JANGAN BUAT MAIN EMOSI ISTERI KETIKA BERPANTANG!
Ada segelintir ibu akan merasa sangat down selepas melahirkan anak..
Fikiran bercelaru! especially ibu-ibu yg baru pertama kali ada anak.
Segalanya 'asing' bagi mereka. Tangisan anak buat mereka takut dan berdebar-debar. Cemas tak tentu pasal.
Bila anak tak berhenti menangis, dia rasa stress dan tak tahu nak buat apa lagi utk menenangkan bayi mereka.
Ibu akan rasa sedikit trauma dan beranggapan proses berpantang ni satu proses yg rumit dan menyusahkan.
Kalau sampai satu tahap takleh nak handle lg emosi tu, mereka akan menangis tanpa sedar.. kemurungan dan tidak suka bercakap dgn orang lain.
Suami, cegah dan rawat sebelum terlambat!
Bantu mereka sehabis baik..termasuklah bergilir-gilir jaga anak di malam hari.. sediakan makanan yang sihat dan sedap untuk isteri.. bantu menguruskan rumah.. bantu uruskan anak2 yang lain dan yang paling penting jaga hati dan perasaan mereka.
Jangan cakap perkara2 yg boleh menyentuh perasaan.. jangan buat perkara2 yang tidak baik dibelakangnya termasuk curang atau pasang kayu tiga.
Jagalah dan hargailah isteri anda.
Sebab itu pentingnya, kita perlu ada ilmu tentang kehamilan sehinggalah proses berpantang.
✅Apa yang perlu kita buat.. apa yang tak boleh buat.
✅Tips untuk handle situasi berpantang.
✅Makanan apa yang terbaik utk galakkan susu ibu.
✅Peranan isteri dan suami ketika berpantang.
✅urutan ibu berpantang.
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DON ' T PLAY WITH YOUR WIFE'S EMOTIONS WHEN IN CONFINITE
Some mothers will feel very down after giving birth..
Thoughts are messy! Especially mothers who first have children.
Everything's ' foreign ' to them. The child's cry makes them scared and pounding. Worried is not sure about it.
When the child doesn't stop crying, he feels stressed and doesn't know what to do to calm their babies.
Mother will feel a little traumatized and consider the process of abstinence is a complicated and difficult process.
If you can't handle the emotions at one level, they will cry without realizing it.. depression and don't like to talk to others.
Husband, prevent and treat before it's too late!
Help them all the best.. including taking care of their children at night.. provide healthy and delicious food for the wife.. help manage the house.. help manage other children and most importantly take care of their hearts and feelings ...
Don't say things that can touch your feelings.. don't do bad things behind them including cheating or installing three wood.
Take care and appreciate your wife.
That's why it's important, we need to have knowledge about pregnancy until the abstinence process.
✅ What should we do.. what can't do.
✅ Tips to handle confinement situations.
✅ Which food is the best to encourage mother's milk.
✅ The role of wife and husband during confinement.
✅ mother massage in confinement.
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10 Checklist Confinement Dah Setel, Mommies Boleh Pantang Dengan Tenang
(Ikut keperluan masing-masing ye☺, mummy share je persiapan mummy)
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Continue Reading10 Checklist Confinement is Set, Mommies Can Never Be Peaceful
(According to each other's needs ☺, mummy will just share the preparation of mummy)
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1. Set of confinement
This is the highest chart. Tired of giving birth, we need to pamper ourselves too. Like a reward for myself. This is the first thing that mummy will survey and buy.
Used to use a set of confinement Tanamera, this time mummy wants to try Nona Roguy's confinement set. The Tanamera set was 5 stars, because it's like modern mix and traditional care.
But even mummy wants to use Nona Roguy's set, these 4 Tanamera items are compulsory to include once because it is really
a) Brown Soap Tanamera - The soap smells like herbs, which is great because it's like scrub. So it's so nice to remove dirt or rough places like elbows etc. It's really great to use it first. So it's compulsory to have. Price RM16 / bar.
b) Herbal Massage Oil - Use a normal day to massage your feet if you're tired, it smells really good. (Price RM 40 +/ bottle if not wrong because I bought it during pregnancy early)
c) VCO Tanamera - This is applied to the stomach to prevent stretch mark. Apply from the beginning of the content, insyaAllah there will be no signs, the stomach is just (Price RM 40 +/ bottle if not wrong because I bought it during pregnancy early)
D) Bengkung - Get free time to buy Tanamera set first, most importantly the bengkung is cotton fabric suitable and comfortable for mummy who has cser. So this bengkung is still good, so continue using it.
