關於 parents helping parents near me ，我們在網路上蒐集到這些相關的討論、資訊與評價

Jika ada sesiapa di antara kita atau ahli keluarga kita yang ditakdirkan nanti ditahan di wad hospital..Sebelum keluar dr hospital bacalah ayat matsurath atau ayat qursi lalu kita hembus kiri, kanan, dpn & blkg sblm pulang ke rumah. Amalkanlah. Kita tak tahu apa yg mengikut kita pulang. Yg mnjadi mangsa ialah anak2 kita
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“Bila Aku Masuk Ke Dalam Wad, Tengok Kat Atas Siling, Banyaknya Makhluk Merayap!" April 19, 2017
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Continue ReadingIf anyone of us or our family member is destined to be arrested in the hospital ward.. Before leaving the hospital read the sentence of matsurath or qursi sentence then we will blow left, right, front and back before going home. Practice it. We don't know what follows us home. The victim is our children
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′′ When I Get In The Ward, Look At The Ceiling, Many Creatures Creep!" April 19, 2017
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I want to share my experience while I'm in the hospital. This is from the glasses of a person with a close eye.
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When I enter the hospital ward, my sepet eyes will surely look around the top and bottom because of too many creatures that cannot be seen with rough eyes. I'm not meant to scare anyone, but that's the experience of a sepet eye
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CASE ONE * 1 ⃣
I walked into the ward of 3th grade of Big Hospital ***** ******. When I looked at the ceiling, so many creatures creep. There is a round eye, long eye, long eye, long ear, there is a horny face. They seem to wait for the moment to jump down.
At the end, I saw a man walk holding his own head. Blood shredded out of his neck. Nurses and doctors as usual do their responsibilities.
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I'm the only one who sometimes sees under the patient's bed, the dead body is sleeping underneath it. A child pulls his mother's hand as his finger points to the board under the bed. The mother's mad at her child.
Next time mothers who have children like this, believe me they can see what others can't see with rough eyes.
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CASE TWO * 2 ⃣
I see so many people coming to visit their sick family members during visiting time. A woman looks like her way so slow. On top of it there is a monkey on the ground and his eyes are reddish. When I told my wife, she kept silent. I keep reading the Quran verse and then I blow into the creature.
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The creature fell down and the woman was swollen before being held by her family who thought she would be dead or unwell. The creature woke up and his face looks so angry. He knows who the owner is that caused him to fall. Her eyes look right towards me.
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I read the qursi verse and exhale once again, it disappears.
′′ Laa, why did you blow it?
In a while the ward will be noisy,"
Greet the wife when I tell her back. It's true, I'm just speechless. That's my attitude to see anyone carrying a supernatural that he doesn't know. I'll make it from afar and sometimes I'm being attacked when I fall asleep.
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CASE THREE * 3 ⃣
While I saw a crowd surround a man, apparently he is on the verge of death.
Kids are busy with handphones, call here. Might be telling relatives about their father's news.
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The busiest thing is the creature with long ears, long horns disturbing the man. At this moment we should whisper Laaila Haillallah's sentence to her. We teach him that sentence.
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Not what we see and say to dad," Dad, say dad. Saying..." while sobbing. If we love them, we help them now.
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Caring for mobile phone, whisper in his ear Laaila haillallah. At that moment his eyes just look up. He was disturbed actually.
If we love dads and moms when they are almost around it doesn't matter if boys or girls teach your parents. That's our love for them. Don't just look and cry.
Sometimes if I visit, I will advise and teach children about this word. Let them end it with a good finish.
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CASE FOUR * 4 ⃣
Once I went to the morgue to ask for a mother's death letter. I see some creatures standing near the coffin. I'm just not sure if the fridge belongs to them. They dress as usual as we see in humans. There are also ugly faces, but the face is broken, the tongue is wiped out. Quickly I found the mailing out and went straight to his office.
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Case FIVE * 5 ⃣
I went to the heart ward while visiting my mother in law. A nurse is so diligent in helping the patient.
But without him realizing he was following something. Long hairstyles walk behind her.
Where ever the nurse went she'll follow. His eyes just look down. Sometimes her hair will get stuck on the nurse's shoulder and I see the nurse swollen as if she's itchy. I can only see without doing anything to the nurse. It's normal when working in the hospital. That's why it's best for us to practice the verse of Al Matsur
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Before going out of the hospital we read the matsurat sentence or qursi sentence then we blow left, right, front and back before going home. Practice it.
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We don't know what follows us home. The victim is our children.
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Credit: Ariff Budiman Zainal Abidin.Translated

