【媽媽唔易做】你是事事介入的緊張型媽媽嗎?
⭐過份保護小朋友會變溫室小花
⭐適度關心也要適度放手
#星期六隻眼閉
別做焦慮型媽媽
現今世代媽媽不易做,總想為小朋友做最好的選擇,結果不知不覺間變成焦慮型媽媽,小孩從小被照顧周到會產生依賴,不如放鬆一點吧!
細心想想平日有哪些令媽媽您「發火」的事,換個角度看其實小事一件不值得大動肝火,肝鬱氣滯令氣血不通容易產生痛症,臉色都變差呢!間中當個隻眼閉媽媽也可以啊!
情境一:爸爸將孩子衣服穿反了
緊張型媽媽:向豬隊友開火,並幫孩子重新穿衣服。
隻眼閉媽媽:由他吧!有穿衣服就好。
情境二:孩子堅持穿配搭起來效果很糟糕的衣服
緊張型媽媽:勸說小孩穿媽媽襯好的衣服
隻眼閉媽媽:由他吧!他喜歡就好。
情境三:小孩吃蛋糕時滿臉都是忌廉
緊張型媽媽:見一次抹一次,甚至忍不住主動餵食。
隻眼閉媽媽:由他吧!吃完才抹臉。
情境四:小孩不小心跌倒
緊張型媽媽:立即上前抱起小孩安撫
隻眼閉媽媽:鼓勵小孩自己站起來
情境五:小孩見到路邊的花很美伸手想摸
緊張型媽媽:拉開小孩並大叫「污糟」
隻眼閉媽媽:叫他溫柔地摸一摸,提醒吃東西前洗手就好。
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Don’t be an anxious mom
Being a mother in this modern era is tough, as they wish to make the best choices for their children. As a result, they turn into mothers who worry too much. Mothers who take good care of the children in every aspect might cause the little ones to be heavily dependent on them. Hence, it is important to let loose from time to time!
Can you think of scenarios that have driven you mad? Getting mad over little things in life can cause the stagnation of the qi in the liver and disrupt the circulation of the qi and blood, hence, causing us to experience pain and discomfort. We might even lose the radiance on our skin! As mothers, we might feel better if we can learn not to be hypercritical of all the things around us.
Scenario 1 – When helping the baby change, dad flipped the clothes inside out.
Anxious mom: starts bashing the dad and help the baby wear properly
Chill mom: Nah, let him be, as long as the baby has clothes on.
Scenario 2 – The child insists on wearing clothes of his/her own choice but do not look good.
Anxious mom: advises the child to put on clothes we prepared for him/her
Chill mom: Nah, let him/her be, as long as he/she is happy.
Scenario 3 – Cream smeared all over the child’s face when he/she is eating cakes.
Anxious mom: keeps on cleaning his/her face; wants to spoon-feed the child
Chill mom: Nah, let him/her be. We will do the cleaning once he/she finished the cakes.
Scenario 4 – The child trips and falls.
Anxious mom: carries the child and comfort him/her
Chill mom: encourages the child to stand up on his/her own
Scenario 5 – The child wants to touch the beautiful flowers by the road
Anxious mom: pulls the child away and yells: “Don’t touch! It’s dirty!”
Chill mom: tells the child to pat the flower gently and reminds him/her to wash hands before eating
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A salute to Mr Yuen Kung Yi (Lee Yee)
The Hong Kong version of national security law not being found on the agenda of the Standing Committee of the National People's Congress does not connote backpedalling, but just a brief lull for the international community to come to terms with it and Hong Kong people to assimilate its impact. The introduction of the law will be right back on track at the right moment after that.
相關新聞:Paradoxical theory of Hong Kong organising U.S. riots (Lee Yee)
In the international community, except for North Korea and several other nations, all civilized countries condemned the law. China has been besieged and isolated since. Although, by whistling past the graveyard, the HKSAR government claimed that the impact of stern sanctions allegedly to be imposed by the US is limited, China and Hong Kong will be buckling with merely a ban on using SWIFT for international money transfer. No wonder Yang Jie-chi inquired for US Secretary of State Affairs Mike Pompeo in Hawaii on behalf of Xi Jin-ping in no time. The intention of China to mitigate the enmities of Hong Kong and the world towards the national security law is just plain as a pikestaff.
In Hong Kong, in the very beginning, the announcement of enacting the law did make a commotion in the mass, yet later on, quite some lawyers, politicians and democrats started to succumb to it. Being oblivious to the fact that the Basic Law shall deny Beijing the legislative power over Hong Kong, they have been dickering whether the law should be effectuated in accordance with Hong Kong’s legal procedure by the law enforcement institutions in Hong Kong and the defendants tried by the courts in the city. By doing so, they have no objection to the law anymore in effect, but a rather humble request for a smidgen of rickety protection for Hong Kong people, and the legal professionals so that they can still wrest a living from lawsuits, which is indeed chipping away at the rights of Hong Kong people.
相關新聞:American violence v.s. Hong Kong violence (Lee Yee)
Meanwhile, China is working hard. Deng Zhong-hua, an unknow Deputy Director of Hong Kong and Macau Office, said in Shenzhen: The SAR has the major responsibility for conserving national security, and the law enforcement and jurisdiction should be accomplished by the SAR. But he indicated that the central government shall preserve its jurisdiction over some “extremely serious cases” under particular conditions. He did not elaborate what “extremely serious cases” are, but just said that the cases are “scarce”.