Oh by the way, mummy bought the Nona Roguy set that's preloved only. It's a coincidence that he's done with confinement in the month of 4 and there's a lot of things in the set that he's useless, even using one or two items so mummy decided why not One set of Nona Roguy price is RM 280 + you know, but mummy gets it with RM78 complete set except for Herbanika Oil. As far as the external use, it won't be a problem because it's expiry date year 2021. Mummy added on to buy Nona Roguy Herbanika Oil in RM 40 +/ bottle.
* Use of herbs / herbs on your own body's fitness. Mummy usually avoids it.
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2. Breast pump & Silicone Milk Collector
Compulsory items for breastfeeding mothers. According to experience, usually use milk collector early because of tandem feeding with baby. Even if you want to pump it early, you don't need to stress yourself because milk production is according to your baby's age. If it's a little milk yield, we'll start stressing out alone, our milk production will fall. Mummy will start saving stock for a month before going to work like that. InsyaAllah can. When Aileen used milk collector Brand Haakaa, now I want to try Autumnz Brand. The price is only RM25.
Thank God, for breast pump mummy using Brand Cimilre is quite durable, most importantly handsfree, the price is worth it and the sound is not noisy. Just chill and relax if you attend the meeting hikhik.
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3. Mother stove & baby tuam
When Aileen used to buy baby tuam without his set, so when the tuam was a bit fussy because he had to use iron to heat up the tuam. First baby has no experience. So this time mummy bought a set straight away, it's not expensive in RM18 to get a small furnace, candle & place to heat up the aromatherapy style. So easy to heat up the baby's furnace directly.
For the mother's furnace, there are already generations at mom's house using river stone from the days of ancestors who used the same river stone.
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4. Set of planting baby type
This is only an optional item, but it's compulsory for mummy since Aileen's time to make it easier for my husband to manage
Any brand is possible but mummy bought a set that has a pot of land because the type has to be planted is good not to give animals to dig it, so put it in the pot of mummy's land feels more secure like that (feeling)
Basically, this planting set includes a way of managing types and prayers that are needed to be read during planting types, asam jawa & sour pieces, salt, white cloth, latex gloves and apron. Complete right?
So it's easier for our husband to settle the part of the planting business, everything is complete and available. Mommies want to prepare for themselves but mummy is really lazy to prepare one by one. This set price is RM 38 including postage.
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5. Bepanthen Cream
It's important to use nipple crack when breastfeeding, among creams that quickly fix nipple crack. Plus point, Bepanthen can be used for nappy rash kids too.
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6. Nursing Cover, Nursing Pad & Nursing Bra
Mummy used nursing cover by Marredz since her first child. It's comfortable to breastfeed a baby, then Marredz did it together with the clutch. After using folding & keep it in the clutch bag. It's just neat. But now there are all kinds of nursing cover selling at the shop, so mommies can choose those who are interested in your heart. (Have to standby to enter the hospital bag because sometimes many people come to visit when we breastfeed our children)
Nursing pad is compulsory because the bra will always be 'wet' because the milk comes out. So need to standby hikhik 😂
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7. Supplement – Osteomatrix Shaklee, Prenavit
Mummy doesn't sell it, but mummy uses this only because the body feels suitable with this osteomatrix. Lelagi chapter of digestion. It's tiring if it's cser but constipation. Want to cry to push in the toilet huhu. So when eating osteomatrix is easier. Because mummy's kind of lack of fruits. So looking for another alternative.
Mummy will avoid eating herbs early because she gives the baby to finish yellow first then drink a little bit.
Previt supplement for pregnant & BF mother. Only this can be swallowed. Obimin, Iberet all the others sorry throat can't swallow huhu.
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8. Thick socks (not in the picture) - must wear, otherwise the pokpek will not wear socks hehe
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9. Maternity Pad
Mummy didn't buy the one who tied the rope, mummy used adult pampers for the early time when blood was so hard to move after c-ser (the type of pampers brought it in the bag to the After that change to use overnight pad / wing pad / normal pad. More comfortable and easier.