JANGAN IZINKAN IBU LAHIRKAN TUANNYA

Masa awal aku kahwin dengan isteri aku, aku dapat pakej 4 orang anak. Alhamdulillah. Yang mana 2 daripada 4 ni istimewa sikit. Dua-dua aspergers. Sorang ADD sorang lagi ADHD. Paling mencabar sekali tau tak apa? Anak-anak ni sebelum kehadiran aku, diorang ni di manjakan betul. Cukup manja! Semua nak, dapat. Tak boleh kena tegur, mesti menaangis dan membentak. 3 lelaki, sorang perempuan. Masa tu umur yang sulung 14 tahun. Yang second 12 tahun...
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When I married my wife, I got a package of 4 children. Thank God. Which 2 of the 4 is a little special. Both aspergers. Another ADD another ADHD. It's most challenging to know it's okay? These kids before my presence, they are being pampered right. Pretty spoiled! All want, got it. Can't be told, must cry and snap. 3 men, a woman. At that time the eldest was 14 years old. The second 12 years old. Third 9 years old. Fourth of 6 years old girl.

First time entering the family, I've had a meeting done. With gangster style, long hair braids. I'm doing a LIVE FB meeting with children. In the meeting, I just entered the family, so follow my rules. I don't follow their rules.

At the beginning, many people who are nearest have started tripping and spreading stories, not saying that I will hit the kids. The swing bowl is right who reads people from this person's use.

Remember the early marriage, my wife always reminds me of me. If these kids promise anything they need to be fulfilled, they will cry badly and scream. Hard to persuade. Sometimes I want to break my breath and cry. The other one is ADHD if he cries, he can't be angry, he has to say it carefully. Because later he will be raging and coming hyper. The one who added is his own attitude. It's just his problem that he doesn't take the port. The eldest is the most pamper. Ask for whatever the confirmation gets. After that it's urgent to work.

I really don't feel like I'm suitable at all. What should I do? Wash his mother first. My wife cried when she washed her first. I said it's simple. I don't want my son to grow up to die and get everything he wants to wear. Nothing, tomorrow won't be given, he rebel like going crazy.

Everything that my wife says can't do, I prove it to my wife, everything that she thinks is wrong. I made it. I didn't see anyone doing what my wife said. I just tried to bring MCD, then I parked at the Tomyam shop. Look at all the faces that are slammed. But no one is crying.

That's where it all started. Until one part I saw my wife still wrongly. I said it's simple.

′′ Want something big, need a big sacrifice. If you maintain like this, it's too wrong that you have to follow all your child's wishes, you're afraid to say NO and then you're crying and tired of your brother Trust me. Just like this, you'll lose your brother. Choose. ′′ ′′

Hah my wife was shaking at that time.

Yes, it's not easy to fight the mother's instinct. I really understand. But have to remember, you want to be sad until when you just want to entertain the extreme motherhood instincts? How do you want your child to grow up? What's he doing today, he's already big tomorrow. You're poor, he asks for something you can't fulfill. You think he got it? That's the wrong time he just said this sentence.

′′ Why is my mom not like someone else's mom. It's okay. I am not important ′′

Heart was shaking at that time. He didn't tell me 100 times, once didn't let him release such a painful sentence?

I'm nothing, kids like this even more men, have to grow up to be men. Not a bapok, not a Kpop. Man. The world will come far more evil. Responsibility is far bigger. It is compulsory to grow up to be a man. I repeat.

MEN.

That's when my wife slowly became a mad mother. Kah kah kah. The kids were shocked at that time. Suddenly mom is good at screaming? Suddenly mom is good at tunjal head? Suddenly mom is good at slapping? Suddenly mom dares to throw her phone against the wall?

Most power if a child I say near her mother,

′′ Mom doesn't love me, I hate mom.."

If my wife used to hear this verse, she will feel sinful and crying. Now you know what my wife answer?

′′ Once you hate me, 100 times I hate you.."

Stunned again child. Feels like the tactical of playing sentiment is not going to be. Continue to continue doing homework.

