關於 i will handle it中文 ，我們在網路上蒐集到這些相關的討論、資訊與評價

以下影片非常特別！ 是我美國跟以色列家人去年來台灣時，我和我的哥哥們拜訪了許多瀑布！ 如果你和家人住在同一個國度，請珍惜共處時光!
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當時是颱風季節，所以水位很高。 我教給他許多有關如何處理強流和大瀑布的安全提示。 儘管影片是9個月前拍攝的，但在今天卻非常重要適用。
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南部的暴雨揭開了瀑布季節序幕，現在河水會優美流動好幾個星期。 每個人都會被誘惑去玩。 在我鼓勵大家在外體驗大自然的同時，我必須強調，您要在安全地的情況下去玩。 希望這影片提供一些安全小技巧，可幫助您進行戶外探險之旅。
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對於我個人而言，這也是一個非常重要影片，因為全球疫情大流行，而且在美國如此嚴重，因此至少要兩年後我才能再次見到我的哥哥。 目前，我能做的就是編輯影片，並一起回憶我們共遊的時光。我感到非常幸運，擁有這麼多額外的旅遊足跡影片。 這也不是最後一個……還有另一個影片即將推出。
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The following video is very special! It's from my family visit to Taiwan. My Brother and I go to many waterfalls! It was Typhoon season so the water levels were very high. I teach him many safety tips for how to handle strong currents and big waterfalls. Although this video was filmed 9 months ago, it's very relevant today.
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Torrential rain in the south has started the waterfall season and now the rivers are flowing beautifully for several weeks. Everyone will be tempted to go and play. While I encourage everyone to go out and experience nature, I must all stress that you do it safely. Hopefully this video will have some tips to help you along your outdoor adventure journey.
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It’s also a very important video for me personally, because of the global pandemic, and how serious it is in the United States, I will not be able to see my brother again until at least two years. Editing this video and remembering our time together is the best I can do at the moment. I feel very lucky to have had so much extra footage left over. It’s not the last either… There is another video coming.
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中文成語 很有意思 也很耐人尋味
雖然我還不能完全領略 但偶而也能“體會”
水能載舟 亦能覆舟
所以 大家下水之前 一定要小心 最好有專業領隊帶領
尤其近日大雨不斷 深水下方不明 步步為營 一定要注意
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像我和哥哥 都摔的瘀青黑腫的 肋骨痛好幾天
嘿嘿。愛玩的下場～ 順便給大家上一堂課！
這也是我引以為傲的。你有沒有發現？
東摔西撞的 … 衣服都沒事？ 真的是MIT.
台灣製造真的品質有保證～
同時 也很 感謝 大家對黑熊衣的支持
很多朋友問 ： 除了黑色 和 橘色 還有沒有其他顏色？
其實 我決定顏色前 真的也嘗試了藍 綠 紅…等等
剛好 從影片就可以知道 藍色在水裡 綠在山中
色彩是會被蓋住, 燒包的我 拍出來的影片就….
就看不到我啦！
所以 最後 我選了 最能代表黑熊的黑色
和 最看得到我的 橘色～
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那你(妳)喜歡什麼顏色呢？
可以留言告訴我哦 ～
或許 下一隻黑熊 我們就做你要的顏色～
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影片裏面的地方：
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美雅谷瀑布
高雄市茂林區
Meiya Waterfall
Kaohsiung City, Maolin District
瀑布：22.92921, 120.68742
停車位：22.92367, 120.68284
http://followxiaofei.com/taiwan/kaohsiung-waterfalls-maolin-meiya-valley-waterfall

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小琉球
屏東縣琉球鄉
Xiao Liuqiu
Pingtung County, Liuqiu Township
GPS:
海邊: 22.3558, 120.38039
渡船: 22.46839, 120.4449
https://followxiaofei.com/taiwan/xiaoliuqiu

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海神宮
屏東縣三地門鄉
Ocean God's Pools
Pingtung County, Sandimen Township
GPS:
第一宮: 22.825096, 120.653034
停車: 22.822563, 120.646305
https://followxiaofei.com/taiwan/pingtung-waterfalls-sandimen-ocean-gods-pools

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神山瀑布
屏東縣霧臺鄉神山
Shenshan Waterfall
Pingtung County, Wutai Township, Shenshan Village
GPS:
神山瀑布第上層停車: 22.753934, 120.730034
神山瀑布第中層停車: 22.756128, 120.730337
http://followxiaofei.com/taiwan/pingtung-waterfalls-wutai-shenshan-waterfall