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10. Massage / Confinement Lady (CL)
For those who are in confinement, now there are many services provided to help mommies manage themselves and children.
Mummy is done early - early hire CL for mother massage and baby affairs in Terengganu later. Not long in two hours a day, mummy's package is taken for 21 days. Abstinence food, all are used to cook it hehe. Only part of my body, massage, wear a bengkung, use param & pilis and bath, mummy surrendered to CL because she doesn't want to bother mom. For the baby's service, please bathe, tuam and massage the baby together. Enough that is enough.
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Hopefully sharing mummy helps love to prepare abstinence items 😍
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IBU ADALAH SYURGA ANAK.
Ingatlah sewaktu isteri mengandung.. banyak cabaran yang ditempuhinya.
Terpaksa telan air gula yang 'likat', walaupun hati tak rela.. demi anak digagahkan juga minum..
Ada yang kena mabuk teruk dari mula mengandung sampailah nak bersalin.. sampaikan makan apa pun tak lalu.. sampai sakit perut apabila muntah berulang kali.
Itu belum campur part emosi yang turun naik.. kejap ok kejap rasa nak marah..
Part ambil darah setiap kali check up.. cari urat tak jumpa2 sampai lebam2 tangan pun ada..
Setel part mengandung.. saat melahirkan anak pulak..
Ada ibu yang terpaksa mengharungi sakit kontraksi berhari-hari.. kena seluk, kena bius, kena gunting dan kena jahit.
Yang takda rezeki nak bersalin normal, perut kena toreh pulak. Sakitnya hanya Tuhan yang tahu.
Selepas bersalin, part berpantang pun kena jaga betul2..
Lauk berpantang tak boleh sembarangan, jalan kena slow2.. ramai suami tak tahu betapa deritanya nak membuang untuk kali pertama selepas beranak.
Kena berurut, bertungku.. emosi kena stabil.. kalau tak boleh meroyan.
Bila masuk fasa menyusukan anak.. dah merasa dah kena bengkak susu.. puting melecet.. susu drop.. anak mogok taknak susu.. anak suka mengempeng.. tapi ibu layankan aje sebab ibu sanggup berkorban apa saja demi anak.
Tak kisah diri tak terurus untuk mendewasakan anak..
Tak kisah diri tak sempat makan menguruskan anak..
Tak kisah diri tak cukup tidur dan rehat demi anak..
Setiap ibu mahukan yang terbaik buat anak dan keluarganya. Walaupun bahagia itu sementara.. at least dia merasa bahagia.
Layanilah dan hargailah insan yang bergelar IBU. ❤️❤️
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MOTHER IS A CHILD HEAVEN.
Remember when the wife is pregnant.. there are many challenges that she has passed.
Forced to swallow the 'viscous' sugar water, even though the heart is not willing.. for the sake of the child, drink also..
There's someone who got drunk from starting to get pregnant until he gave birth.. he didn't pass by eating anything.. until the stomach ache when he threw up repeatedly
That's not mixed with the emotional part that went up.. I'll feel angry for a while..
Part of taking blood every time checking up.. looking for veins can't be found until the bruised hands are also available..
Settled the pregnant part.. while giving birth..
There's a mother who has to go through contractions pain for days.. got crushed, got scissors and got stitched.
Those who don't have the chance to give birth to normal, the stomach has to carve Only God knows the pain.
After giving birth, we have to take care of the confinement part..
Dishes in abstinence cannot be carelessly, the road must be slow.. many husbands don't know how hard it is to throw away for the first time after
Need to be massage, hold on.. emotion must be stable.. if you can't be complaining.
When it comes to the phase of breastfeeding the child.. already felt that the milk is swollen.. the white is scolded.. the milk drops.. the child doesn't want milk.. the child likes to ride.. but the mother is accompanying it because mom for the sake of the child.
It doesn't matter if I'm not organised to make my child mature..
I don't care if I don't have time to manage my child
I don't care if I don't have enough sleep and rest for my
Every mother wants the best for her child and her family. Even though happiness is temporary.. at least she feels happy.
Enjoy and appreciate the person who is called a MOTHER. ❤️❤️
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