After that the scene of running away from the middle of the night, haa my wife is already cuak. Look for me to tell my child to run home. Cleaning up the bag. If you're as a mother, are you rocking? 10-year-olds when they were running home. Other siblings are busy trying not to run away, they insist on running.

I told my wife I'm happy je.

′′ Do not persuade. Just ask him to run the house faster. Go help her pack the bag. Do not worry. I used to threaten my mother like this when I was small. When my mother is stupid, I stay outside for a while and then I will go home because it's scary outside the dark.. if you persuade, don't run away, believe Tomorrow he's busy threatening to run again."

My wife went down and asked her to leave her house faster. This kid won't go out after opening the door. Look at the dark outside. He immediately opened the saji headscarf, making him hungry. It's so hard to look at it.

Want to turn into a Lion, it looks evil. Many will talk about this. You say you don't love your children. If this part is not strong, it will be stupid to be eaten by these words. But you have to believe one thing. This mother and father knows her child better than all of you. He knows so much. Know which limit he can make or not. We who watch from outside don't pretend to teach other people's children, teach our own children first to let go. Look at our children today he appreciate us how.

I was worst being criticized at that time.

He said since my wife married me, my wife's attitude has changed. Getting harder. Fierce with the kids. And many more lah. I'm lazy to take a port. The one who speaks is a woman who has never tasted anything. Work is great. So bored listening to it. But I'm cooking so much, it's normal that the sound of this person's confirmation since childhood has never lived hard, the child and the one that is like diva is usually the same. Just deaf the ear. Focus on the mission for the good of the child to come.

After 3 years, I recently had a meeting with all my children. I ask, did you notice that mom used to be different from now?

All bobbing. Getting more ferocious and crazy people say.

I'm so happy to hear. Let go of that I said.

′′ Try all of you to look back at this day. What's the difference? Neno 8 years old can be brushed by school clothes. Already able to wipe Ayra out. Luth 10 years can wash everyone's dishes. Hoze is the most improvement. From my own world today, you are the most helping to work in your house. 13 years old, washing clothes, hanging clothes, sleeping ayraa, bathing ayraa. And many more. Anish, you are the eldest brother. Thank God. No more pushy. See you already understand the reality of being a brother. Every morning sitting in the kitchen helping mom cook.. that's okay. Proud for a while Dedi. Dedi is nothing, you ask Dedi's siblings if they are rude to his mother, what happens to them. Must eat Dedi's feet. You become a son, you have to be a protector to your mother. Don't make it a slave mother."

All sighs. I'm connecting again.

′′ Do you know why this Seremban house Dedi doesn't install air conditioner near Indeed Dedi doesn't let mom install air conditioner. Let me sleep hot. Learning how to use a fan. Dedi used to grow up but never sleeps in air conditioner, thank God I grew up healthy. Dedi wants anything can't just get like that. So men have to learn how to feel hard. So that tomorrow, you will learn to be grateful. I will remember your parents when they are happy. You'll be close to siblings, tomorrow this is what you'll laugh back when you tell the story. Trust me. All of these are the sweetest memories. Mother and father don't know when will die. Maybe tomorrow we die, at least Anish can take care of the younger siblings."

Everyone was laughing at that time. My eldest child will interrupt in a while.

′′ Dedi, but honestly Anish likes the current mother from mother before. Even though it's fierce, but it's true when I remember it again. All of us are good at all. I just noticed that someone else is 8 years old but doesn't even know how to take care of the baby who is a year old and shower and defecate. Luth has changed a lot. No more crying. Hardworking. Hoze has changed a lot of crazy. Playing with the phone. There's only one problem, when you have a relative, you can come, don't sit in the Just sit down once. Anyway, I swear, Anish loves the mother who was now from the old times. Even though the current mother is crazy saiko! Haha. Mom, you are Queen Of My Heart! Mother is crazy, before Anish didn't understand a lot. When Anish sees mom struggle, Anish becomes a pity. Just saw all the sacrifices of the mother for all of us."

Others bobbing heads agree and laugh with what brother anish he said.

All impressed when I remember back. Until neno's turn, she keeps crying. She really apologizes near her mom.

