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When my hair is still dark blue
最近影咗張不同嘅相片
要我扮cool好難
Although I do have a natural bitch face🤣
Hair @johnchung_barbieri @kim_chow_barbieri
Top @lululemonhk
📸 @andy3think
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#hk #hkig #instahk #hongkong #lululemon #bluehair #photoshoot #bitchface #naturalbitchface #lululemonhk
好多人都覺得我樣子比較凶
其實只要我抹大個口就變天然呆
千其唔好俾我個樣呃左
古靈精怪嘅表情都俾你地捕捉到
因為我係馬騮精🐒🐒
謝謝照片 @_yan_hing_
#厭世面
#厭世
#bitchface
#restingbitchface
#白色強人
#古靈精怪
"She looks fierce"
"Look, she must be feeling blue today"
"Are you okay?"
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Yes, I'm OKAY.
People assume that someone isn't feel happy, having a hard day or any other reason just because they look mad.
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Well lemme tell you that their mad face and happy face are the same, TBH.
It's called Resting Bitchface (RBF).
People will try ask you to smile but end up scaring them even more just like my boyfriend always ask me to do so because I barely smile and it scares people from talking to me.
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It's hard to make new friends, because everyone thought you'd be a proud bitchy girl when they first saw you.
Am I? Are you? (99% of people told me their first impression and all of them were the same - FIERCE).
Sometimes, you TRY to make a joke but everyone takes it way too seriously because they can't tell if you're joking. I've experience it for the time of my life until I ask people to help me tell the joke that comes in my mind. How sad is that right? Haha.
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Dr. John Lund, an interpersonal communication researcher says: "Instead of communicating to be understood, you have to communicate to not be misunderstood." But, some of the people with RBF might be better communicators because once you know them you'll found that deep down they're real, super nice and the warmest person you'll ever seen.
Some of them, they just wanted to protect themselves from the social with this kind of character which they are actually "Cold on the outside, hot on the inside". Through this and by the time flies, they can finally understand who should stay in their life.
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So if you have friends like this, do not let go.
And for people who has RBF including me myself, learn to monitor your emotions and communicate effectively.
Less Hate More Love💕
#RBF #厌世脸 #不是我要的呀但我就长这样啊
