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Anak berusia 1.5 tahun ke 2.5 tahun akan mula memberontak, buang barang, merajuk dan protest. Jika anak anda berkelakuan demikian, bukan bermaksud dia sudah menjadi degil atau kurang ajar. Anak sekecil ini, tidak akan kurang ajar. Dia sedang belajar untuk ekspres diri dia disebabkan dia berasa letih atau kecewa akan sesuatu.

Oleh itu jalan untuk membantu dia menjadi tenang:...
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2.5-year-old child will start rebelling, throwing away, sulking and protesting. If your child is acting like that, it doesn't mean he / she's being stubborn or rude. This little kid, won't be rude. She's learning to express herself because she's feeling tired or disappointed in something.

Therefore the way to help him become calm:
1-Hold her as in this picture.
2-Whisper that you love him and understand his feelings.
3-Read the Quran verse and A ' uzubillah hi minasyaitan nir rajim, so that the devil does not take advantage of him and you.
4-Calm her with words of love and you need to calm down
5-NEVER GET ANGRY AND SCREAM OR HIT HIM UP TO DISCIPLINE HIM. This will only make him a coward or rebellious child.

* Recognize What Is Tantrum?

Tantrums mean to be outrageous. When ′′ Temper Tantrum ′′ is an outpouring of emotion that explodes so that there is no self-control. Temper Tantrums often appear in children aged 15 months-6 years. Tantrums usually occur in hyper-active children. Tantrum is also easier for children who are considered ′′ difficult ", with the following features:

1) Children don't sleep enough.
2) Irregular unclean removal process and process.
3) Awkward with a new situation or someone he doesn't know.
4) Slowly adapt to change.
5) Emotions are not peaceful (often negative).
6) Easy to get angry and easy to cry.
7) Hard to move his attention.

Tantrum is manifested in various behaviors. Here are some examples of Tantrum behavior, age-ranked:

Under 3 years old
· Crying
· Bite
· Hitting
· Kickin
· Screaming
· Scratching up
· Getting the body to the floor
· Hitting his hand
· Holding my breath
· Stomping the head
· Throwing stuff
· Rise
· Hugging her body

3-4 years old
· The behavior is above
· Stomping legs
· Screaming
· Punching
· slamming the door
· Criticizing
· whining

5 years old and above
· Those behaviors are above
· Scolding others @ his parents
· Swearing
· Hitting sister @ sister @ her friends
· Criticize yourself
· Breaking things on purpose
· Threatens
· complaining
· Trauma @ phobia of something that suppresses the child's emotions.

* FACTOR OF TANTRUM CAUSE

There are several factors that caused the Tantrum. Some of them are like the following:

1) Will @ Wanting for Children's Desire is Resisted
After unsuccessful asking for something that remains to his wish, then the child is easy to release his tantrum emotion that aims to urge his parents to fulfill his dream.

2) Child inability to express with words
Children under the age of 4 have language limitations. It's very difficult for them to translate their wishes in a form of language that we can understand. Therefore, the condition of those who still don't feel at ease has suppressed their emotions become disappointed and indirectly create frustration on themselves and delivered with tantrum attitude.

3) Limited Movement
Hyper-active children are common with free movements with no scouts or limitations. If parents try to control their movement or limit their behavior to be polite and complicated, then this will create stress on their own child. For children to release stress, then there is a tantrum. For example; child wants to drink glass, mother or nanny is not allowed and replace with plastic cup; child still insists on his desire, so there is an anger in him and for him to let him go he will be a tantrum so that his will
Allowed.

4) Parent s' care
a. Too pampered when all wishes are filled and suddenly there's another desire not to follow.
b. Inconsistent care - not explaining which is good and which is bad (no explanation given). When the child makes mistakes and suddenly we rebuke and punish, then this is the complication that comes up with the form of tantrums.
c. Parents argue with opinions which are good @ bad for children.

5) Children feel tired, hungry or sick.