The most powerful, they are siblings when their aunt wants to ask them to come out. Each one has completed the job of who managed his / her sister's clothes this year, who will beat his / her younger sibling's pampers, who will manage his / her sister's pampers. All of them think for themselves. Talk to each other and manage the equipment of his little brother who is a year old. No need to have a mother with her dedi.

Power, isn't it? Two Aspergers, an ordinary person. The eldest has entered MRSM. It means that the number two child of ADD is taking over.

Even when I'm going back to hometown, my wife just gave me an order. They all clean up their own bags. My wife doesn't even mix a single dust. My wife looks like a big boss today. All homeworks are managed by the child. My wife's duty is to cook. Wash clothes, dry clothes, wash dishes, wash toilets, throw away garbage, shower ayra for a year, all the kids who manage it.

If I don't move, I won't let my wife shout out to other children. But mad at the eldest child. Let the eldest child be stressed. Whatever happened to the younger siblings, I told her mother to kill her eldest child. So when the younger siblings aren't working, fighting, the eldest brother already knows that he needs to be tiaw with his mother later. Didn't say much, he just settled his younger siblings. That's it brother!

Thank God. The story is only one. Our children, we know each other. There's a part of being fierce, there's a part that needs to be There's a part that can laugh. This mother has one veto power, but many are afraid to use it because she is not in other s' language and is so afraid that her child will hate It doesn't mean anything! It's boring to entertain the sentiment of pity that is extreme. You used to be your mother who hit your face, do you hate your mother to big? Nothing. We're fierce because we just want to educate. Not fierce all the time. More than firm. When you see your child hardworking, listen to it, there's a day that will give you a surprise Chocolate or what? Taking a walk to the park. Time with family has to be there.

If you're too spoiled, you can make your child become responsible and the person who will defend your family, I think that the Malay soldiers won't even be training hard as hard as possible. It's better for them to just pray for all the new soldiers. What do you want, everything is given. Wake up late, swipe your hair and then kiss your forehead. Even eating time is delicious. Sleeping at night comfortably, installing air conditioner. Put on the wifi.

What was it?

Before you want to say this person, ask ourselves first. Our 7-year-old child eats, is he good at washing his own dishes? Do you know how to follow your time schedule? Can you brush your own school clothes?

If you're not good at anything, don't make me feel bad about the way other father's mother educate someone's child.

The hardest episode in educating children at this age. Believe me, this will all be a longing for the kids when they leave the house later. And this also makes them siblings get closer.

Patience, victory day is coming! Early sacrifice is the most important. Fight all the wrong feelings that always play in the soul. Only one thing you have to remember, as long as you don't fight with religion. Mom is never wrong! Angry, fierce lah. Do not worry. Continue to educate our ways. Don't forget the power of Veto!

Eh forgot, waimah is a special child. What the doctor said put number two. Accompanying kids like normal kids before but there's a limit. Don't teach him to be a special child since you were young. We know our children again, right? Because I always believe, crazy people when we clap their hands twice when they want to take our food, the third time they will understand and won't take it anymore. That's the crazy person. So, Don't let the child know he's special. Don't disturb her brain. Just entertaining the same thing.

Everyone is like that. If he feels like there are advantages, there is someone who defends more, he will start to get a chance. Can't believe it? You try to pamper your child crazy. Let go of the try in front of you, someone tease him less, you see how he has torn to tears later he will get your attention.

Anyway..

Only one thing I'm still failing. Failed to change their name call among siblings. No call Along, Angah, Bangde. I feel strongly, calling this name also has a certain advantage to put the difference between the younger brother and brother. There is a family aura.

Don't forget, Father's role in psychology is important to be crazy. Because with this mother, no matter how fierce it is, the child is brave to fight. Dad must be good at playing roles. No need to touch, you need to know when you want to have a high voice. When you want to call your child, sit down and talk about others.

Become a child idol.

Trust me, step child and biological child two things that are impossible. Because the power of VETO only exists in biological children. This step child has a risk that you need to face. What happened to them, people will say that you don't love them because it's not your biological child. Painful and sad that sentence is for me. Allah knows how I love them.

