TỪ VỰNG IELTS - CHỦ ĐỀ STRESS
PHẦN TỪ VỰNG
- to live a stress-free life: sống một cuộc sống không còn căng thẳng
- to overcome life’s challenges: vượt qua các thử thách của cuộc sống
- to stay positive: lạc quan
- the ongoing pressures of day-to-day life: những áp lực liên tục của cuộc sống hàng ngày
- to shield sb from sth: bảo vệ ai đó khỏi gì
- an essential part of life: một phần thiết yếu của cuộc sống
- to complete important tasks: hoàn thành các nhiệm vụ quan trọng
- to fail to do sth: thất bại/ không làm được việc gì
- to dampen your spirits: làm giảm tinh thần của bạn
- to feel a greater sense of control: cảm thấy mình kiểm soát sự việc tốt hơn
- to develop a realistic, practical plan: xây dựng một kế hoạch thực tế
- to fit your own needs: phù hợp với nhu cầu của riêng bạn
- to lead a more peaceful life: dẫn tới một cuộc sống bình yên hơn
- life-altering events: những sự kiện thay đổi cuộc đời
- to care for a loved one during illness: chăm sóc người thân trong thời gian bị bệnh
- to deal with a painful loss: đối phó với một mất mát đau đớn
- to live through a difficult divorce: sống qua một cuộc ly hôn đầy khó khăn
- to feel completely overwhelmed: cảm thấy hoàn toàn choáng ngợp
- to be key foundations of happiness: là nền tảng chính của hạnh phúc
- to struggle with debt: đấu tranh với nợ nần
- a period of economic instability: thời kỳ bất ổn kinh tế
- to enter a stable job market: tham gia vào một thị trường việc làm ổn định
- stress resilience: khả năng phục hồi sau một giai đoạn căng thẳng
- to provoke worry: kích động trạng thái lo lắng
- to heighten anxiety: làm tăng sự lo âu
- to make positive changes: tạo ra những thay đổi tích cực
- to increase the risk of cardiovascular disease, cancer and high blood pressure: tăng nguy cơ mắc bệnh tim mạch, ung thư và huyết áp cao
- to be vulnerable to sth: dễ bị tổn thương với cái gì
- to make good use of sth: sử dụng tốt thứ gì
- to create a positive outcome: tạo ra một kết quả tích cực
- to cultivate positive emotions: nuôi dưỡng cảm xúc tích cực
- to take constructive steps to tackle sth: thực hiện các bước mang tính xây dựng để giải quyết vấn đề gì
- to make time for sth: dành thời gian cho
- to recover from a period of pressure: phục hồi sau một thời gian áp lực
- to establish a good rapport with sb: thiết lập mối quan hệ tốt với ai
- to do a great deal of harm: gây ra nhiều thiệt hại
- to instill a sense of confidence: làm thấm nhuần niềm tin
- to suffer from an anxiety disorder: bị rối loạn lo âu
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很多對離婚人士好奇的都很想知道,離婚後,原本和爸爸媽媽一起住的孩子,會習慣「離婚後的生活」嗎?
過來人,對這個問題,有一個很特別的答案。
#孩子到底有沒有辦法習慣?
荷蘭的學者認為,這句話得先問大人:「那你自己咧?你習慣了嗎?」
很多離婚者一聽到這問題,都會太快的揮揮手回答,當然啦,我早就習慣了!離婚後,清閒又自由,不必吵架了,不必管另一個人了,但,你真的習慣嗎?真的習慣了一個人的不見?真的習慣了孩子從此之後只看到你一個人?真的習慣了和另一個人遠端分享(瓜分)孩子的愛?真的習慣了你已離婚的事實?
這篇由荷蘭學者的研究論文才剛剛於今年六月登上《Journal of Family Psychology》學術期刊,學者研究136位和平離婚的夫妻,以及165位高衝突離婚夫妻,結果發現,只要能夠「習慣並接受離婚」(Acceptance of their divorce)的,往往可以輕鬆的原諒對方、放過自己,後續的親子關係也迅速恢復健康又正常。而,所謂「習慣於離婚」的意思是,可以不再去批評自己的過去的婚姻與現在的離婚,不再後悔,抗爭,或改變它,而用一種開放、療癒、不設立場的閒雲野鶴的態度在看待自己離婚的事實。
學者說,很多大人,以為自己已習慣自己的離婚,其實根本就沒有習慣,然後活在一種「自戀型的包袱」(narcissistic entitlement)中,認為其他的異性都比前伴侶還要好,自己怎麼好倒楣───想到與對方的過去,就恨牙癢癢的認為對方耽誤了我多少青春!再想到對方的現在與未來,更是氣呼呼的不想看到對方過得比我好,以上這些都讓離婚者無法順利的切割掉舊婚姻。
不過,好消息是,只要大人先習慣了自己的離婚,那,孩子一定很快就會習慣了!完全沒問題!
為什麼這樣說呢?
真的嗎?
我自己也曾非常擔心,我家孩子會習慣離婚後的新生活嗎?離婚畢竟是多麼驚天動地的巨大改變!但,我發現,我這個大人,能夠好好的發揮我「應該做的事」(當一個更棒的爸爸),孩子本來就是很容易得到滿足的:去玩一個新地方,就可以讓他忘記很多事;去交幾個新朋友,也可以度過很多時間,而夜深人靜的時候,一步不離的陪伴,孩子也可以順利的快快睡著,問題是,大人自己,有沒有真正習慣了「離婚後的日子」?
