounts.
I have this group of clients or readers who never Like anything. They revel in my writings secretly and tell me it is inconvenient/sensitive. Some of them worry what their FB friends, colleagues or family will think of them, if they Like a Feng Shui/Buddhist practitioner's posts.
One guy told me he didn't want to offend his previous Feng Shui master, a FB Friend, despite my advice bringing him more money than the Master's.
I am like their secret lover they hide in a golden mansion.
人,不要虛偽,不要偷偷摸摸。
光明正大最好。
嘴巴就是要拿來解釋的。
If not for those who have Liked my posts, I may not have written so much and so consistently.
So thank you.
#按讚真的是美德 #分享更是功德 😂
Don't get me wrong. I still appreciate the silent readers. 😍
If you suffer from depression and anxiety for a long time and do not know what else to do, I have this free but very effective advice.
1. Don't kill lives.
Be it an ant, a baby or yourself. Saying hurtful words counts. Forbidding another person to learn the Dharma or any good religious teaching counts too.
Every living being has a Buddha nature.
No one wishes to be killed. A killed spirit bears much grievances and will haunt you.
I see too many people with too many black shadows trailing behind them, and these people tend to get emotional/angry easily due to the Yin energy surrounding them.
2. Don't steal.
Whatever that is not yours, don't take.
Don't snatch the spouse of another person.
Don't bring home paper from the company for your son to draw.
Don't swindle money from the company.
Don't sell inferior products for a high price.
Don't sell counterfeits.
Don't do fake accounts to evade taxes.
3. Don't engage in sexual misconduct.
Sex before marriage often leads to abortions or children who are especially hard to teach.
Masturbation isn't a release but often leads to more sexual fantasies, that accumulates negative karma of the body and mind.
Adultery is never okay. Sleeping with married ones is just as dumb.
Don't flirt when you already have a partner or if the other party has. You are not a butterfly nor queen bee.
Do not behave like a wild animal. Or you plant the karmic seed to be reborn as one.
Also, a man who cheats on his wife is very likely to be a bad choice as a business partner. Vice versa.
4. Don't lie.
You are gifted with the ability of speech and writing, not to slander, deceive, gossip, spread rumours or talk nonsense.
When is the last time you use your speaking and writing skills for good?
White lie is still a lie.
Empty promises are also lies.
"Ji Qian! I will contact you for a Feng Shui audit when I come back in May."
I never ask for that. And I don't care when you want to find me. You don't have to lie and get your painfully accumulated merits slashed.
5. Don't drink.
Alcohol can cause a person to commit all the sins above.
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Bad Feng Shui, failing business, or a turbulent destiny happen when you break the rules of karma.
Repent consistently to undo what you have done wrong. Go spread the word to tell people not to make the same mistakes as you did.
A person who sincerely abides by these 5 precepts will naturally evoke the protection of virtuous gods. Their Yang presence will help drive away the Yin energy enveloping you.
It may take years for some sins to be rectified, so start now.
There are people who pay good money to wear all kinds of protection amulets, but even the most powerful amulet can not fight against Karma.
佛都不能滅因果,鬼神又怎麼可能可以呢?
So learn how to protect yourself from the root.
I can help you, but first you got to help yourself.
Then again, if you have no guilt over what you have done, there is nothing I can do.
The best Feng Shui works most effectively only for the virtuous.
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Translation of client's message:
Ms Ji Qian
Today is Mother's Day.
May you be healthy and beautiful forever.
And that everything will go your way.
I have no flowers or present for you
But only my best wishes!
Thank you Ms Ji Qian for your teachings.
My mood and emotions are much calmer now.
My brain is clearer now.
I have been doing what you taught and advised.
And I hope to do it better.
Thank you.
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【玳瑚師父課室】《第41場回顧:旺得福大肥年餐會》
41st Learning Session Recap: A Wonderful Year of Abundance
(English version below)
玳瑚師父於2018年1月6日舉辦了2018年裡的首場餐會,《旺得福大肥年餐會》,教導如何在新春佳節間,養精蓄銳,過個旺得富的大肥年。
餐會開始時,當每個人都點了自己的晚餐後,師父隨即問出席者們,可否注意到負責點菜的侍應生,臉上有何特徵?