I wrote it,
Mr Amir Lake

P / s: In the past my wife was criticized by the Aspie group when my wife said she educated her aspie's child in the way she was a little firm. All sorts of people are teasing, he said that this aspie child will take revenge and kill him. Have to be teased every day. Poor. My wife doesn't agree with my actions early because she holds the doctor's order. Today, I'm asking my child aspie. Tomorrow if mom gets disturbed by someone else in front of you what will you do? What did he answer? I'll hit him enough! And I asked my wife, how about the person who teased her child? He said his child is under control but sometimes he's raging badly until he's about to breath. At the same time today my child aspie is good at cooking, can do all homework and love his siblings so much.

Mr. Amir Lake creditTranslated

【小兒關煞：落井關】（English writing below)
CHILD'S MISHAP OF FALLING INTO WELLS

「李小姐，命理師說我孩子有落井關，我該怎麼辦？」

最近有位婦女私訊問我，問了我以上的問題。

看孩子八字，尤其是三歲以下的幼兒，必須得熟知小兒關煞。若孩子八字中有小兒關煞，從小孩出生到大運前，父母都得格外小心。有時候，一些小孩比較難帶難養，是因為他們八字有小兒關煞。但如果為人父母不知道，就不懂有辦法化解關煞，在育兒的歲月中，便會增添了很多壓力和負面情緒。

當你了解你孩子的八字之後，對於他的需求和行為，你會多了份了解、包容和關愛，而不會認為你的孩子就是多災多難，比別人家的麻煩。你也不會因為不懂孩子的命，而覺得自己或伴侶不是個好家長，很倒霉，而因此常自責或夫妻之間有摩擦。

小兒關煞一共有三十六關，一般人會曉得白虎關、夜啼關和鬼門關等。我個人對落井關印象特別深。剛學八字時，我借了一些好朋友的八字邊算邊對照她們的遭遇。

有一位好友，八字正好就犯了落井關。小時候，她父母並沒有為她看過命，自然不知道她有此難。她是媽媽的第一胎，母親生性比較避忌，從小就不讓她接近海邊、游泳池，沒得學游泳，更沒讓她學踏腳踏車、去遠足或參加學校露營。母親一直擔憂孩子會遇到不測，而喪失生命。

大約她十一二歲左右，有一晚，她與父母外出回家時，走在一條熟悉不過的路上。不知怎麼的，她錯踏了一步，本來應該要跨過那深深的溝渠，她卻兩隻腳都陷了進去。幸好她反應快，雙手按在草地上，才沒整過人跌進去。那溝渠不是很寬，卻有點深度。除了手掌手腕都擦傷以外，她兩條大腿因為摩過溝渠的石牆，有十多條長長短短，如線條般的血痕。她爸爸把她扶起來時，她痛得慘叫連連。

最不可思議的是，同個意外在同個地點同個時間段，竟然發生在她身上兩次。第二次，她比較幸運。 穿著牛仔褲，因此只有一半的傷。可她卻從那時起，就不再走那條捷徑回家。

落井關，一般指的是水厄。看到孩子八字有此關，命理師都會勸父母，勿讓孩子接近井边、河边、水边等，要多加小心。但沒想到，我的好友卻是兩次跌進同一個有泥水的溝渠，只是在不同段。我研究了她的八字後，領悟到看八字不能夠背死書似的看。一樣的關煞，放在不一樣的八字，會以不一樣的方式顯化。這些都需要經驗的累積，自然就更有能力幫客人趨吉避凶。

大約五年前，師父有位客人生了孩子，急需嬰兒名字，卻沒更早約師父，碰巧師父的行程排得很滿。因此，師父派我去為他客人解析嬰兒的名字。我就一五一十把師父交代我的話，說給他客人聽，尤其是一些他需要注意的孩子行為。

怎知，說完後，客人一臉愁容，問我：「難道我孩子的八字沒有半點好嗎？」

我微笑著說：「當然有！只是一個良名本來就是要補缺一個八字的不足，所以我得先告訴您孩子八字裡的不圓滿，進而再解釋師父為您孩子取的名用意何在。如果你想要了解孩子八字的強項和未來，您可以請師父為他批八字。」

現在想想，不知客人會不會誤會我故意講這些警惕的話，是要引他來找師父批孩子的八字，賺他的紅包錢。😄

我回覆那位女讀者時，我鼓勵她向之前的命理師詢問。嚴格來說，要算準這落井關會何時顯現，在怎樣的地點，怎樣的情況，和什麽人在一起時，孩子會容易落井，會發生幾次落井，幾歲過後就不必擔心，父母除了小心以外，還可以怎麼做等等等，這些都得批八字。如果我隨意回答，也不夠專業，畢竟雖然我好友的腿上完全沒有之前落井的疤痕，但不是每個孩子都那麽幸運，嚴重的話，無論會不會游泳，還是會賠上一條命的。

