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任然《飛鳥和蟬》小提琴版本 | Violin cover by Lin Tzu An of Asuka and Cicada (Fei Niao He Chan) by Ren Ran

大家今天音樂會有沒有意猶未盡的感覺？
這不就來了！音樂會結束之後還有cover可以看啦，是線上安可的概念（寵粉無極限）

雖然是首關於注定分離無法有快樂結局的歌曲，要用小提琴同時表達惆悵的蟬和淡然遠去的飛鳥真的好難，但不是要大家不斷傷感，而是更珍惜身邊的人！

世界上沒有不痛苦的分開，彼此走散有太多種樣子，而且後來用多少力量都無法阻擋離別。
如果明白離別是無可避免，也明白遊戲規則就是如此殘忍痛苦，而我們也無法習慣離別，那麼至少好好告別吧。好好記得轉身前最後一刻，彼此的樣子。

2020是讓很多人感到沮喪的一年，「活在當下、珍惜所有」雖然是已經被說到爛的台詞，但相信對於每個人還是有各自的意義。生活中每一個選擇都是成就自己的模樣的一部分，希望大家都可以把自己打理好，由外而內、再由裡而外喜歡珍惜並享受每一個自己當下的姿態，以這樣美好的樣子面對人生不期而遇的溫暖，並且以這樣的狀態成為某個人的限量版快樂與守候。

歡迎大家在沒有下雨的週末到信義區香堤大道，聽cover歌曲的live版！詳細演出相關資訊，我都會更新在我的Instagram 限時動態！

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Any encore for today's concert in Taipei?
Yah, I know you want more for my music tonight, so here comes the cover 😉

Though it's a song about the doomed separation and no happy ending at all, I do not mean to keep everyone sad!
There is no painless separation, and there are too many ways to say good bye to each other even we try damn hard to stop such goodbye. But if we all know that saying good bye is the destination, and that the rules of the world are so cruel, at least we can say goodbye in a good way, maybe? Try to remember the best last moment before turning our heads away.

2020 is a year that makes many people feel depressed. "Live in the moment and cherish everything" is such a cliche, but I still believe it has its own meaning for everyone.
Hope everyone can take care of themselves, from the outside in, and then from the inside out, cherish and enjoy yourself in every moment. Try to face and hug unexpected surprise in the life as it is and become the one and only limited edition happiness for someone in your best status.

Should you have any request regarding cover songs, just comment below and let me know.
Also please share the video and subscribe to my channel https://bit.ly/2EsTGMQ.
Don't forget to click the 🔔 bell to be notified when my videos come out!

Visit me at Taipei Shin Kong Mitsukoshi Xinyi Plaza to enjoy more my live cover songs. Check it out details on my Instagram stories!

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編曲Arrange：林子安 Lin Tzu An
混音mix：林子安 Lin Tzu An
小提琴 Violin: 林子安 Lin Tzu An
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文字編輯 Social media editor/manager: Lily Wu

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การวิ่งทำให้เรามีเป้าหมายรูปธรรม มีตัวชี้วัดชัดเจน และความเปลี่ยนแปลงที่เกิดขึ้นนั้นเราสัมผัสได้ด้วยตัวเราเอง เพราะมันคือความเปลี่ยนแปลงของร่างกายเราเอง การวิ่งระยะไกลทำให้เราต้องฝึกซ้อม นั่นทำให้ทุกวันมีความหมาย เรารู้ดีว่าถ้าอยากวิ่งให้ดีกว่าเดิม เราต้องซ้อมให้หนักกว่าเดิม และถูกวิธียิ่งขึ้นเรื่อยๆ การตื่นขึ้นมาซ้อมทุกวันจะนำพาไปสู่ความหมายใหญ่ในวันแข่งขัน
...Continue ReadingWhat a world record-breaking runner says to us
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I found some runner secrets

Running gives us a concrete goal. There is a clear indicator and the change that happens. We can feel it by ourselves because it's the change of our body. Running makes us practice. That makes us mean every day. We know that if you want to run. Better than before. We have to practice harder and more accurate. Waking up to practice everyday will lead to big meaning on competition day.

When life is meaningful, we will feel that we are worthy of ourselves like this. Then we blame other people or less interested in self-development than we can't deny that there are a number of people to make themselves feel good. Press others to feel low to feel that Higher self. While those who feel good about themselves don't often do so. He just think how to bring themselves higher. They want to bring others to uplift together. Self-esteem is important when it's full in ourselves. We will. I don't want to find outside wealth. I don't feel like I have to do this so that others can't look hungry. We know that we know that we are okay, strong and stable. All of these can be "freedom"

Have big goals, practice continuously. Make every day meaningful. Be proud of yourself. Don't seek to cover, don't thirst. Accepting from others. Confident in the mind. Confident in our own

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What makes me see this summary is the speech of "Eliudkipshoke" - one of the world's best marathon runners of this era, which is given to students at cuddle Ox University. Ford in Oxford Union

Kipshoke talks about the key elements of success.