6) The child is stressed
Whether the child is tired of the burden of school assignment, etc. or not to feel insecure.

7) Trauma @ Phobia
Child being tortured or seen something scary or raped since childhood. The trauma that hits him makes his emotions uncertain. Children expect safe protection. When that happens, he assumed that parents didn't give love or peace that was expected. Then he will tantrums to release the pressure that strikes his emotions. This tantrum takes time to recover and will be carried away until he grows up.

Hopefully it will be useful for us to handle the tantrums that may happen to our children. I've learned a lot from this article. Sharing is caring.
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1. 😀 Jangan bandingkan hidup kita dengan orang lain. Kita mungkin tidak tahu bagaimana perjalanan susah senang kehidupan mereka. Dulunya berbasikal, bermotor, berkereta buruk sekarang berkereta Mewah.

2.😀 Jangan berfikiran negatif terhadap benda yang kita tidak boleh kawal. Sebaliknya, tumpukan pada apa yg kita ada. Tenaga, masa dan wang kita, fokus terhadap benda positif yang mampu kita buat pada masa ini.

3. 😀 Tidak berlebihan melakukan apa yang anda tidak mampu buat. Cukuplah setakat yang anda mampu. Jangan terlalu obses.

4. 😀 Jangan terlalu beremosi terhadap diri sendiri, jika ada yang perli, herdik, tengking,****senyum kan saja..

5.😀 Jangan bazirkan tenaga dan masa terhadap gosip politik dan gosip liar yang keterlaluan.

6.😀 Berfikir dengan tenang dan positif terhadap masalah dan musibah yg menimpa.

7.😀 Iri hati adalah sia-sia. Harta org bukan rezeki dan hak kita.

8.😀 Jangan ungkit kesilapan pada masa lampau. Lupakan! Ianya akan menghancurkan kegembiraan kita di masa depan..

9. 😀 Hidup ini terlalu singkat untuk membenci sesiapa. Sebarkan kasih sayang..

10. 😀 Berdamailah dengan diri dan bersyukur dgn apa yg ALLAH telah kurniakan..

11. 😀 Tiada siapa yang boleh menggembirakan kita selain dari diri kita sendiri..

12. 😀 Ketahuilah bahawa hidup ini ialah seperti sekolah dan kita harus terus belajar. Jangan mudah putus asa dengan masalah.

*UTAMAKAN maksud ayat ini*

أَلَا بِذِكْرِ اللَّهِ تَطْمَئِنُّ الْقُلُوبُ
“Hanya dengan mengingatku (Allah) hati akan menjadi tenang”. (QS. Ar-Ro’d : 28)

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1. 😀 Don't compare our lives to others. We may not know how hard journey is their life. Used to be cycling, motorbike, car bad now Luxury car.

2. 😀 Don't think negatively about things we can't control. Instead, focus on what we have. Our energy, time and money, focus on the positive things we can do at the moment.

3. 😀 Not too much doing what you can't do. Enough as far as you can. Don't be too obsessed.

4. 😀 Don't be too emotional to yourself, if there is something that is teasing, mind, just smile..

5. 😀 Don't waste energy and time on outrageous political gossip and wild gossip.

6. 😀 Think calmly and positively about the problems and misfortune that happened.

7. 😀 Jealousy is useless. People's wealth is not our sustenance and our rights.

8. 😀 Don't mention past mistakes. Forget it! It will destroy our future joy..

9. 😀 Life is too short to hate anyone. Spread the love..

10. 😀 Be at peace with yourself and be grateful for what GOD has given..

11. 😀 No one can make us happy other than ourselves..

12. 😀 Know that life is like a school and we must keep learning. Don't give up easily with problems.

* PRIORITIZE the meaning of this verse *

Only in the remembrance of Allah, hearts are reassured
′′ Only by remembering me (Allah) the heart will become calm ". (QS. Ar-Ro'd: 28)

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Since your spirit has been resurrected to enjoy eternal life with God, you cannot lose your salvation and you can never face judicial condemnation for your sins which were borne and punished in Jesus’ body at the cross.