奉勸各位鄉親父老，在生孩子前，多祈福、懺悔、修善，才能生出一個來報恩的孩子，而不是來討債的。如果在育兒過程中，遇到很多問題，如孩子頻頻生病、不肯讀書、禮貌不佳、叛逆不羁、親子關係惡化，我建議為孩子批八字及整頓他房間的風水。童年只有一次， 不要錯夠改命的黃金時段，改一句古人的話：賜子千金，不如教子一藝；教子一藝，不如為子改運

祝天下父母都能夠無憂無慮地扶養國家未來的棟樑。加油，爸爸媽媽們！

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"Ms Lee, a Master said my child would have the mishap of falling into wells. What should I do?

A lady reader recently PM me this question.

When analysing children's Bazi, especially for those below 3 years old, a Chinese Metaphysics practitioner must be well-versed in the Barriers and Disasters of Young Children. If the child's Bazi has such codes, the parents have to be extra vigilant from his birth time till he enters into his first luck pillar. Sometimes, it is extra tough work to raise certain children, because their Bazi have the codes of Barriers and Disasters of Young Children. However, if the parents are clueless about this, naturally they would not have the solutions to resolve it and thus, face a lot of stress and negative emotions in parenting.

When you understand your child's Bazi, his requirements and behaviour will start to make more sense to you. Instead of thinking that you gave birth to a live disaster who is more troublesome than other kids, it becomes easier for you to show more understanding, forbearance, love and care. At the same time, you will stop feeling unlucky and quit the self-blame + spouse-blame of being bad parents. This will greatly reduce conflicts between you and your spouse.

In the Barriers and Disasters of Young Children, there are altogether 36 of them. Most people would know of the White Tiger Barrier, the Night Crying Barrier and Gate of Ghosts Barrier etc. For me, I have an especially deep impression of Falling Into Wells Barrier.

During my early days in learning Bazi, I borrowed Bazi details of my good friends to hone my skills and learn more in-depth.

Coincidentally, one particular good friend has this Falling Into Wells Barrier in her Bazi. As a kid, her parents had never gotten her Bazi read, and hence, did not know that she would face this mishap. She was her mum's first-born and her mother considered many things taboo. During her childhood, my good friend was never allowed near seas, swimming pools and of course, never got to learn swimming. Neither was she allowed to learn cycling, go hiking or participate in school camps. Her mother worried that freak accidents would happen to her, taking away her life.

When she was about 11 or 12 years old, one night, while returning home with her parents, she walked on the very familiar route home. Somehow, she missed a step, and instead of crossing over a deep drain, her legs ended up plunging straight down into the drain. Luckily, she reacted swiftly and pressed her palms on the grass field, avoiding a full fall into the drain. It was not a wide drain, but it was relatively deep. Apart from abrasions on her palms and wrists, she also skinned her thighs against the drain walls, and there were over 10 long and short bloody string-like injuries on her thighs. She was crying in pain as her father pulled her up from the drain.

What was most unbelievable is that the same accident happened to her twice at the same place and same timing. During her second fall, she was luckier as she worn jeans and only suffered half the injuries as before. But since then, she never took that short cut home.

The Falling Into Wells Barrier generally refers to water mishaps. If a child's Bazi has this Barrier, the Master would advise the parents to be extra careful and not let the child near wells, rivers, and water bodies etc. It was unexpected that my good friend ended up tumbling into a drain that had muddy water twice, at different ends.

After studying her Bazi, I had the realisation that we should never analyse a Bazi just by rote learning. The same Barrier & Disaster code, when occured in a different Bazi, can manifest differently for different people. All these require accumulation of practical experience and the practitioner would be better in helping the client to avert disasters and pursue good fortune.

About 5 years ago, a client of Shifu just had a newborn and urgently needed a name for the baby. However he did not make an appointment with Shifu earlier and Shifu's schedule was full. So I was sent by Shifu to explain the chosen names to the client. I reiterated what Shifu told me to his client, especially behavioural issues of the child, which the client must take note of.