We are already familiar with the abovementioned situation. In the early 80s, a commotion and general feeling of insecurity in the mass was also created in the very beginning when China was believed to recover Hong Kong’s sovereignty. Before long, Hong Kong people had succumbed to “one country, two systems” and “Hong Kong people ruling Hong Kong” by concocting a course of self-comforting medicine called “democracy ruling Hong Kong” for the democrats and those who were unwilling or unqualified to emigrate. Having taken the drug for decades, has “democracy ruling Hong Kong’ been realized yet?
With the iron law upheld by most countries that vested interest comes first, the authoritarian rests assured: no plans are unsuccessful by baiting traps. Believe it or not.
Seeing the legal professionals tend to succumb to the introduction of the law after initiating the objections by themselves, the Hong Kong people who are still clear-headed are more than despondent. About a month ago, an elderly KOL named Yuen Kung-yi popped up. Despite having been living in the US, Beijing and Shanghai for decades, where he has gained ample experience in establishing relationships with politicians and businessmen, he has carried off most endorsements from Hong Kong netizens by scoring 6-digit views for each video clip he posted. With persistence in the Hong Kong values and unique perspectives and deliberations concerning Hong Kong, he is sincere and pragmatic, neither flinching nor self-seeking. He has even flied to Washington, D.C. to lobby the US politicians in the past few days with the belief that actions speak way louder than words. Amid the low morale among Hong Kong people, his remarks are pretty inspiring and heartening.
In his early speech, he objected to Hong Kong’s politicians and legal professionals pulling back, deeming that a discouragement to US’s sanctions. Yesterday, his daughter Erica Yuen, former TV artiste, wrote on her Facebook page that her father “is smeared out of context with fake old news and conspiracy after having just a few words of criticism of a local politician, but he “is being occupied with serious business in Washington, D.C., so will not have time and effort on tattle and prate.
“Tattle and prate” is, however, bitterly disappointing. Hong Kong has been descending for more than 20 years, not only because of the intervention of the CCP, but also the mentality of dragging out an ignoble life advocated by some politicians and KOLs. Whenever an incisive viewpoint is found, they are busy witch hunting. No wonder the CCP has Hong Kong by the short hairs.
I admire Mr. Yuen Kung-yi for his coming forward as a businessman to speak up in the darkest hour, not to mention the enormous number of views online that has suggested his viewpoints represent mainstream public opinions. One of his most significant remarks is: The last laugh lies on Hong Kong people’s resolve.
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《政經關不了》主持人彭文正登上《紐約時報》
2020總統大選倒數4天,總統蔡英文的「論文門」引發國際關注。政經傳媒政論節目《政經關不了》率先揭發相關醜聞後,美國大報《紐約時報》日前來台採訪主持人彭文正,這此的訪問,除了針對蔡英文的學歷造假事件外,彭文正也回應有關假新聞與假訊息的相關議題,報導在美國當地時間6日刊出。
該篇報導稱,在本週投票前,對蔡英文的一連串攻擊,加劇了不信任和高度陰謀的氣氛。儘管蔡英文的母校倫敦經濟學院(LSE)已經證實了蔡的學位,但政界人士和媒體都質疑蔡英文的博士論文是否屬實。彭文正在每天都會開播的YouTube節目上,揭露了相關訊息。《紐約時報》稱,《政經關不了》目前擁有173,000名的訂閱者,且節目內容受到中國媒體的關注與報導,讓有關蔡英文論文的資訊也在中國流傳。
曾任電視主播的彭文正表示,他曾經支持蔡英文,並為他當選台灣女總統而感到自豪。針對《紐時》詢問是否擔心被塗抹為假新聞,彭文正回應,讓新聞與虛假新聞相互競爭,我相信大多數人並不愚蠢。最終,真相總會大白。
——原載《EPM政經傳媒》:
https://www.epmedia.info/article-2/20190107-1
Awash in Disinformation Before Vote, Taiwan Points Finger at China
By Raymond Zhong
The New York Times Jan. 6, 2020
節選(全文請見:https://www.nytimes.com/2020/01/06/technology/taiwan-election-china-disinformation.html)
Politicians and media outlets have questioned whether Ms. Tsai’s doctoral dissertation is authentic, even though her alma mater, the London School of Economics, has confirmed that it is.
Dennis Peng hosts a daily YouTube show dedicated to proving otherwise. His channel has 173,000 subscribers. Theories about Ms. Tsai’s dissertation have circulated in China, too, with the help of the Chinese news media.
Mr. Peng, a former television anchor, once supported Ms. Tsai. He was proud that Taiwan elected a female president. Now he says he is not being paid by anyone, including China, to crusade against her.
He is not worried about being smeared as fake news.
“Let news and fake news compete against each other,” Mr. Peng said. “I trust that most people aren’t so stupid. Everybody eventually figures it out.”
Steven Lee Myers contributed reporting. Wang Yiwei contributed research from Beijing.
https://www.nytimes.com/2020/01/06/technology/taiwan-election-china-disinformation.html
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