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Video - Take a Deep Breath ...

Adam can be quite emotional sometimes . When he's angry , he would just throw the toys on the floor and walk away .
It's very important for parents to handle them as it can lead to tantrums .
We teach our kids to take 3 deep breaths to calm them down ... and communicate with them asking why they feel that way,.
Let them talk about it in their own baby language.
It works every time ...

Emotions in kids start to develop at 2-3 years of age and most of the time they do not know how to express themselves making it very frustrating .
Hence kids act the way they know best ...by screaming , throwing things , hitting others and in extreme cases knocking their heads to the wall .
Screaming back at them or leaving them just make matters worse .
' Terrible Two ' is what many of us labelled them but its truly not their fault .We just need to understand the brain development in children.
Just sharing.

Salam Everyone
Love As Always
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#mamadiary #parenting #toddlerhood⁣
Few days ago Joreen did quite a few mischievous things that leads hubby to place her at the calming corner. (she will scream & cry easily recently, "fournado?") ⁣
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She continues screaming & crying.. (mama was in the room resting due to giddy spell)⁣
But Joreen continues in this state for quite some time.. Hence mama came out to check them out. Instead of the usual questions, what happened, why cry? (was inspired by @transformingtoddlerhood to understand Joreen more & calm down myself 1st)⁣
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Mama went to just hug Joreen tightly, no questions ask. She is still crying loudly but slowly calming down. After she calm down, mama told Joreen, "mama understand Joreen was upset /maybe angry just now? Would you like to share with me the details?"⁣
Joreen replied "yes I'm very sad, little bit angry. It is very very long to tell you (she meant there were so many things happened). Very very long, do you want to listen?⁣
Mama said of course! Mama will listen all, you slowly say.⁣
Joreen shared everything and end of it, she told mama what she did is naughty, she is sorry & she is not angry with daddy anymore. So she apologise sincerely, hug us & say I love you! ⁣
She even told mama that she can be better tomorrow! Awww... ⁣
Mama asked her "how about we start tonight?" Joreen said Yessss 🤣😍⁣
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Happy ending ❤️ no scolding. ⁣
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Joreen indeed is having a hard time to calm down. She used to be a sensible & understanding sweet gal. I mean she still is but sometimes.... 🙈⁣
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A gentle hug & more patience do wonders! And must willing to listen to our kids too (reminder to self) ⁣
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Thanks to the tips that I read from @transformingtoddlerhood⁣
Lets all namaste 🙏☺️⁣
(mummies can check them out if you need an inspiration /motivation ya❤️) ⁣
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Check out the article from @theasianparent regarding our 4 years old at the comments below. It is so true!⁣
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#4y3m #joreentanjiyoon #positiveparenting #eternalmotherhood #sgmummy #sgkids #motherhood #unplugandplay #mcAW20 #septwenties
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Video - Kids Being Kids
‘ Look Mess ‘ - but still Noah makes a mess ...
‘ Oh No ... ‘ - but still Adam is doing it ...
Haha -
Many parents especially Mums get angry on their kids for small petty things like making a mess , jumping on the bed , drawing on the wall , etc and end up regretting them .
This usually happens because of them being tired , lack of sleep or been used to it that they forget the joy of parenting ...
When this happens - take a break for a few hours , get help from your spouse or parents and look back on what we just did . Take a deep breath a few times and leave the room if needed .
Once you feel better hugs and kisses are all it takes to make things better .
Never leave them feeling hurt .
As parents sometimes we forget that they are just kids .
Children especially below 5 are always curious wanting to learn new things .
And surely we do not want to inhibit their curiosity and creativity and making them afraid to explore ...
Let them be ...
Kids are kids ...
Parenting is surely the best job out there .
It brings out the best and worst in us pushing our patience to the max .
Soon you realise that they are grown up at a very fast pace and drifting away from us .
Just a blink of an eye and they are already Primary One .
Two blinks and they already a teenager .
Three blinks and they are already living in the University away from us .
And time waits for no one .
No pun intended ...
Just sharing ...
Salam Jumaat Everyone .
Love As Always ...
PS - These go to Dads too of course ...

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ゴロちゃんの「いたずら」をまとめてみました。クスッと笑える可愛らしい「いたずら」から、注意(躾)が必要になるくらいのちょっと度が過ぎる「いたずら」まで。一般的な1歳児としてはこれくらい普通なのか、はたまたちょっと激し過ぎるのか、、、コメント欄にご意見いただけると嬉しいです。

I’ve put together a video of all kinds of mischief by Goro-Chan. Some are cute and laughable, but others are just naughty and discipline worthy. Do you think these are normal for a 1 year old, or do you think she’s a little too wild? Please let us know in the comments below!


【ご報告】
インフルエンザは無事におさまりました。高熱だったのは1日目だけで、あとは37度を少し越える程度の微熱だったので、ゴロちゃんは比較的元気でした。さすがに今回の動画のようないたずらをする元気はありませんでしたが(笑)。ご心配をおかけして申し訳ありませんでした。また、たくさんのお見舞いコメントありがとうございました！



【おすすめゴロちゃん動画】Please check this Goro's video.

・予想のつかない行動が面白い！（ソファからジャンプ→服が脱げずに悶える1歳児） 【ごろごろ日記/生後1年/育児VLOG】 Baby's action is beyond our expectation.
　https://youtu.be/_VOr8b-8Oo8

・【生後306日】おちゃめなゴロちゃん ～可愛くて面白い仕草をまとめました～ Funny Baby Collection. [306 days after birth]
　https://youtu.be/kKihrt3fYMw

・【生後233日】ソファの上でくつろぐ赤ちゃん Baby relaxing on the sofa. [233 days after birth]
　https://youtu.be/HVZdX2494Aw

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When we fall in love with someone, it’s because we have things in common. So naturally, our mind’s hooked on to the idea that we’re similar. But, whilst we may have similarities with our partner, we’re extremely different people.

No matter how alike we are on the surface, no matter how much we love each other, it’s extremely important to have the mindset that this person is an individual who comes from a completely different background, upbringing, mindset or even culture.

Because expectations is the cause of most problems in a relationship, and the expectation that we are the same causes disappointment and frustration and resentment when our partner doesn’t get us; but the acknowledgement that we very different people who love each other leads us down the path of patience and seeking to understand even when there’s a disagreement.

The work of any relationship lies in the ability to rise above things that trigger us, that sets us off. It requires more mental practice than simply good intentions, because we can have all the good intentions in the world when we’re in a good mood and things are going well, but the moment we’re frustrated or angry, life-long habits are triggered and we react negatively despite our good intentions.

When we’re in a relationship, we may be in a team, but we’re two very different people on the same team. Whether or not we’re able to adjust to the differences depends on our own mental and emotional capabilities. So working at our relationships means constantly working on ourselves.

Love is amazing, but love isn’t enough in a relationship, because it takes empathy, understanding and a lack of expectations to still be kind and to still be loving even when we’re angry. That’s the work of a relationship, and it’s the kind of work that will pay off both for our own self-development and the quality of our relationship, where we’ll be able to be happy, always.

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