Just as I finished my explanation, the client asked me with a sad look on his face, "Isn't there anything good in my child's Bazi?"

I smiled, "Of course there are. But an auspicious name is meant to make up for the inadequacies in the child's Bazi. So I need to tell you what the inadequacies are and how Shifu's selection of name will help you. And as you pay extra attention to these areas in your parenting, your child will grow up to manage his emotions better and have a stronger character. If you wish to understand what his good areas are, you can seek Shifu to analyse your child's Bazi."

There are naturally good and bad in a person's Destiny. In my humble opinion, while good things will happen as a matter of fact, we need to pay more attention to the ways to averting or resolving the bad.

Now as I recall the incident, I wonder if the client misunderstood me for telling me those "bad things" as promoting Shifu's Bazi service. 😄

In my reply to the lady reader, I encourged her to clarify with her Master. Stritcly speaking, to predict accurately when this Falling Into Wells Barrier will occur,
its location,
the conditions,
with whom,
how many times the child will fall into the well,
from what age onwards the child will be safe,
apart from being vigilant, what else the parents can do...etc

All these require an analysis of the child's Bazi.

If I answer casually, I am not being professional. After all, while my good friend is really fortunate not to bear any scars on her thighs from the deep fall, not every child gets away lightly. In the most serious cases, whether they know how to swim or not, some children pay for it with their lives,

My advice for all my beloved readers, if you wish to give birth to a child who is here to repay you instead of a karmic creditor, pray for more blessings, do your repentance practice and cultivate more virtuous deeds. While during your parenting journey, should you hit a lot of obstacles, like children who frequently fall sick, refuse to study, have bad manners, are rebellious and your relationship with your children is hitting rock bottom, my suggestion is get their Bazi analysed and organise their bedroom Feng Shui.

A fruitful childhood only has one chance of happening. Miss it and it will be gone. Adapting an ancient adage: Instead of giving your son a thousand taels of gold, it is better to teach him a skill. Instead of teaching him a skill, it is better to help him improve his luck in life.

May all parents be able to raise the future of our nation, with no worry and sadness. Gambate!!!

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Much snow fell in stricken area Miyagi Prefecture in March, 2012.
I came to be able to do the life near origin by the favor of the people who supported.
I am taking a photograph for not forget having occurred at this place
I had a sad occurrence which cannot be forgotten.
1 year since then
Tsunami has approached the car on which the cat was put with me.
Next day,Road along which passed yesterday was lost.
The cherry tree was bloom in rubble.
We considered what is made.
The animals which suffered a great deal of damage are deposited with foster parents.
Cookie went to meet two animals which are present in Ishikawa Prefecture.
They was barking in good health wholly.
The name of this dog is Taro.
He has taken refuge from Fukushima Minamisoma.
It was very thin when he was found.
he is very friendry dog.

The name of this dog is Yamato.
He has taken refuge from Fukushima Iidate.
his body's spot was origin.
He is fine until now from the time at which it was found.
With the owner, she is staying in touch frequently.
We went to Mrs. Ikeda of the Ishikawa dog rescue who saved Taro and Yamato to cover.
Disaster dogs are waiting for the foster parent in this institution.
The Ishikawa dog rescue was established by housewives.
They have looked after the dog for people who take refuge.
Many disaster dogs were saved by work of volunteers.
We spoke also with Dr. Miyano, the brute animal's doctor who cooperates with the Ishikawa dog rescue and is working.
Dr. Miyano was apprehensive about a wild dog increasing.
Originally Kanto which should take the lead of revival had suffered a great deal of damage too.
We collected materials from the girl who is helping animal protection activities in Chiba Prefecture.
Various events in Japan had become a stop and adjournment.
The fireworks display of Ishinomaki-shi, Miyagi was carried out,
and another prefecture was also followed.
Sendai airport is restarted

Stricken area Tochigi Prefecture
course was restored too.
The event for spreading activity of a cookie'sproject was also carried out.
Mr. Imai who did the logo design of the project came for aid.
The girl has looked after the cat of earthquake victim .
She will separate in its cat and March.
This cat is a great friend of mine.
She is lonely.
It was early that one year passed this year.
Although damage was serious, there were kind people too.
We would like to make an image with friends from now on for the persons of a stricken area, or animals.
Thank you for the viewing and listening.