#聽力填空0707 講解日期: 0709(六)/ 0711(一)
20160707
Hey, guys, this is Luhmann. Do you want to 1. more friends? Do you want to be more 2. ? Do you want to be more popular or 3. ? If your answer is yes, then how can you make it? What do you need to do to achieve this goal? Your answer may be this: OK, Luhmann, I need to talk to more people. Or if I 4. in a restaurant, I need to talk to strangers. I need to make more friends on Facebook. I need to join some social 5. sending my business cards, making as more friends as possible. No, the point is not the people that you want to know. The point is you in you. The point is you, yourself. You have to make yourself as 6. as possible, you know, make yourself as amusing as possinle. And then you may say, of course, Luhmann, I know that. If I am more interesting, of course, I can have more friends. But how? Very easy, very easy, you just need to 7. on your hobbies or the recreational activities that you love to do for 8. in your free time. Very easy. And then, you’d say, come on Luhamnn, then how can I focus on them? You mean goning to the movies more and more 9. ? No no no. Doing research on that hobby that you are really really 10. about. Just do the research. And in this modern time, it is very convenient for us to any kind of research. I just need to 11. on the computer doing some clicks, and then we can get a lot of information, right?And then you can make others feel that you are so informed, so knowledged about that field. You know, for example, watching movies, so many people love watching movies, but 12. people can sit down, you know, maybe with strangers, with a cup of 13. , talking about movies for one or two hours, no, few people can do that. So many people love listening to music, but few people can sit down with a stranger talking about this passion, talking about this music, about music. No no no, few people can do that because most of the people just listen to music, just watch the movie, they don’t spend extra time doing research on their hobbies, on this recreational activity. And if you do this, 14. more time on your hobbies, whenever you get the chance to talk to strangers, they will feel that Wow, this person, this guy knows more than I do. I want to talk with her or him, you know. They will just want to make friends with you, right? And you know, there is a very interesting contradiction. And this is my 15. discovery, maybe. I don’t know if anyone else has ever found this. I mean. When will you start to have friends? When? When you start to feel that you 16. need friends. When you feel that you don’t need friends to pass some free time. When you can have so much fun when you are alone. Then at the 17. , people will start to get interested in you. They want to know you. They want to know about you. They want to get something strange, something they don’t have 18. you. Why? Because when you are alone, you do so much research. Maybe when you are alone, you just indulge yourself in that hobby, maybe 19. your dream, chasing your goal. Then you can get a lot of 20. or experience from this indulgement. So, this makes other want to know more about you. And you start to have more and more friends. You will start to become more 21. . See you next time.
