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SUNAT ANAK KETIKA BAYI, SUNNAH YANG DILUPAKAN

Orang arab panggil khitan, orang melayu pula sebut khatan atau sunat, orang-orang tua sebut 'masuk jawi'.

Ramai yang tak tahu, sunat meng'khatan'kan bayi pada hari ke-7.
...Continue ReadingCIRCUMSTANCES WHEN A BABY, A FORGOTTEN SUN

Arabs call khitan, Malays mention circumcision or circumcision, the old people say 'enter jawi'.

Many people don't know, circumcision will make baby circumcision on the 7. th day

Yes, apart from aqiqah, shaving hair, and giving name, circumcision also among the sunnah of his majesty SAW on the 7th day of birth.

Baby is suitable for circumcision as soon as birth to 4 months old. After that, it's quite difficult to be circumcised, because the baby is starting to lie down.

Sadly, many do not know or miss this sunnah circumcision. It's also a custom for the Malays to circumcise their son when they're late for children.

From Jabir bin ' Abdillah ra; that Rasulullah saw implemented Hasan and Husain's aqiqah and Husain and proceeded both on the sevent (HR; Thabrani and Baihaqi)

From Ibnu ' Abbas ra said,
′′ There are seven things that include the sunnah of the baby on the seventh day: Named, circumcised,...." (HR; Thabrani)

From Abu Ja ' far ra said,
′′ Fathimah carried out his son's aqiqah on the seventh day. He also shaved and shaved his hair as well as the silver as the weight of his hair." (HR; Ibn Abi Syaibah)

Alhamdulillah, Taqi & Zaki we circumcised their time 3 months.

We're a little late. But for some people they ask, why is it so early?

Among the reasons why many choose to miss the child's circumcision:
1. Don't know the circumcision between the sunnah of the 7th day and better be hastened.
2. Pity and worry, afraid that the baby is sick.
3. I haven't reached the heart to see the circumcision process and watch the baby cry
4. Want children to feel the experience of being circumcised.

Circumcision is sunnah. So it's a religious guide. Islam is not wrong, but Islam is rahmah's religion.

So, don't think about ' poor baby ', afraid that baby is sick and so on. Because Islam will not be wronged by its people. While in animals Islam teaches rahmah's nature, this is what happens to babies. So of course there's rahmah when we're circumcising our baby.

Among the advantages of circumcision as a baby:

1. Babies lack of pain, because baby skin is still soft. baby sleeps a lot. Just like us, if we sleep, all the pain will be gone.

2. Baby wounds heal fast, as early as 5-7 days.

3. Babies don't need to confinement. Even parents don't need to get tired of taking care of children's abst Because the food is only milk.

4. Babies are not blocked by the move. Because the baby's work is lying down and sleeping.

5. Babies won't be afraid. Because babies still have no fear. Different from children, they already know the meaning of fear.

6. Parents don't need to be tired of persuading their children so they agree to circumcise Because baby is ready to surrender to be circumcised.

7. Circumcised babies can avoid the disease. Some children who have not been circumcised will be affected by blind urine. So, finally the doctor recommended to be circumcised soon.

8. Parents are also not tired of taking care of babies after circumcision. Because the care is very easy.

Isn't this all proof of sunnah rahmah? Ease baby's affairs and ease parent s' affairs.

If mom or dad are afraid, maybe we can try not to watch the circumcision process. Let her baby nenda or uncle accompany her. Don't be because of our shortcomings, the sunnah has to be missed.

If the circumcision experience is sought,
Hmmm, there are many other experiences that the child can find. At least, you can record the circumcision process using your handphone. When you grow up, show back to the child.

It's here, the custom is changed to sunnah.
Don't be because according to our custom to leave sunnah.
Sunnah is more important.

You don't lose your child's circumcision
Actually, they will be very grateful because their parents chose to circumcise them early.

How many mothers regret that they didn't regret because they didn't circumcise their children when they were little.

If something has been missed, it's okay. Continue to find the right time to circumcise your children. InsyaAllah it will be eased

Khitan has two times, mandatory time and sunnah time. The mandatory time is when the age of baligh, and the sunnah time is before. Ibnu Hajar the best time to do the circumcision is on the seventh day after birth and does not slow down the circumcision so that the time is mandatory unless there is a certain excuse or cause. (Fathul Bari 10/342).

Let's follow the sunnah :)

Thank God, the process of Taqi & Zaki circumcision is all made easy. I'm not awake either, live like normal days. Day 3 of our circumcision has gone on holiday in Terengganu.. hehe..

We are circumcised with Dr. Khairuddin at Taqwa clinic, Ipoh. Dr Khairuddin is very experienced. Her work is very thorough and neat.

Cost of only RM140 including medicine. It's pretty cheap than most normal places. If it's in KL Selangor area, we survey the price of about RM250- 400. That's what we do in Ipoh, save money! Hehe..

Time to circumcise the baby, Dr. Khairuddin shows the 'palat' that is inside the penis Taqi & Zaki, the doctor also said,

′′ Look, even the baby's palat has many like this, imagine if the 12-year-old is not circumcised anymore. Many have been accumulated in there ".

This is a piece of our experience. We were not able to follow the sunnah for Taqi & Zaki circumcision on the 7th day due to health and various matters. So we can only follow the sunnah to hurry to circumcise them.

Islam is very beautiful. There must be a lot of wisdom behind the sunnah circumcision when a baby.

Our children also look more macho and handsome when they're married 😎

Good morning..

Nur Shazareen
Mama to 2 macho heroes & a heroin ayuTranslated

Simple but sincere. That's what we strive to achieve every year when it comes to making Teacher's Day gifts. Yup, we still believe in making them, not buying them, although we did get some Kit Kat to go with these bookmarks in the hope that the teachers can find time to take a break or pick a book up to read.

These bookmarks are a combination of the kids' efforts - the main quotes are done by the 9yo who is very much into handlettering nowadays, the drawings are done by the 6yo while the pasting of stickers is done by the 3yo who also wrote his own name on every card for his teachers. They are given the freedom to write any personalised message and add some decorations if desired. Does that mean I did nothing? Haha. Got lar, I helped to laminate and cut the bookmarks (got rounded edges somemore okay), guide the boy in writing the messages, cut the strings as well as teach the kids how to tie them on their own.

It warms my heart to hear how the teachers appreciated these simple gifts. One was shocked that all the words were handwritten on a blank piece of paper and said "I thought you printed it", one said "I always keep all the handmade stuff from you all" and another said "so nice of you to do this yourself". It's a reminder that gifts do not need to be costly or unique; they just need to be done from the heart with ❤.

So yup, we will continue doing these super easy but heartfelt DIY gifts to show our respect and appreciation for the teachers every year. Happy Teacher's Day to all the teachers (actually including parents because we are the first teachers to our kids) in the world, thank you so much for making a difference and helping to shape our little ones.

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