【你也可以擁有被動幸福】(English writing below)
YOU CAN ALSO ACHIEVE PASSIVE HAPPINESS
我們一出生，就從來沒有停止過去追求幸福。小時後，吃喜歡的食物，玩新的玩具，去新的地方，長大後，追求愛情、事業、金錢.......
但有的人，天生八字真的不怎麼樣，小時讀書馬馬虎虎，長大後，要財沒財，要事業沒事業，要愛情沒愛情，原生家庭又給不到她他溫暖。
於是，有些人把希望寄託在孩子身上，以為自己生孩子，也能夠製造一個快樂溫馨的家庭，是他們的人生終極目標。
但是他們都沒發現，他們的八字根本沒有這樣的命。夢想和現實起了對立，有了自己的家庭後，反而煩惱更多，快樂更少。
錢依然不夠用，伴侶原來不是稱職的家長，大家會為了孩子的事吵架、冷戰。
孩子健康又不好、情緒管理差、很難教，女傭讓他們很傷腦筋，兼顧家庭和事業也讓自己不停和時間賽跑，活得沒有自己，也不知道到底哪一天才會雨過天晴。
八字無法改，但是一命二運三風水，所以八字沒有的，聰明的人會用風水來補助自己的運。
我常跟客人說：不要傻傻地吃苦。很多時候，只要把居家風水搞好，很多的問題都能迎刃而解。這基礎做好了，就算您沒有去追求，幸福也會自動降臨您家。
風水如何能夠讓您心安的六種方式，且聽我在這影片的解說：https://youtu.be/w9J8BFLsHPw
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Since our birth, we have never stopped pursuing happiness. As kids, we cheer when we get to eat our favourite food, play new toys and see new places. As adults, we chase love, career achievements and money.
However, there are some people whose Bazi are really nothing to shout about. When they are young, their academics are so so. When they grow up, they want money but they don't get it. They want a good career, but no, it didn't happen. They crave a good relationship but nah, they never have it. And the family they grow in couldn't give them the warmth in their lives either.
Hence, some of them place their hopes on having children they think belong to them. They envision that they can finally create a loving and warm family. That shall be their ultimate life goal. That is why people work so hard for, isn't it?
But what they didn't realise is that their Bazi were not able to support them in their pursuits. Their dreams and the reality they face every day become a stark disparity. As they have their own families, instead of having more happiness, they get more troubled.
Money still remains scarce, and the spouse turns out be an incompetent parent, causing conflicts and cold wars in the marriage over the children.
The children aren't any better off. Their health fluctuates, they are poor in emotional management, do not listen well to instructions. With both parents working, getting a good maid is necessary. Yet, this maid becomes another headache. Balancing both family and work starts taking a toll on them. Every day is a race against time. There's no “Live for Yourself" like what all those new age gurus preached. Worse is when they have no idea EXACTLY WHEN life will be better.
We can't change our Bazi. But as the Chinese saying goes, first is our Destiny, second is our Luck, third will be our Feng Shui. Whatever our Bazi lacks, the smart person will make up for it by using Feng Shui to supplement their own luck.
I often nag at my clients: don't suffer in vain, when a solution is actually within reach. In many situations, after the home Feng Shui is done right, many problems get resolved. Once this foundation is laid right, even when you are not actively chasing for it like a mad hamster, happiness will descend into your home by default.
So how exactly can Feng Shui give you a peace of mind? I talk about the 6 ways here in this video: https://youtu.be/w9J8BFLsHPw
suffer 字根 在 Re: 一直背不起來patient - 精華區Eng-Class - 批踢踢實業坊 的推薦與評價
※ 引述《pinksuka (我不會讓你等太久)》之銘言：
: 請問一下 patient 這個字，
: 有沒有字根字首，的拆字方法幫助記憶
: 或是其他方法幫助記憶，就是一直記不住這個字
: 謝謝
提供這組pat字根的來源，供你參考
PASS.PATH
1. feel,suffer
2.感覺,苦痛
3. 字根 pass,path 源出希臘文名詞 pathe, 和拉丁文名詞 passio,
有[感覺,感情,傷痛] 之意.
這個字根還有一種拼法 pat, 例如: compatibla. [相容的], incompatible a.
[相處不融洽的], patient a. [堅忍的],impatient a. [不耐煩的],這些單字均
借自法文,因此 pat 的拼法乃受法文影響的結果.
其他如: passive a. [消極,順從的]. passive 源出拉丁文形容詞
passivus,原為 [可受痛苦的],引申而成 [消極,順從的].
4.由這組字根衍生的常見單字
antipathetic 引起憎惡的
antipathy 憎惡,反感
apathetic 缺乏興趣,冷淡的
apathy 缺乏情感,冷淡
compassion 同情,憐憫
compassionate 有同情心的
compatible 相容,一致的
empathy 神入
impatient 不能忍受,不耐煩的
incompatible 不能和諧共存,不調和的
passion 熱情,愛好
passionate 熱情,熱烈的
passive 消極,被動的
pathetic 令人感傷,可憐的
pathos 動人哀感之性質
patient 堅忍的,病人
sumpathetic 同情的
sympathize 同情
sympathy 同情,憐憫
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作者: wtby (wtby) 看板: Eng-Class
標題: Re: 一直背不起來 patient
時間: Wed Jun 22 19:16:36 2005
補充一下
patient pat: suffering ； i:connecting vowel； ent:表示"做...動作的(V-ing)"的
形容詞字尾(這個最常見)，或是表示"做...動作的人(或物)"的名詞字尾
詞源的意思是:
當形容詞時： "bearing or enduring without complaint"
當名詞時："suffering or sick person"
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