A LOVE LETTER TO MONEY
To heal myself from the money wounds, I decided to write a love letter to it.
I remember one morning when I was on the plane flying from Vietnam to Singapore. I pulled out my pen and notebook to write a Love Letter to Money.
“Dear money.
Thank you so much for having been there for me all along.
It is because of you that I can take this flight. Because of you, I could buy vegetable soup and fried rice. Because of you, I have these clothes to keep my body warm and make me feel beautiful.
I’m sorry for having avoided you, run away from you, and treated you without care. Please forgive me...”
It was a long letter. I cannot recall it fully now. But I remember crying writing it, next to confused passengers who must have thought I was writing a Please-Come-Back-to-Me letter to an ex-boyfriend or something.
𝐇𝐞𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐦𝐲 𝐫𝐞𝐥𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐡𝐢𝐩 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐦𝐨𝐧𝐞𝐲 𝐭𝐨𝐨𝐤 𝐞𝐟𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐭 𝐛𝐮𝐭 𝐢𝐭 𝐰𝐚𝐬 𝐰𝐨𝐫𝐭𝐡 𝐢𝐭.
Without that, I wouldn’t have been able to build my current business, making the impact I believe in, and having the lifestyle that I love.
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MY FIRST MONEY WOUND 💸
I made real money for the first time in 8th grade. I was mad for manga and so were half of my classmates.
In front of our school gate, there was a shop selling manga merchandise. Everyday kids like me drooled over those keychains, badges, and pins.
One day, I had a brilliant idea: why not try to make those keychains myself?
I went to an internet shop, browsed Yahoo images (yes, Yahoo) for artworks of the hottest manga characters, and saved them in my dad’s floppy-disk (yes, floppy-disk).
I had them colored-printed, and then ran to the old uncle who had a “laminating shop” - one rusty machine on the back of his 200-year-old bicycle - to laminate those pictures for cheap.
With my dad’s 2-hole mini puncher, I punched holes to attach keychains on them.
Tada! My products were complete.
The next day, I showed up in class with a dozen of those keychains. I sold everything in one morning.
The following days, my keychains were sold out again. Soon enough, kids from other classes started to hand me their pocket money. Lo and behold, my business had expanded!
One afternoon, I sat in the back of the class with my red kitten wallet, counting money. I had a “boyfriend” at the time and he was sitting next to me. I turned to him beaming:
“Look, how much money I made!”
He did not smile.
Instead, he gave me, my money, and my red kitten wallet a cold look. He grunted:
“Money, money! Now you always think about money! What a girl you are!”
I went silent. I was shocked and then I was ashamed. What he said confused me.
“Maybe I’m really becoming bad…” I wondered.
I stopped making keychains after that.
Now, looking back I think:
“Dude, what a dumb thing to say. You could’ve had chè with me for free, every day after school!”
At the same time, I wonder:
“He was a young boy! What must have he heard from other people to have such a negative view about women making money?!”
Until now, this story and its cultural implications still surprise me.
This is one of the stories that later shaped the way I felt towards money.
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I know this can be a tough pill to swallow for some people.
But your current situation is nothing more than the result of your past decisions.
So, if your business is failing, you have a bad relationship, job, living situation, or another issue you don’t like.
You're the only one who can fix it.
Tag someone who should see this.
If you want to know how to improve the quality of your life decisions…
Comment "CHANGE" if you are ready to take action towards better decisions in your business and life.
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本集聲沙請慎入。你是否想過請主管同事吃誠實豆沙包,來讓自己更進步突破? 連貫第40集,本集作者教我們如何採樣,尋求真實反饋的步驟step by step以及範本。了解自己的職場招牌優勢,校准你的優勢和劣勢面對真相,打造你在職場專屬差異化(個人品牌),加上心態設定小撇步,新的心態思維陪你創造全新的經驗與美好!
詹姆斯(William James)曾說:「思想(態度)決定行動,行動決定習慣,習慣決定性格,性格決定命運。」
1.還在害怕失敗、害怕判斷、恐懼...?? 想改變命運就從設定心態開始。
2.受教之耳、明辨之心
3.未來幾集將是一系列由作者Julie一步步幫助我們,如何完全了解自己的優劣勢,在職場更找到自己的位置與機會。且在求職履歷上也能立刻加分!