出席者說出各自答案後,師父便說大家的答案都錯了。
師父說出正確答案後,便說當大家看到一位侍應生有這樣的特徵時,最好就不要跟他點菜,因為祇會受氣。 眾人笑著點頭。
接著,師父請出席者們給自己掌聲,說今天是她們在2018年裡的大好日子。
春天,是大地復甦的季節。夏天,是百花爭豔的時候。在秋天,人會比較容易憂愁, 而在冬天, 會不想做工。
有人問:「那不是和動物一樣嗎?」
師父笑答:「人的欲望不除,和動物又有何不一樣呢?」
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餐會回顧:
一、每一年的開始,都是我們可以爲自己的運氣『進補』的時候。
二、見到師父時,向他合掌,有何寓意?
三、師父問一位出席者,難得見到師父,爲何苦著臉?
四、孝順,不是每個月給她他們家用而已,而是每次見到父母時,也要保持笑臉。
五、過年期間,不要做的三件事。
六、身體裡也會出現的四季, 如何能夠看出,及對個人運程的影響?
七、哪些年菜一定要烹調?
八、哪七道年菜能爲一家人大增運?
九、過年擺八寶盒,是吉還是凶?
十、過年期間,哪些飲料不能少?
十一、新年時,如何能接到財神、喜神、福神和貴神,並讓祂們在妳你家呆久一點?
十二、爲何吃飯不要坐在底處吃?
十三、想要功名利祿,除夕夜,千萬別吃哪種食物?
十四、餐桌,哪個形狀最佳?
十五、家中常有爭執,不吉利之事發生,原來就是因爲餐桌擺在這!
十六、玳瑚師父舉例說明,這家中的方位,如何讓身體健康亮紅燈?
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餐會進行時,玳瑚師父注意到一位出席者將所有的碗盤都往自己哪兒堆。
師父便說,看妳們怎樣排碗盤,就知道妳們現在被什麼困住。前方還有位,爲何不要擺出來,給自己多一點空間?做人,不要把自己逼得無路可退。
不要把自己鎖在一個角落頭,沒有人會可憐妳你的。富裕,也不會找上門。
有位出席者先前爲自己的禮儀不足,而發了道歉的簡訊。師父提點她,禮貌的重要。道歉,應該是親自撥電向師父說,而不是一則短訊就了事,況且眾人皆知,玳瑚師父不回覆短訊。網路上的溝通,是由弟子代師處理。
師父解釋,這顯示她個人的我執很重,及誠心不足,因此在日常生活中,必有讓家人覺得不舒服的時候,祇是沒有人願意告訴她罷了。
師父通過她們的八字,也應證她們都曾有婦女健康的問題。師父進而提醒她們要如何保養自己的婦女健康,以免血光之災。
接著,玳瑚師父也帶著出席者們一同到樟宜機場的最新航廈。他說,這新的地方,有新的旺氣。師父帶著眾人遊走時,也一一指出機場內的風水密碼,讓眾人獲益匪淺。
師父提醒大家,風水是入世的,能夠補助修行一點點,比方說,一個修行人想要有個好地方打坐,需用風水來幫他,讓他的禪定功力能突飛猛進。但風水畢竟不是究竟。
活著,就一定會有不開心的時候,所以人要常看佛菩薩,學習祂們的寬心和自在。如果看自己多了,會變自戀。看老公,越看越生氣,便「憤怒鳥」。(眾笑)還是看佛菩薩好,要不然就到臉書,一邊看玳瑚師父的「玉照」尋個開心,一邊增長智慧也不錯!
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Master Dai Hu held the 1st Learning Session of 2018 on 6th January 2018, imparting knowledge on how to preserve and build up our energy during the Chinese New Year period, in order to enjoy a successful year ahead.
As the session commenced, after everyone had ordered their dinner, Master Dai Hu asked the participants if they had noticed any special facial feature of the waiter taking their orders.