“What does this mean? I’m free to do anything I want and I can never be condemned to Hell?”

Yes it is true. God held nothing back in saving you—you have been perfectly cleansed by Jesus’ blood, made righteous forever.

““All things are lawful for me,” but not all things are profitable. “All things are lawful for me,” but not all things build up.” ‭‭(1 Corinthians‬ ‭10:23‬ ‭WEB‬‬)

God doesn’t retain any part of your salvation as a leash to control you by fear of condemnation.
No, that would be manipulation, not true love.
True love gives unconditionally, even when there is a chance of no reciprocation.

“Then what is stopping me from going out there and sinning crazily if I can do whatever I want?”

Firstly, out of gratefulness to Jesus, we who have a revelation of how severe sin is such that God’s Son had to bleed and die for us, will not desire to go back to what He has saved us from.

“For the wages of sin is death, but the free gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord.” ‭‭(Romans‬ ‭6:23‬ ‭WEB‬‬)

It’s when you view sin lightly that the problem happens. Even though you will never go to Hell once you’re in Christ, there are still earthly consequences of sin that can affect your un-regenerated body and soul (mind, will and emotions).

Sin still bears fruit to death in your mortal body and sabotages the inward peace that you enjoy from walking by the Holy Spirit.

“But each one is tempted when he is drawn away by his own lust, and enticed. Then the lust, when it has conceived, bears sin; and the sin, when it is full grown, produces death.” ‭‭(James‬ ‭1:14-15‬ ‭WEB‬‬)

You won’t be happy or healthy if you keep deliberately sinning. You’ll live a defeated Christian life as a slave of sin and wonder how you got to such a tragic state.

Yes you’re free to choose to sin, but it still has earthly consequences that you can’t avoid.

“The serpent said to the woman, “You won’t surely die, for God knows that in the day you eat it, your eyes will be opened, and you will be like God, knowing good and evil.”” ‭‭(Genesis‬ ‭3:4-5‬ ‭WEB‬‬)

The devil’s tactics haven’t changed. Like how he tempted Eve in the Garden of Eden, he still tries to make you doubt God’s word.
He even makes it sound like God is stingy, trying to restrain your joy, hold back good things from you and that sinning is actually good for you.

How many people have a pet sin whereby they justify inwardly, “I am allowed to have this one small vice. It hurts nobody and it’s nowhere nearly as bad as those crazy murderers out there.”

When you fall to the lie that sin is trivial with no negative consequences, that’s when you get bound in it.
Why are you comparing your sin with the sins of others?
Sin is sin and any sin still destroys and is a breeding ground for death.
The devil will use that small sin that you allow and nurture the seeds of death sown from it.

The more you allow it and justify it, the worse its appetite grows. The small way of practicing that sin no longer satisfies your flesh and it craves for more!
When it gets so bad, you’ll find yourself feeding all other parts of your life just to appease the vicious monster that you’ve bred in your own home.

“She caught him by his garment, saying, “Lie with me!” He left his garment in her hand, and ran outside.” ‭‭(Genesis‬ ‭39:12‬ ‭WEB‬‬)

It’s easy to say no and resist it before the seeds of death have taken root.
Be wise like Joseph and run away from the tempting situation, giving no chance for the devil or your flesh to persuade you.

“With persuasive words, she led him astray. With the flattering of her lips, she seduced him.” ‭‭(Proverbs‬ ‭7:21‬ ‭WEB‬‬)

The longer you stick around like Eve or the gullible young man in the verse above to hear the devil’s presentation of “Why It Is Okay and Good To Sin”, the surer you will fall prey to it.

Don’t hang around—run for your life! Your happiness is found in walking by the Holy Spirit, not in indulging in the flesh’s sinful desires.

Follow the Holy Spirit and He will lead you to the abundant life in Christ whereby you prosper in all things, enjoy good health, even as your soul prospers from receiving God’s word!

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