One, self discipline.
Two, great preparation
Three, great deal
Four, positive thoughts
Five, working with others.
Six, consistency
Seven, accept the change
Eight, self-faith

The best runner of Kenya slowly explains that self-discipline is to check yourself all the time. Choose to do what you want to do more than what we want to do. Discipline makes us go to practice without losing our own feelings. Not only running, but us. I will practice conscious habits. Choose the right thing for long term results than choose to do whatever you want for your own happiness.

The way to discipline is to see the priorities of what you will always do. Follow the schedule. Learn to reject the insignificant or stay off the schedule. Practice and most importantly, self-discipline is not just what happens and disappear if it's a lifestyle similar. Build a muscle that can't be done within two days if it takes to live consistency until the muscles become part of us and eventually become the same flesh with life.

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Kipshoke emphasizes, "Remember that only the disciplined will be free He expands," If you don't have discipline, you will be a slave to emotions, you will be a slave to passion. That's suffering He still. Quote the word "The best day to plant a tree was twenty-five years ago, but the good day is today" and told students at Oxford to plant trees of discipline today.

Another great thing that runners emphasize is consistency. We always start doing something when we feel motivated within ourselves. But if you want to do that, we need discipline to continue on the day we feel like to don't want to do what makes us grow is discipline. That's when there is motivation and discipline, we become consistent and become experts in it. Finally, nobody can reach that point without consistency.

Kipchoke says the secret to running well based on self-confidence. This confidence is caused by training with discipline. His mind tells himself that he has to run this hard. Of course. So I run free, carefree.

Even the best runner suggests eight success elements. But when I hear all of them, I conclude that the most important element of success is "discipline" because if there is the rest will follow, he values training as much. Answer the question of students, "If I miss to break the world record, I don't regret it. If I miss the Olympic Gold Medal, I will regret it when I will regret it when I don't have no discipline in rehearsal" because I know that only consistent rehearsal will If we do our best, even if we lose to someone, it's not sad.

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I thought about his words that said " Practice hard, live a simple life and you will be free

To the end, the important foundation of a simple life is to practice what you love hard to do better everyday. Then we will have a simple life automatically, and be free from the ruler that others always apply because we know what we are doing for and Proud of that progress

It's strange that running has made me discover new value in life. That's the value of self-discipline without anyone forcing me slowly moving towards that by changing in myself. When doing it is continuously and discipline. I found that discipline. Running a lot of things in life. When running with discipline, I start sleeping with discipline. Wake up with discipline, eating healthy food, have a disciplined work schedule and I start to resist myself not doing what I want. Do but don't affect long term and start pushing yourself to do what you should do, which will be better in the long term.

Discovery is shocking. Discipline is not the cage as I always thought if it becomes the key to a life that is free from the bondage that the world tries to lead us to be lost in those siege when Control ourselves. We have more freedom from temptations and happiness in the circle that will bring us to our intended destination.

The world is so simple.

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All of these messages are from "New Year, New Goals" in Homo Finishers book. Praise the idol, the world record-breaking the world record with just 2:01:39 hours. In Berlin field marathon

Saw his running form and his words come up again

" Only the discipline will be freeTranslated

An incredibly beautiful, sad, brave, wise, inspiring post by Facebook COO Sheryl Sandberg. Early this year, I read her book 'Lean In', a book encouraging women to achieve their dreams and ambitions, and was so grateful it was written for such a time as this. I especially loved her chapter about David being so supportive of her. I'm still stunned by all that's happened to them.

Here's to beating the heck out of Option B.

Today is the end of sheloshim for my beloved husband—the first thirty days. Judaism calls for a period of intense mourning known as shiva that lasts seven days after a loved one is buried. After shiva, most normal activities can be resumed, but it is the end of sheloshim that marks the completion of religious mourning for a spouse.

A childhood friend of mine who is now a rabbi recently told me that the most powerful one-line prayer he has ever read is: “Let me not die while I am still alive.” I would have never understood that prayer before losing Dave. Now I do.

I think when tragedy occurs, it presents a choice. You can give in to the void, the emptiness that fills your heart, your lungs, constricts your ability to think or even breathe. Or you can try to find meaning. These past thirty days, I have spent many of my moments lost in that void. And I know that many future moments will be consumed by the vast emptiness as well.