Every participant gave their answers, all of which were incorrect.
Master Dai Hu told them the correct observation, and recommended the participants to best avoid waiters with such facial feature, so as not to feel frustrated. Everyone laughed and nodded their heads.
Following that, Master asked everybody to give themselves some appaluse, citing that that day was a hugely auspicious day in 2018 for them.
Spring is the time of renewal for the Earth. Summer is the time where all flowers bloom. In the Autumn, people becomes moody easily, and in Winter, we becomes lazy to work.
Someone asked: "Doesn't that make us similar to animals?"
Master laugh: "When Man does not eliminate his desires, how is he different from animals?"
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Learning Session Highlights:
1. The start of every year is the time when we can "take in tonic" for our personal luck.
2. What is the significance of greeting Master Dai Hu with your palms together?
3. "It is rare that you get to meet me. Why are you pulling such a long face?" Master Dai Hu asked one lady participant.
4. Filial piety does not only mean providing monthly allowances to your parents, but to put on a genuine smile every time you see them.
5. Avoid doing these 3 things during the Chinese New Year.
6. There are also four seasons in your body. How can you tell, and what are their effects on your own fortunes?
7. Which are the mandatory Chinese New Year dishes?
8. Which are the 7 Chinese New Year dishes, that will boost the fortunes of your family members?
9. Is it auspicious (or otherwise) to display a Eight Treasure Box at home during Chinese New Year?
10. Which beverages are mandatory during the Chinese New Year period?
11. How do you welcome the Gods of Wealth, Happiness, Fortune, and Nobility, into your home, and make Them stay for a while longer?
12. Why is it inauspicious to eat sitting at low levels?
13. Avoid these foods on Chinese New Year's Eve, if you wish for success and fame.
14. What is the best shape for the dining table?
15. The position of the dining table in this house is the CAUSE of the frequent quarrels and misfortunes.
16. Master Dai Hu illustrated with an example, how a certain position in a house can adversely affect the health of its occupants.
In the midst of the session, Master Dai Hu noticed that one participant stacked up all the plates in front of her.
Master spoke, "I can tell what obstacles you are facing now, from the way you stacked and arranged those empty plates in front of you.
There are plenty of space in front of you, and you should afford yourself more space. We should not set up ourselves for a dead end road in life."
No one would sympathize with you if you trap yourself in a dead corner. Abundance will not come knocking.
One participant sent an apology SMS to Master to apologise for her lack of manners towards him on a previous occasion. Master reminded her that manners are important. Apology should be conveyed at least with a personal phone call, and not via a text message. Furthermore, most people, including her, were aware that Master Dai Hu did not respond to SMS. All communication via the Internet is handled by his disciple.
Master explained that this behaviour showed that she had a strong attachment to self, and a lack of sincerity. Therefore, in her daily life, she must have made her family members feel uncomfortable, just that no one told her so.
Through an analysis of their Bazi, Master was able to tell that they had female health problems. He further reminded them on how to take care of their female health, in order to avoid any form of bloodshed.
Master Dai Hu later brought everyone to the new Terminal 4 of Changi Airport. He said that the new terminal had very auspicious energies. Master pointed out the various Feng Shui applications at the new terminal as they strolled about, making it a very beneficial trip for all.
Master reminded them that Feng Shui is still confined to this material world, and it can help one on the road of spiritual practice. For example, a spiritual practitioner can make use of Feng Shui to improve his cultivation environment, helping him attain incredible progress in his meditation. However, Feng Shui will not lead one to Enlightenment.
There is bound to be sadness in life, thus we should all look at the Buddhas and Bodhisattvas often, to learn Their magnanimity and ease.
Looking at yourself excessively will turn you into a narcissistic person, while looking at your spouse will turn you into an "Angry Bird" (laughter from all). So, it is better to look at the Buddhas and the Bodhisattvas. Another alternative is to visit the Facebook page of Master Dai Hu, and be happy looking at his photos, while learning wisdom at the same time!
http://www.masterdaihu.com/第41場回顧:旺得福大肥年餐會/
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