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2.工作必備【向上管理情境溝通術】線上課程聽友優惠中
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★ 本集分點章節:
(00:01:10)在本集我會學到什麼?
(00:01:44)讀書會開始
(00:02:20)收集誠實反饋四個具體問題範本
(00:05:49)不敢去問??改變自己的心態再突破
不要覺得這是在評價你的價值
而是要讓自己更成長突破,你絕對有能力提高!
(00:08:05)一分鐘商業英文 One-Minute Business English(feat. Zach)
(00:10:16)比爾蓋茲推薦書:Fixed Mindset定性心態VS. Growth Mindset成長心態
(00:15:03)預告(VIP專屬)如何掌握三步驟鍛鍊成長心態
#國外商管類 讀書會,Great Managers are made, not born.
管理職人、熱愛學習的夥伴們,用一杯茶的時間,減少眼力腦力轉換成本,內化成你的獨門攻略。
★ 本集導讀書籍:《the making of a manager: what to do when everyone looks to you》(暫譯:優秀管理者的後天養成之路) 亞馬遜去年最佳商業書第一名、華爾街日報暢銷書。原文書 9折購 https://lihi1.cc/dnwIH
作者:Facebook 產品設計副總 Julie Zhuo 的十年管理心法。
★ 本集補充資料
:: 成長心態vs.定型心態 動畫說明 (請手動點開中文字幕) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KUWn_TJTrnU
:: 為了發展我們的自覺,及校准我們的優勢和劣勢,我們必須通過詢問他人的真實坦率意見,來面對我們真正要的真相。目標不是為了尋求讚美;目標是為給我們的同事 提供一個安全的機會,讓他們可以誠實——甚至是殘酷的誠實——以便我們自己能夠獲得最準確的信息。
請合併EP40的問題一併採樣問卷。
《第三部份問答》首先是請教主管 兩個問題:
1. 你認為我有沒有哪些機會,可以做更多我擅長的事情?
如果你是主管職,也可以問你的上級,是什麼事情造成你無法得到最大的影響?
2. 你認為在我的這個職務中的最適合人選會具備哪些技能?對於每項技能,您如何按照 1 到 5 的等級給我打分?
《第四部份問答》:
選擇三到七個與您密切合作的人,詢問他們是否願意分享一些意見反饋來幫助您改進。
如何邀請一個誠實的意見反饋,Julie範本:
Hey,我很重視你的意見,
我想成為更有效率的團隊成員。你願意回答下面的問題嗎?
請盡可能誠實,因為誠實對我會最有幫助——我保證你說的任何話都不會冒犯我。意見反饋是我的一份禮物,再次感謝您抽出寶貴時間。
具體問題舉例:
1.在我們共同合作的最後一個專案中,你認為我在哪些方面產生了影響或貢獻?你認為我可以做些什麼來產生更大的影響?
2.在我的團隊中,哪些方面我做得好而且您希望我在這方面更多著墨?哪些是應該停止不要做的?
3.我正在學習在工作上更加自信果斷,你覺得我在這方面做得如何?
請提供讓我在這裡可做得更好的任何建議?
4.要求針對特定任務的反饋,以校準自己的特定技能。
例如,如果您不確定自己的演講能力如何,請在演講後跟幾個人說:“我希望提高我的演講技巧。你認為我的上台 簡報如何?有什麼讓它好兩倍的建議嗎?”
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【managing up】向上管理
to build a successful working relationship with a superior, manager, or employer.
My co-worker is known for his ability to manage up. He knows our boss’s needs very well, and our boss tends to rely on him the most.我的同事以向上管理能力著稱。 他非常了解我們老闆的需求,我們老闆往往最依賴他。
Henry is terrible at managing up. Henry doesn’t want to talk to his boss, so he does not have a good relationship with her. Henry亨利的管理能力很差。 亨利不想跟老闆說話,所以跟她關係不好。
★過往集數關聯
:: 採集完本集的誠實豆沙包問卷之後,再回到Ep40. 統整
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