But when I can, I want to choose life and meaning.

And this is why I am writing: to mark the end of sheloshim and to give back some of what others have given to me. While the experience of grief is profoundly personal, the bravery of those who have shared their own experiences has helped pull me through. Some who opened their hearts were my closest friends. Others were total strangers who have shared wisdom and advice publicly. So I am sharing what I have learned in the hope that it helps someone else. In the hope that there can be some meaning from this tragedy.

I have lived thirty years in these thirty days. I am thirty years sadder. I feel like I am thirty years wiser.

I have gained a more profound understanding of what it is to be a mother, both through the depth of the agony I feel when my children scream and cry and from the connection my mother has to my pain. She has tried to fill the empty space in my bed, holding me each night until I cry myself to sleep. She has fought to hold back her own tears to make room for mine. She has explained to me that the anguish I am feeling is both my own and my children’s, and I understood that she was right as I saw the pain in her own eyes.

I have learned that I never really knew what to say to others in need. I think I got this all wrong before; I tried to assure people that it would be okay, thinking that hope was the most comforting thing I could offer. A friend of mine with late-stage cancer told me that the worst thing people could say to him was “It is going to be okay.” That voice in his head would scream, How do you know it is going to be okay? Do you not understand that I might die? I learned this past month what he was trying to teach me. Real empathy is sometimes not insisting that it will be okay but acknowledging that it is not. When people say to me, “You and your children will find happiness again,” my heart tells me, Yes, I believe that, but I know I will never feel pure joy again. Those who have said, “You will find a new normal, but it will never be as good” comfort me more because they know and speak the truth. Even a simple “How are you?”—almost always asked with the best of intentions—is better replaced with “How are you today?” When I am asked “How are you?” I stop myself from shouting, My husband died a month ago, how do you think I am? When I hear “How are you today?” I realize the person knows that the best I can do right now is to get through each day.

I have learned some practical stuff that matters. Although we now know that Dave died immediately, I didn’t know that in the ambulance. The trip to the hospital was unbearably slow. I still hate every car that did not move to the side, every person who cared more about arriving at their destination a few minutes earlier than making room for us to pass. I have noticed this while driving in many countries and cities. Let’s all move out of the way. Someone’s parent or partner or child might depend on it.

I have learned how ephemeral everything can feel—and maybe everything is. That whatever rug you are standing on can be pulled right out from under you with absolutely no warning. In the last thirty days, I have heard from too many women who lost a spouse and then had multiple rugs pulled out from under them. Some lack support networks and struggle alone as they face emotional distress and financial insecurity. It seems so wrong to me that we abandon these women and their families when they are in greatest need.

I have learned to ask for help—and I have learned how much help I need. Until now, I have been the older sister, the COO, the doer and the planner. I did not plan this, and when it happened, I was not capable of doing much of anything. Those closest to me took over. They planned. They arranged. They told me where to sit and reminded me to eat. They are still doing so much to support me and my children.

I have learned that resilience can be learned. Adam M. Grant taught me that three things are critical to resilience and that I can work on all three. Personalization—realizing it is not my fault. He told me to ban the word “sorry.” To tell myself over and over, This is not my fault. Permanence—remembering that I won’t feel like this forever. This will get better. Pervasiveness—this does not have to affect every area of my life; the ability to compartmentalize is healthy.

For me, starting the transition back to work has been a savior, a chance to feel useful and connected. But I quickly discovered that even those connections had changed. Many of my co-workers had a look of fear in their eyes as I approached. I knew why—they wanted to help but weren’t sure how. Should I mention it? Should I not mention it? If I mention it, what the hell do I say? I realized that to restore that closeness with my colleagues that has always been so important to me, I needed to let them in. And that meant being more open and vulnerable than I ever wanted to be. I told those I work with most closely that they could ask me their honest questions and I would answer. I also said it was okay for them to talk about how they felt. One colleague admitted she’d been driving by my house frequently, not sure if she should come in. Another said he was paralyzed when I was around, worried he might say the wrong thing. Speaking openly replaced the fear of doing and saying the wrong thing. One of my favorite cartoons of all time has an elephant in a room answering the phone, saying, “It’s the elephant.” Once I addressed the elephant, we were able to kick him out of the room.

At the same time, there are moments when I can’t let people in. I went to Portfolio Night at school where kids show their parents around the classroom to look at their work hung on the walls. So many of the parents—all of whom have been so kind—tried to make eye contact or say something they thought would be comforting. I looked down the entire time so no one could catch my eye for fear of breaking down. I hope they understood.

