尋晚同快要結婚嘅朋友傾左成晚之後諗起一個Ted Talk, 有個離過三次婚嘅女人話最緊要同自己結婚，好有意思，今日畫左幅畫同大家分享下❤️❤️❤️
“The thing about marrying yourself is not just like cohabitating
You’re not just going to date for a while and see how it turns out
You are going to do this till death do you part
You are going to marry yourself for richer or for poorer.
This means you going to love yourself right where you are
You don’t say, “when you get to the corner of Hollywood and Vine, then I will marry you”
You don’t say, “When you lose ten pounds, then I will love you.”
You are going to marry yourself for better or for worse
Most of us are willing to love ourselves for better, I mean, sure, I am having a great hair day today. I love me!
That’s not what I am talking about, I’m talking about for worse, you know, the big life disappointments.
Maybe you don’t own a home, you don’t get the career you wanted, maybe you didn’t graduate from college, or get the relationship you wanted. Maybe you fight with your mom, maybe you watch too much reality TV, whatever it is, it doesn’t matter anymore
Because when you marry yourself, you agree to stay with you no matter what.
……
“Will you marry me?”
Even though those words are very powerful, I don’t need to hear them from him because I have already heard them from myself.
The way I see it is like I took myself to the top of a mountain, or maybe to the bottom of the ocean, and I got down on one knee, and I said, “I’ll never leave you”
Now I am married to the one person I really want to be with all along,
Myself.”
Excerpts from Tracey McMillan’s Ted talk: the person you really need to marry
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