嗨！這是我的新文章：“你所不知道的掙扎：做為一個讀博士班的國際學生”。
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由於這篇部落格文章是以英文寫作，如果有朋友們感興趣，之後會用中文來分享。也歡迎想練習英文的朋友們閱讀，希望對想了解在英國讀書心路歷程的朋友們有幫助。Best wishes （連結在下方，謝謝）
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[Struggles you don’t know: studying PhD as an international student]
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Hi, please feel free to provide your comments (privately) to my new article. It will be great if I can have diverse perspectives from you. Cheers. :)
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What will occur to you when you hear the term PhD? In response, many people say: “being a PhD candidate must be a tough job.” Sure, it is not an easy job. Then, how about pursuing a doctoral degree as an international student? Actually, it is quite another story. Culture shock comes along when attitudes, habits, ethnic character, climate, food, and even opening hours of stores are different. Also, you will have to handle issues such as writing in your second language, adapting to different accents of the lecturers, getting involved in networking, mental health, and financial support. Each of these situations you will encounter will be elaborated here.

从老公的角度看试管婴儿疗程

当一对夫妻要做 #IVF试管疗程时，做丈夫的应该用什么态度来面对？常常有网友告诉我说，我的老公精子不好，可是他还是不能戒烟戒酒，好不配合。要知道，不孕症不只是女人的责任，男人也是有责任。这篇文章，是以男人的角度出发，里面分享身为丈夫应该如何帮助太太一起度过疗程，文章是英文内容，是奥莉爸爸写的，奥莉爸不会中文。分享给大家😊

IVF Journey, A Husband’s Perspective

Hi all, before reading further I would like to say this is NOT an instruction or tips for IVF and hopefully readers will understand my poorly written English. This is my journey as a father of the IVF baby girl. Why am I sharing all this? It is because my wife had a Facebook page of her IVF journey at https://facebook.com/ivfjourney2015/ and she told me that majorities (not all but most) feedback indicate husband not supportive enough to commit into a journey of IVF. I’m not a true supportive husband either, least I made up my mind to make it happen.

Let’s start with “Why IVF?”
We went for a fertilization test and results with;
Husband: Teratospermia (Human language, sperm is weak for fertilization process)
Wife: Unexplained infertility (I think this is easy to understand, there is for the confirming reason for this result and we don’t go for further test after it because it will consumes too much time and money)

We married and planned to have children late 2011, both our ages were 37 in 2015 because of late marriage. My wife introduced IVF because she does not want to give up and feels regretful in future and so do I. Maybe because I did too many regretful things in the past, now I do not want this happened to my wife. At least I do it better then ignoring it.

Preparation for IVF
Financially, I know it will involve amount of 20k – 30k “Ringgit Malaysia” in the whole process depending on the situation and this is only one chance for me. I don’t have the money for a second attempt because I need to allocate funds for delivery if success.

Mentally, I do some studies/research on IVF. The whole journey took 50 days and in one of the process my wife needs to do a self-injection daily. I quickly asked my wife “Daily injection?! Do I need to fetch you to clinic daily to do this?” She answered “No, we need to do this ourselves”. A final question from me going to be “How?!” After we sat down and discuss, we comes into conclusion and I will do the injection for her. This was the most painful and nervous moment I ever experience by poking a needle to my wife’s belly EVERYDAY!

Lifestyle, 6 months earlier. My wife told me the NO’s, NO alcohol NO smoking NO midnight wandering NO stress. I said, I will fly up to the skies like butterfly if I able to do all the NO’s. It’s like a mission impossible. How can a man like me not go out to social with friends without alcohol and smoke? The joke was sleeping early! You want me to social with my friends in breakfast or lunch time? At this time, she softly said “I really wants to have a cute baby in future, it looks more like a family. Furthermore, I don’t want to have regretful moments in future”. All these words came out of my love (wife), her words melted in my heart deeply. I told her “Ok, we will go for it BUT you will need to promise me ONE IMPORTANT thing. No matter the process success or not we only have one attempt we need to accept the truth and live happily without regret in future.” she agreed.

Commitment, this is not some empty promise. I made a huge commitment to change my lifestyle into zero alcohol, tobacco and lesser stress. If comparing the pain and suffers my wife will take in this journey e.g., injection, medication effects, hormone changes and all the effects from pregnancies to delivery, mine looks more alike small potatoes (looks much more simple). Trust me guys, don't compare it, if you do and more likely you're going loose badly. For the sake of making a better future, I had fulfilled this commitment.