I have learned gratitude. Real gratitude for the things I took for granted before—like life. As heartbroken as I am, I look at my children each day and rejoice that they are alive. I appreciate every smile, every hug. I no longer take each day for granted. When a friend told me that he hates birthdays and so he was not celebrating his, I looked at him and said through tears, “Celebrate your birthday, goddammit. You are lucky to have each one.” My next birthday will be depressing as hell, but I am determined to celebrate it in my heart more than I have ever celebrated a birthday before.

I am truly grateful to the many who have offered their sympathy. A colleague told me that his wife, whom I have never met, decided to show her support by going back to school to get her degree—something she had been putting off for years. Yes! When the circumstances allow, I believe as much as ever in leaning in. And so many men—from those I know well to those I will likely never know—are honoring Dave’s life by spending more time with their families.

I can’t even express the gratitude I feel to my family and friends who have done so much and reassured me that they will continue to be there. In the brutal moments when I am overtaken by the void, when the months and years stretch out in front of me endless and empty, only their faces pull me out of the isolation and fear. My appreciation for them knows no bounds.

I was talking to one of these friends about a father-child activity that Dave is not here to do. We came up with a plan to fill in for Dave. I cried to him, “But I want Dave. I want option A.” He put his arm around me and said, “Option A is not available. So let’s just kick the shit out of option B.”

Dave, to honor your memory and raise your children as they deserve to be raised, I promise to do all I can to kick the shit out of option B. And even though sheloshim has ended, I still mourn for option A. I will always mourn for option A. As Bono sang, “There is no end to grief . . . and there is no end to love.” I love you, Dave.

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任然《飛鳥和蟬》小提琴版本 | Violin cover by Lin Tzu An of Asuka and Cicada (Fei Niao He Chan) by Ren Ran

大家今天音樂會有沒有意猶未盡的感覺？
這不就來了！音樂會結束之後還有cover可以看啦，是線上安可的概念（寵粉無極限）

雖然是首關於注定分離無法有快樂結局的歌曲，要用小提琴同時表達惆悵的蟬和淡然遠去的飛鳥真的好難，但不是要大家不斷傷感，而是更珍惜身邊的人！

世界上沒有不痛苦的分開，彼此走散有太多種樣子，而且後來用多少力量都無法阻擋離別。
如果明白離別是無可避免，也明白遊戲規則就是如此殘忍痛苦，而我們也無法習慣離別，那麼至少好好告別吧。好好記得轉身前最後一刻，彼此的樣子。

2020是讓很多人感到沮喪的一年，「活在當下、珍惜所有」雖然是已經被說到爛的台詞，但相信對於每個人還是有各自的意義。生活中每一個選擇都是成就自己的模樣的一部分，希望大家都可以把自己打理好，由外而內、再由裡而外喜歡珍惜並享受每一個自己當下的姿態，以這樣美好的樣子面對人生不期而遇的溫暖，並且以這樣的狀態成為某個人的限量版快樂與守候。

歡迎大家在沒有下雨的週末到信義區香堤大道，聽cover歌曲的live版！詳細演出相關資訊，我都會更新在我的Instagram 限時動態！

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Any encore for today's concert in Taipei?
Yah, I know you want more for my music tonight, so here comes the cover 😉

Though it's a song about the doomed separation and no happy ending at all, I do not mean to keep everyone sad!
There is no painless separation, and there are too many ways to say good bye to each other even we try damn hard to stop such goodbye. But if we all know that saying good bye is the destination, and that the rules of the world are so cruel, at least we can say goodbye in a good way, maybe? Try to remember the best last moment before turning our heads away.

2020 is a year that makes many people feel depressed. "Live in the moment and cherish everything" is such a cliche, but I still believe it has its own meaning for everyone.
Hope everyone can take care of themselves, from the outside in, and then from the inside out, cherish and enjoy yourself in every moment. Try to face and hug unexpected surprise in the life as it is and become the one and only limited edition happiness for someone in your best status.

Should you have any request regarding cover songs, just comment below and let me know.
Also please share the video and subscribe to my channel https://bit.ly/2EsTGMQ.
Don't forget to click the 🔔 bell to be notified when my videos come out!

Visit me at Taipei Shin Kong Mitsukoshi Xinyi Plaza to enjoy more my live cover songs. Check it out details on my Instagram stories!

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編曲Arrange：林子安 Lin Tzu An
混音mix：林子安 Lin Tzu An
小提琴 Violin: 林子安 Lin Tzu An
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