離婚怎麼看都是「少了一個人」,所以離婚者都有一個錯覺,想去「補」那個「消失的東西」。可是,消失的東西,怎樣都補不起來,過了晚上10點,原本應該在家裡的另一個親人(前伴侶)並沒有回到家、沒有出現孩子眼前,這些都是事實,是怎麼補都補不回來的。
不過,大人其實是非常強大的,儘管少了一個人,卻多了無限的自由,這麼大的自由度,身為成年人的你,可以做任何事情,隨便走個一大步,就給了孩子滿滿的、滿滿的幸福。離婚之後我就這樣滿滿的忙忙的「創造」了很多很多,自由自在為孩子做,也不會太難,只要我一直創造,孩子的生命就會一直在動;孩子也可以很快做出比較:「現在的日子,比以前沒離婚前,還要快樂!」
孩子,也真的很快的很快的就習慣了,快到我們好像從來沒有離婚過一樣。
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▍情感離婚的和睦家庭
熙善是個獨生女,父親是高階公務員而母親則是教師,家庭經濟非常安穩,但由於父母都忙於工作很少有時間跟女兒相處,熙善一直都很寂寞,獨自一人去學校、去補習班,不會煩父母也不會吵,從小學開始就什麼事都一個人搞定,為此父母總是誇讚著熙善。
即便如此,熙善的父母極少提及有多愛她,他們各自沉浸在自己的人生,時間一久熙善自然就越少與父母對話。我理解到熙善的家缺乏溝通與情感交流,與其說是和睦家庭倒不如說是不關心寂寞的家。
孩子們都是在與父母的情感交流中學習如何與別人溝通與建立關係,以及依據不同情況與情緒,比方生氣時、喜悅時、痛苦時、難過時等等,找出自己細微又具體的情感表達方法。多數人會透過分享心情,找到成熟且適當的表現情緒的方法,但可惜的是熙善從未有過這種機會,她不知道自己感受到的情緒是什麼,所以會選擇忽略負面的情緒。
成長過程中,熙善一直認為家裡如此安靜是理所當然的事,直到國中第一次到同學家玩,看到她的家庭狀況才讓熙善感到衝擊。同學的一家人會坐在餐桌前一同吃飯聊天,那時的熙善才意識自己家裡的情況或許真的很奇怪。
事實上在熙善的成長過程中,曾有過覺得父母好似不愛她、不關心她而感到難過,卻沒有直接表現出來,之後也就漸漸覺得沒有情緒交流反而更舒坦。
我問起她父母之間的相處如何時,熙善說沒什麼情感交流,既不吵架也不會對彼此有愛意的表現。熙善這樣說道:「印象中從我小時候父母都是分房睡,也幾乎沒看到兩人說上話,有話想說會寫字條或透過我傳話。」
熙善的父母屬於「情感離婚」(emotional divorce)的狀態,也就是雖然法律上沒有離婚但精神上已經是離婚的狀態。沒有對話、沒有情感交流,當然也沒有性關係,物理上住一起,法律上是夫妻,卻和陌生人沒啥兩樣。法律上沒有離婚的原因很多,可能是周遭人的看法、自己的面子、子女的婚事、財產分割等等。精神離婚的夫妻多半會分房而睡,吃飯也不一起,通常這種情況下,配偶與其他人見面交往也不會干涉對方,就只是住在同一屋簷下而已。
這一類夫妻在經濟上會善盡父母該有的責任,然而從心理層面來看,是帶給子女莫大的傷害,本該最親近的人卻做出最壞的關係示範,讓子女對關係失去希望與期待。
夫妻在情感上離婚的話,通常會將所有的期待投射在子女身上,不過熙善的父母是各自沉浸在自己人生,也可能因為熙善一個人都做得很好,所以沒有與女兒擁有正常的情感交流。
如此一來,由於與父母處於這樣的關係而無法經歷情緒上的連結,人際也就一定出現問題。反正表現出情緒既不能獲得什麼也不能改變什麼,只好裝酷,熙善酷酷的樣貌正是基於這個因素。
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之前在直播的時候,跟朋友聊到物理上的分離與心理上的分離,我想到這篇摘文中的案例。尤其「情感離婚的和睦家庭」,這種說法很貼切,又帶著戲劇性的反差。
這也是一種帶著忽略的親子關係,因為父母某種程度上都活在各自的世界,沒辦法在情緒上跟孩子有交會。這樣孩子因為情緒表達的機會少,自然而然就會酷酷的,跟人有距離,內心也常有空虛寂寞感,從小缺乏高品質的連結。
進一步來說,甚至可能覺得感受到情緒很討厭,自己主動排斥情緒也有可能。感受不到情緒,但不是真的沒有情緒,被積累到爆炸的情緒發生時也就容易驚慌失措。
這種狀態下長大的孩子,親密關係也會遭遇困難。其實影響深遠,但不從心理世界去看,很難察覺。
「說出不開心,才有機會開心。」
負面情緒不想好好經歷,正面情緒也就可能離我們遠去。因為正負面情緒常常相伴著出現,或著前後出現,很難自主選擇要感受哪一種,或者不要哪一種。
一旦伴侶間走向心理上的分離,又沒有清楚覺察,關係就可能江河日下。不是所有關係都能順利救回來,然而就算關係救不回來也不是世界末日,持續保持覺察,下次關係再繼續練習。
祝願您,能跟自己的情緒多交流,其實情緒可以幫我們很多!
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