IVF Journey Phase 1 “Unskilled Husband Injection”
Day 1, doctor consults us for Buserelin injection. I need to inject this medication into my wife's belly each day sharp at 8AM. The nurse had guided me side by side to do the first injection.
Day 2, I started my first injection to my wife's belly without anyone guiding beside. Feels a bit nervous because this time I'm doing it all by myself. I try to hum some music to distract my wife's from looking at the needle while injecting but still she is looking at it.
Day 3 - Day 15, sometime the injection hurting and causes bleeding/bruise to her. I need to find a new spot to inject every time and sees her bruise makes my pain in the heart too. My injection skills improved dramatically. She even told me that she doesn't feel pain like the beginning stages.
Day 16, follow up 2nd checkup. Doctor said, everything goes smoothly and added another medication to inject called Gonal-F to take home and start injecting on day 23. This message never surprises me because I've been told earlier, but just that the price to pay for this medication is quite costly.
Day 17 - Day 22, nothing much on these days and we just stick on the plan as usual.

IVF Journey Phase 2 “Stressful Night”
Day 23, Gonal F injections start today. This needle doesn't look same as those earlier, it comes with medication in it and look like a pen.
Day 24 - Day 26, side effects of the Gonal F medications started. My wife is feeling irritation at the injection site, fullness, bloating and tenderness in the lower abdomen due to the increasing size of the ovaries. Her mood changes dramatically as I can tell, but she endures it and tell me she can handle it.
Day 27, follow up 3rd checkup. Doctor said wife has eggs total of 12 and is ready for Transvaginal oocyte retrieval "Human language, Egg retrieval" at day 31.
Day 28 - Day 29, final injection of Gonal F. At day 29 night, I inject Ovidrel to wife belly to that causes the growth and release of a mature egg (ovulation) for day 31.
Day 30, resting whole day. Finally, we had a day without injection and worrying about holding any needles. Today we wondering about the egg growth, not knowing will the eggs grow more or still the same amount of 12.
Day 31, egg retrieval. 8 egg success retrieves and I give out my sperm for oocytes selection on the same day. Wife given cyclogest for oval protection after the egg retrieval.

IVF Journey Phase 3 “Hopeful Embryo Culture & Embryo Transfer”
Day 32 - Day 35, rest at home. We had pillow talk every night concerning about the growth of an embryo. We also look at sample growth stages of an embryo from the web to see what the current growth stage is.
Day 36, another hopeful and nervous morning. Doctor tells us the result of embryo culture as below;
Total Embryo Retrieve: 8
Embryo Qualified for ICSI: 6
Embryo Success until Cleavage Stage (Day 2 – Day 4): 3
Embryo Success until Blastocyst Stage (Day 5): 2
Embryo Qualified / Recommended for Transfer: 1
Both our eyes looked at each other, knowing only 1 Blastocyst Embryo available to transfer and doctor tell the same after it. I really do not know how to express both our feelings into words here, as we expected to have at least 2 Blastocyst out of 8 embryos and only left 1. We both agreed to proceed this only 1 Blastocyst transfer as this is the only choice we had. It's more likely walking on a 100ft tall string with no supports mission, a single error will fail the mission.
After the transfer process, wife given a room to rest for few hours. A nurse came and give us adjunctive medications, injections and advice while resting at room.

IVF Journey Phase 4 “The Final Moment of IVF”
Day 37 - Day 49, after the transfer. This period is known as 2WW (2 Weeks Wait) with adjunctive medications, injections and be very careful. I just let her sleep/rest more on the bed, I served her every meal in the room. We're also nervous and curious about pregnancy results on day 44, we tested with cheap pregnancy tester and get got a double line on it and we do have a little hope and joy with this result. On day 47, again we test, but this time with expensive pregnancy tester and the results double line again! We're so hopeful and happy at this moment. We really hope this result is true until the next checkup.
Day 50, final checkup. My wife goes for the hCG test by giving a sample of blood, we waited 2 hours for the results. While waiting, nurse guide us to a room to rest. Wife slept and I sat beside concerned on the hCG test results. 2 hours later, the doctor invited us to look for him. Before doctor speaks, while we are sitting down, my wife's eyes were starring in the hCG results number and she spotted the hCG number is 452. She smiles happily while doctor tells her "You are pregnant and congratulations! Come back after 2 weeks to scan for baby heartbeats. And please go out to the counter and ring the bell!”

Just Sharing My Thoughts
By all means, I’m not bragging about my success. I would like to say if anyone is planning on IVF, teamwork is very important and husband play a very important role to increase the success rate. Sometimes, I do feel like a spectator than a participant myself because I never experience any of the medical exams but this is not true. Every injection I put on her belly, I feel the pain in my heart as bad as she has on the belly. Ok, nothing much to share in this IVF journey and next time I might be sharing another journey as a Father! Here is my little baby girl Facebook page奥莉 Olivia Baby - 梁童心心 https://fb.me/oliviababylove if you wish to see her growth updates.

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